oints of view >> Send letters to: Ietters@thejewishnews.com Guest Column Editorial Where Are Our Boys? T here are a few general rules implemented by American par- ents from the day that their child utters his or her first word. Look both ways before you cross the street. Never answer the door when mom and dad are not home. Never get into the car with a stranger. Having grown up in West Bloomfield, I, too, was raised with such guidelines. My childhood rulebook was quickly edited upon my arrival to Efrat, Israel, (located in the Gush Etzion region). Due to a lack of buses running within the Gush Etzion bloc, I have become accustomed to using a resource that is considered the norm among my neighbors — Madis tremping (hitch-hiking). Spalt I stand next to an elderly woman and an eighth-grade boy as we wait for a car to pass that is headed to our desired destination. It is customary to tremp from a trempiada (a set spot for hitch hikers); whether that place be within a yishuv (loosely translated as a settlement) or at the marked stations on Route 60. Being that most trempistim are local to the region, they know how to carefully scan the cars and drivers of those stopping to pick them up. As a general rule, when a white Palestinian license plate drives past, the line of index fingers goes down. A yellow license plate, knit kippah and button-down shirt could be seen as the criteria for an ideal tremp. Having been on the other side, I am fully aware that this practice seems absurd and unnecessarily risky. However, just as an Israeli cannot fathom the idea of spending one's life savings on four years of college, an American that has never stepped foot into Israeli culture cannot begin to judge its differences. Nevertheless, opinions on the matter of tremping remain irrelevant. Then came the tragedy of the three Israeli boys who went missing in the West Bank on June 12. I cringe when I read the head- lines of the mainstream media focusing on the "settler" status of these boys and their irresponsible decision to hitch hike. We must immediately refocus all attention on the tragedy at hand. Three sons. Three classmates. Three members of the Jewish people have been kidnapped by ruthless terrorists: Gilad Shaar (16), Eyal Yifrach (19), and Naftali Frenkel (16) are three teenage boys who were sim- ply travelling home from school after com- pleting their end-of-year exams. An unimaginable amount of frustration consumes my body with the knowledge that I am not able to personally return them home to their mothers, fathers, sib- lings and friends. On Sunday night, June 15, I stood among 30,000 weeping souls as we repeated each verse of Psalms 130 after Assaf Yiftach, the brother of Eyal. "I look to the Lord. I look to Him. I await his word" In unison, 30,000 respond: "I look to the Lord. I look to Him. I await his word:' Religious garb or lack thereof was ignored. The sect of Judaism to which each individual belonged was not mentioned. The political opin- ions and agenda of everyone HIS . 00G DOOBIE involved were temporarily set aside. EUROPEAN Shoulder to shoulder, our ANTISEMITISM tears soaked the stones of the BECAME Kotel plaza as we prayed for POLITICALLY the safe return of our boys. At INCORRECT. this point, our contribution is limited to prayer and support of those soldiers putting all of their strength into finding these boys. Culture clashes, political disputes and ego-based opin- ions must be set aside as we plead for the safe and immedi- THINGS ARE ate return of Eyal, Gilad and BACK TO Naftali. ❑ NORMAL Dry Bones " " u"'"' FOR A FEW YEARS AFTER THE HOLOCAUST SLAUGHTER OF EUROPE'S JEWS cag ecartoons com rybones com BUT NOW, APPARENTLY, IN THE NEW EUROPE Madison Spalter, 19, of Efrat, Israel, grew up in West Bloomfield where she attended the Sara Tugman Beit Chabad Torah Center. She made aliyah earlier this year. Rivlin Must Dispel Religious Canards t's a largely ceremonial post, but it does carry the title of president. So what President-Elect Reuven "Rubi" Rivlin of Israel believes cer- tainly matters in the scheme of things within the Jewish state. And he's no believer in the more liberal streams of Judaism, making him a marked man of sorts Reuven "Rubi" Rivlin in a pluralistic nation struggling to loosen the Orthodox-controlled Chief Rabbinate's grip on Israel's religious order. The secular Jew, who once branded Reform Judaism "idol worship," wouldn't say in a 2007 run for president if he'd refer to Reform rabbis by their ordained titles if elected. In a 1989 Israeli newspaper interview, after visiting two Reform synagogues, Rivlin said he was "convinced that this is a completely new religion without any connection to Judaism." Strong stuff. It's also unbefitting of a high-ranking Israeli leader who cut his political spurs in the Knesset and twice served as its speaker, building a reputation for fairness amid disagreements. Descended from a student of the revered Vilna Gaon, it's clear why Rivlin considers commitment to Halachah – Jewish law – his religious benchmark though he's not religiously observant. Belittling a non-Orthodox stream showcases him as narrow-minded, however, not just a traditionalist. Political Backdrop A student of Revisionist Zionism founder Zeev Jabotinsky, Rivlin opposed disengaging from the Gaza Strip in 2005. He opposes a Palestinian state but supports giving Israeli citizenship to West Bank Palestinians. There's politi- cal friction between Rivlin and Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu despite both being part of the Likud party. Netanyahu has not become embroiled in the controversy over religious pluralism. Rivlin, 74, is a Jerusalem native who ardently fights for civil liberties in Israel, but who has drawn the line against official Israeli recognition of non- Orthodox streams of Judaism, notably the Progressive (Reform) and Masorti (Conservative) streams. In May, Rivlin declared in the Knesset that determining Jewish status "becomes a civic definition rather than a religious definition" should Reform or Conservative conversions standards be adopted. Shifting View Sensing he might succeed Shimon Peres and become Israel's 10th presi- dent, Rivlin has begun to moderate his hard-line stance. In June, he told the Jerusalem Post: "I respect any person chosen to lead his or her community, and God forbid I invalidate him because he is from one stream or another. The President's Office represents all streams and denominations in society. The job of the president is to bridge conflicts, not create conflicts." Well put ... if he means it. Peres, ever wise, wrapped his congratulatory message to Rivlin within the carefully cloaked admonition that the presidency Is a position that brings with it responsibility; you have to consider your every word and every action, but you will do it successfully because you are, to your core, a good person." But deeds resonate more than words. Even Rivlin's calling a Reform rabbi by his title, should he have the heart to do so, wouldn't be enough. As Rabbi Julie Schonfeld, an officer of the Conservative movement's Rabbinical Assembly, told JTA: "There are politi- cal figures in Israel who certainly call us rabbi. That doesn't mean they have done anything to change the law: making state funding of religion available to everyone on an equal basis or having no state funding of religion." Rivlin will be sworn in July 24. He has pledged to help build unity and understanding within Israel and to help galvanize coexistence among its diverse population groups. Recognizing the religiously pluralistic nature of the Jewish state would be a grand start. May Rivlin live up to his acceptance speech vow to be the president of all Israelis: ''Jews, Arabs, Druze, rich, poor those who are more observant and those who are less." ❑ 42 June 26 • 2014