spirituality >> Torah portion Well-Rooted Teachings Parshat Shoftim: Deuteronomy 16:18- 21:9: Isaiah 51:12-52:1 "Is the tree of the field a man" ... T here are a lot of Jewish teach- ings based upon the com- parison the Torah makes between a tree and a person. While one may look at a tree and judge its strength based upon its height, branches and leaves, the true resilience of a tree lies in the part of the tree we cannot see, namely its roots. The roots are what keep a tree anchored through the treacherous winds and storms it may face. So, too, for people. We judge each other by the external items we can see such as social status, finan- cial standing, personality and looks; yet the roots of a person lie deeper — in one's character traits and emotions. Even intellect, in comparison, would be external as it still does not define who we are and remains removed and changeable without our core being changing. Yet, our emotions and character, as hard as they are to change, can affect and change us in our entirety. Roots utilize healthy, clean and fresh water to nurture the tree and facilitate its growth. Water is often times compared to knowledge in gen- eral and the Torah in particular. Yet, it is not enough to have the waters and teachings of our sages; we need to be able to ascertain that these waters are being taken in a healthy way, and for this we need a teacher. To change our intellectual pathways and logical thought processes we change the things we read and study, In the words of Ethics of Our Fathers, aseh lecha ray — make for yourself a teacher. It is imperative to our very foundation, and it is inher- ent within the roots that will hold us down through the earthshattering storms of life that we find for our- selves a person that we can confide in, ask for advice from and allow to channel waters of spiritual blessing and growth. It is through this that we become able to handle our many different responsibili- ties and life pressure, and be the "tree" that our family, friends and others count on to stand strong and provide shade and more. A teacher, by definition, is a person that teaches. While many of us default to the people in our lives who are employed as teach- ers in schools and other such roles, it is worthwhile to take a step back and say: "Who in my life is the one that teaches me? Who in my life do I find wise, yet relatable and practical? Who am I not ashamed of and embarrassed to tell them what's actually going on and be willing to ask for help, advice and guidance from? Who do I allow to water my roots with knowledge and inspiration allowing me to grow and strive for new heights?" ❑ Rabbi Yarden Blumstein is the acting spiritual director at the Friendship House in West Bloomfield, an organization focused on building a community of people helping those affected by isolation and other life crises, such as addiction. 2015-2016 Bar/Bat Mitzvah Dates Still Available! B'NAI 12 MOSHE riVt3 ) With an offer like this you can't afford not to! You set your first year dues level Call Steve Fine at the synagogue office at 248-788-0600 for more information f Congregation B'nai Moshe 6800 Drake Road I West Bloomfield, MI 48322 I www.bnaimoshe.org JN August 28 • 2014 55