obituaries The Patriarch Who Led By Example Esther Allweiss Ingber Contributing Writer I amily, business and philanthropy were the three pillars of life for Jerome "Jerry" Schostak, retired chairman and chief executive officer of today's Schostak Brothers & Company in Livonia. And Jerry took pride in bringing these important pillars together whenever pos- sible, as expressed in the eulogy by son Robert "Bobby" Schostak. The commercial real estate company founded by Jerry's father, Lou, in 1920 now includes a fourth generation focused on shopping center development, acquisi- tions, mixed-use, and commercial and residential land development. More than 25 years ago, the family diversified into the restaurant industry beginning with Burger King restaurants throughout Michigan. Success in these endeavors has made it possible for the clan to play together and stay close, while also taking on commu- nity leadership roles and making chari- table gifts. Jerry Schostak, 80, of Franklin, the patriarch who always set a good example, died from multiple myeloma, a blood cancer, on May 9, 2014. Forty-one imme- diate family members took comfort in his surviving the illness 11 years when doctors predicted no more than three to five years. The funeral service on May 12 was led by Rabbi Aaron Bergman of the Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills, where the Schostaks belong. Jerry was born July 3, 1933, in Detroit to Goldie and Lou Schostak, formerly of Milwaukee. A son of Ukrainian immi- grants, Lou entered the real estate indus- try rather than join a long line of rabbis in his family. After graduating Central High School, Jerry earned a degree in business admin- istration from the University of Michigan in 1954. He remained devoted to U-M football and basketball and his Sigma Alpha Mu Fraternity. Married with four young sons, Jerry took over the family business when his father suffered a stroke. Starting in the 1960s, "Jerry built a blazing real estate business:' said Rabbi Bergman. "He was an early developer of the concept of open air shopping centers:' Schostak Brothers & Co. developed Oakland, Livonia, Macomb and the original Somerset malls. Jerry introduced the country's first Kmart location with a parking lot in front. The Team Schostak Family Restaurants division of the company develops restau- rants, including Burger King, Del Taco, Olga's Kitchen and, most recently, the Applebee's chain in Michigan. F Life Of Achievement ing of the capital campaign, named the Hillel campus the "Schostak Family In 2008, Jerry received his first Lifetime Achievement Award from the Urban Land Campus:' Institute, recognizing his outstanding Steve Freedman, Hillel's head of school, leadership in the real estate business. said Jerry "had a passion for Jewish edu- cation as a means of keeping family and The Jewish Federation of Metropolitan community together. He believed Hillel Detroit will acknowledge Jerry with a Lifetime Leadership delivered both an out- Award, its highest trib- standing general educa- ute, during Federation's tion and Jewish educa- 10th Annual Leadership tion, and Jerry helped to Awards Night at the ensure that through his Berman Center in West extraordinary generosity Bloomfield on May 29. to the school:' For Federation, Jerry Executive Committee member Dan Mendelson, chaired the Capital Campaign at Hillel Day on behalf of Southfield- School and both the based Akiva Hebrew Day School, said, "Akiva Capital Needs Division and the Real Estate and is proud to carry the Property Management Schostak name on its Committee. He was a campus, and the educa- Jerry Schosta k member of the Alliance tion our students receive will help carry on Jerry for Jewish Education Committee, the Schostaks legacy. His Investment Committee, and the Planning major gift to our school campus impacted Akiva at a critical time:' and Allocations Steering Committee. Additionally, the Schostak Family Jerry also served as an officer and board member of Federation, the United Jewish Foundation Endowed Fund at Oakland University in Auburn Hills helped to Foundation and the Jewish Fund. Along with community leaders Mark establish a Judaic Studies minor in the Schlussel and the late Robert Sosnick, university's College of Arts and Sciences. Jerry was instrumental in the sale of Sinai Schostak company co-CEO Bobby Hospital in Detroit to the Detroit Medical Schostak, speaking at his father's service, Center, which retained the Sinai name on said the foundation was among the earli- its Huron Valley-Sinai and Sinai-Grace est donors in establishing the Oakland hospitals. University William Beaumont School of Medicine. The family also gave money to Attorney