metro Reunited from page 8 anyone speak about it afterward. Bass himself did not talk about it for 25 years, and his own parents died never knowing what their son had experienced. "But what I witnessed there made me know I did have something to fight for," Bass says. "On that day, my vision broadened. I now understood that human suffering was not relegated to just me. Pain and suffering is universal, and it can touch all of us:' In Motion In 1985, Shulman and his wife, Passie, who live in West Bloomfield, flew to New York City to attend a reunion of Buchenwald survivors. Among the attendees was the Jewish chaplain who arranged for Shulman to be transported to a hospital in Paris — along with eight of Shulman's friends because he wouldn't go otherwise. An uncle in Detroit spon- sored him to settle here, and he arrived at an orphanage a year to the month after liberation. Also among the guests was Leon Bass and his wife, Mary. Bass and Shulman spoke briefly, as everyone did, had their photo snapped and moved on. "I had no idea who he was, other than one of the hundreds of soldiers who had been in the area at that time," Shulman recalls. Last year, a friend sent a YouTube video to Shulman's wife, Passie, thinking she might find it interesting because it talked about Buchenwald. She watched the video, becoming more excited as it went on, and called her husband in to watch with her. The video showed Dr. Leon Bass, a now-retired high school principal in Philadelphia, speaking about racism, anti-Semitism and the Holocaust. "As he was telling his story of his bat- talion liberating Buchenwald, it was as if it was the other side of Perry's story," Passie says. "It was a complete parallel:' Says Shulman, "I knew immediately that this was the American soldier I had seen walking toward us, coming to save us." He also recognized his face as the one he had met at the reunion almost 30 years ago. He pulled out his scrapbook, and there was a photo of him with his arms around Mary Bass on one side, and Leon Bass on the other. Shulman called his son, Greg. "My dad said he wanted to get in con- tact with Leon Bass," says Greg Shulman, who lives in Farmington Hills. "So I put into play the ultimate game of Jewish geography:' He discovered that Bass lectured around the country about his experienc- es and contacted a synagogue in Ohio where Bass had spoken. He contacted the Anti-Defamation League, which often invited Bass to speak. 10 October 16 • 2014 to love the unlovable:" Bass recalls. "After the war, for many years, I tried. Oh, it was so hard:' Then he heard Martin Luther King Jr. speak about his dream on the Mall in Washington, D.C. "He was a little guy," Bass says, 'but when he spoke, he became a giant. And I realized again that my mom was right. It was a daily struggle, but change starts with yourself. Mr. Shulman and I both have learned that we can't make change with hate:' Shulman, right, and Romanian-born author, political activist and Nobel Prize laure- ate Elie Wiese!, left, were likely together during the Death March from Auschwitz- Birkenau to Buchenwald, and were bunkmates in the latter. A character modeled after Shulman appears in Wiesel's book Night. "It was as if we knew each other so well," Shulman said. He finally spoke the words he'd thought for 70 years. "I told him, 'If it was not for you, I would not be here. And he called the Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C.; someone told Greg that Bass had written a book, Good Enough: One Man's Memoir on the Price of a Dream. The museum put him in touch with Bass' publisher, who put Greg in touch with Bass' daughter, who contacted her father — who was thrilled. This summer, on July 27 — the Shulman's 56th wedding anniversary — Greg told his parents they would be driving to Philadelphia over Labor Day weekend to meet Leon Bass. "I just looked at him," Shulman says. "I was so very touched:' Giving Thanks "When we met, we both started crying:' Shulman says. "It was as if we knew each other so well:' And he finally spoke the words he'd thought for 70 years. "I told him, 'If it was not for you, I would not be here:" The men told each other about their lives before the war and leading up to Germany. They pored over photo albums, papers and articles. After many years of silence, both men had ultimate- ly realized it was their responsibility to speak out and tell their stories, and both had lectured extensively across the country. They discussed the many traits and experiences they had in common, the ideologies that served as a source for courage in the face of prejudice, Bass as an African-American, and Shulman as a Jew. And they talked, like old friends, about the lives they had created for themselves after the war. "The only reason I had to survive was to eventually be a witness:' says Shulman, now 85. "And then, to live a life worth living:' With the help of the Detroit-area United Jewish Appeal, Shulman found a profession as a jeweler and raised a fam- ily — his own life worth living. Between his sons Marc and Greg, and daughter Renea, Shulman has six grandchildren. "Those children are my soul," Shulman says. Bass also created a life "that showed I am good enough," he says. A life of mor- als, respect, love, children, four grand- children and, recently, a great-grand- daughter. And later this month, at age 89, he will be traveling to Washington, again at the invitation of the ADL, to speak. "My mother always told me, 'You have Gratitude Perry Shulman is very cautious when telling his story. He is careful not to divulge too many details because they must be precise. He has so many thou- sands of memories, every day still, and it's important to him that they mesh. His experience has been documented in lectures, newspaper articles and hours of footage by the Shoah Foundation. Life, says Shulman, is a series of moments. Each moment, there are a million opportunities for our lives to change, for good or bad. "There were a million times over that I could have died, that others died doing the same things I was or standing right next to me," Shulman says. "A second later, an inch further. Everything could have been different for me:' He marvels at this and will never understand why his moments brought him survival, while others' did not. When he was 12, just before deportation to his first camp, Shulman appealed, miraculously, to the humanity of an Oberlieutenant, who shoved him into a shop away from the soldiers. When a Nazi came in and found Shulman, he raised his machine gun at the boy. But the Oberlieutenant, named Dormeyer, walked up behind him and knocked the firearm down. A moment later, Shulman would have been shot. While at Buchenwald, Shulman came face-to-face with Ilse Koch, known as the Witch of Buchenwald and collector of lampshades made from prisoners' skin. Shulman stared at her, not know- ing who she was. On that day, she stared back at him and then just turned away. After Buchenwald was liberated, the American soldiers opened the German warehouse and the ravenous prisoners who had the strength devoured the raw bacon and ham they found — many contracted dysentery and died. Shulman would have, too, had he been able to walk to the warehouse. And if he had not disobeyed his moth- er and not read Uncle Tom's Cabin in secret, he would not have known there were black people in America, and he would have retracted from the approach- ing Leon Bass, the American soldier who was coming to save his life. ❑