The gear Follow through on your resolution to get fit. By Harry Kirsbaum ou've made it through Thanksgivukah, office holiday parties and New Year's Eve. You've made a New Year's resolution to get in shape and drop some weight (again), and promised yourself that you won't let your health club membership lapse (again). So how do you turn past failure into success? According to local experts, the answers are patience, diet and setting realistic short- and long-term goals. "People give up resolutions because they don't lose the weight fast enough," said Sarah Kuretsky, wellness director at Franklin Athletic Club in Southfield. "They didn't gain the weight in a few weeks; they shouldn't expect to lose it in a few weeks. They give up because they get bored; they're doing things they don't love." The most important thing to know is to be kind to yourself, she said. "Maybe in your 20s you ran, but now in your 50s your body has changed and needs different things. Don't go at it crazy — go at it slow and steady. If it's your first time working out, you might not be able to do an hour. So try 20 minutes." Jordan Levin, owner of Crossfit Bloomfield in Bloomfield Hills, said diet is key. "I would start by looking at their diet. Eat real food, no processed food," he said. "Cut out the sugar and processed food one step at a time?' Michael Minielly, personal trainer at the Jewish Community Center Fitness Club in West Bloomfield, spoke of set- ting unrealistic goals. "A goal at the gym seems to have a finish line on it: 'I want to lose 30 pounds;" he said. "What happens when you do? Of course you need a goal, but it needs to keep changing." There's a fallacy that you have to work too hard in the gym, he said. "If I could, I'd stress to everyone that getting on a treadmill for 30 minutes a day and moving your arms is not a hard thing to do," he said. "Strength training is not 26 January 2014 I RED THREAD Franklin Athletic Club something that should be thought of as using heavy weights; it should be done with moderate weights with a pace?' There is no reason to be intimidated by gyms. "If you feel intimidated and don't know what to do, hire a personal trainer," Kuretsky said, "even if it's only for a few sessions, just to give you a few ideas on what to do. People aren't paying attention to you; they are paying attention to what they need?' Minielly agreed. "I should be able to give enough knowledge in four sessions to help anyone out," he said. "My clients come in and find their niche, going to classes or getting on a treadmill. Suc- cessful people come in here and find their niche. The unsuccessful people come in here — they don't talk to any- one, don't ask any questions?' QUANTITY AND QUALITY When starting out a fitness routine, www.redthreadmagazine.conn