David Page, a communal worker for decades with his friend Jerry, U-M's Ross Business School, where Jerry's had represented the DMC side. "You daughter and son-in-law Stefanie and Joel Hartman, and nephew Josh Schostak, will always knew where you stood with Jerry:' attend this fall. said Page. "He had strong opinions that were deeply felt:' All told, the sale of Sinai Hospital was Close - Knit Family a win-win proposition and a highlight of As sick as he was, Jerry did not miss Stefanie's wedding on March 30 in Aspen, Jerry's volunteerism. The DMC benefited; Colo. and cash proceeds from the sale of Sinai "Jerry threw away his walker and took Hospital established the Jewish Fund, now my arm, and then Stefanie's, to walk her boasting $60 million in assets. down the aisle said his wife of 38 years, "It has already provided over $50 mil- Elyse Schostak. After having four boys lion dollars of support to Jewish and non- Jewish organizations in the Detroit area," from his first marriage, Jerry had two girls with Elyse. The couple met through said Scott Kaufman, Federation's chief sailing, which Jerry learned attending executive officer. Camp Tamakwa in Ontario, Canada. The A Jewish Legacy Schostaks belonged to Bay View Yacht Kaufman said Jerry especially "believed in Club in Detroit. the importance of building and maintain- In 2009, Elyse joined the children and ing a strong Jewish community and was a a large number of family members when great supporter of many of our important they chartered a racing sailboat and won causes and institutions:' the Port Huron to Mackinac Race on Robert Naftaly, a former Federation Jerry's 75th birthday. Jerry had retired president who worked with Jerry, agreed: from racing with several boats called "Next to his family and business, the Fujimo in the late 1980s. Jewish community, Israel and Jewish edu- "We raced Port Huron to Mackinac, cation were very important to Jerry and a coming in first to finish and first over- big part of his personal identity:' all:' said Bobby, also fondly recalling his In 1997, Hillel Day School in father's early sailboat named Brothers Farmington Hills, following Jerry's chair- Four. Of the Mackinac race triumph, Elyse said, "We filled up the boat with family to have one last great time on the water:' Avid skiers in Aspen since 1976, Jerry and Elyse built a house in the Starwood area for their family to gather year-round, especially during school breaks and major holidays. The house is large because "Jerry want- ed us all to be under one roof' Elyse said. "All we wanted was for them to look out for each other:' Sharing Ethics, Wisdom "Almost 25 years ago, when I was running a ski shop in Aspen," Kaufman recalled, "Jerry and Elyse would frequently invite me, a lone Jew from Detroit, to many din- ners at their Aspen home. I never had a conversation with Jerry where I did not learn something:' In his eulogy, grandson Michael Schostak said that a great CEO like his grandfather "builds a foundation" and passes down his wisdom. Bobby also noted, "Young men begin- ning their professional lives learned from him to be ethical businessmen:' Because of Jerry's career and philan- thropic contributions, Rabbi Bergman said, "So many who benefited may never know that something good happened in their life because of him:' Naftaly said, "Jerry's death is a big loss to our community, but he has great chil- dren and grandchildren who are following in his footsteps:' Jerome Schostak is survived by his wife, Elyse Schostak; children, Robert (Nancy) Schostak, David (Elise) Schostak, Tzvi (Dorit) Schostak, Mark (Lillian) Schostak, Lindsey (Assaf) Gal and Stefanie (Joey) Hartman; grandchildren, Michael (Becca) Schostak, Jeffrey (Rachel) Schostak, Jody (Fred) Rappaport, Jake Schostak, Dana Schostak, Naama (Dovy) Singal, Talya (Ari) Teger, Leora (Avi) Henschel, Itamar Schostak, Yona Schostak, Josh Schostak, Danielle Schostak, Seth Schostak and Lauren Schostak; great-grandchildren, Olive, Sailor and Reuben Schostak, Aliana, Maayan and Ariel Singal, and Barak Teger; and the mother of his sons, Arlene Tilchin. He was the devoted son of the late Louis and the late Goldie Schostak; cherished brother of the late Dolores Roth; loving grandfather of the late Jayne Schostak; dear son-in-law of the late Clarence and the late Elaine Guttentag; dear brother-in- law of the late Stuart Guttentag. Interment was at Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to Reuben Phoenix Schostak Congenital Heart Research Fund, 1000 Oakbrook Suite 100, Ann Arbor, MI 48104, (734) 998-6893, www.victors.us/reubenfund . Arrangements were by Ira Kaufman Chapel. ❑ Obituaries on page 142 Obituaries JN May 22 • 2014 141