oints of view >> Send letters to: letters@thejewishnews.corn Editorial Turkey, Israel Must Find Renewed Ties ir urkey's demand that Israel halt its blockade of the Gaza Strip deflated Israel's bid to normalize ties between the two Middle East powers. For Israel to lift the sea blockade as long as Hamas, a terror- ist organization, rules Gaza would be extremely dangerous. Hope bubbled up on March 22 when, at President Obama's urging, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu partially apologized in a phone con- versation to Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan for "operational errors" committed by Israel during the ill-fated May 2010 raid on the Mavi Marmara ship, part of a Turkish- flagged aid flotilla, as it sought to break a maritime blockade of Gaza. Netanyahu agreed to compensate families of nine Turkish Humanitarian Relief Foundation members killed in the violence when Israeli naval com- mandos boarded the ship. And he con- ceded to allowing more humanitarian goods into Gaza. Diplomacy between Israel and Turkey, two historic allies, essen- tially stopped in the aftermath of the bloody sea incident. Israel issued a statement saying Netanyahu's apology would restore normalization between Jerusalem and Ankara, including the exchange of ambassadors. Israel's overtures seeking diplomat- ic renewal with Turkey are significant in a region where Jewish-Islamic ten- sion runs high. The good times that Turkey and Israel shared in the 1990s degenerated as a result of: • Erdogan's rise to power in 2003 and the brutality he wrought against the minority Kurds; • America's prolonged war in Iraq and its potential impact on Turkey; • The Israeli army's reported "disproportionate" force against Palestinians in the 2008-09 Gaza war. On March 24, Erdogan, apparently feeling heat from Turkish hardliner criticism of Israel's newfound PR success, wavered. He declared that Netanyahu also would have to end the Gaza embargo – a certain nonstarter in negotiations involving Israel. Only a complete cessation of missiles fired from Gaza on southern Israel would bring relaxed sea passage into Gaza, insisted Israel in a bold statement issued the same day. Three days ear- lier, on the second day of Obama's visit to the region, at least four rock- ets were fired from Gaza at southern Israel. That marked the second such attack since an Egyptian-brokered truce ended Israel's Pillar of Defense operation in Gaza last November. Netanyahu's seeming epiphany in apologizing has roots in the threat posed by Syria as its civil war esca- lates. In a March 23 Facebook post, the prime minister wrote: "It's impor- tant that Turkey and Israel, which both share a border with Syria, are able to communicate with each other, and this is also relevant to other regional challenges." Consider the compelling economic incentive of Israel possibly exporting billons of dollars to Turkey and beyond as a byproduct of improved relations, reported the Wall Street Journal. Turkey, a nation of 76 million, including 26,000 Jews, is a good counter to Iran for dominance in the region and also a somewhat demo- Turkey's Recep Tayyip Erdogan cratic alternative to Saudi Arabia and its oppressive monarchy. Its ties to Europe, though tenuous, make Turkey an important regional player. Notably, Israel and Turkey each found the will to crack open the rec- onciliation door by extending help during an earthquake in Turkey in 2011 and a forest fire in Israel in 2010. Netanyahu and Erdogan must keep talking; they can't let the Gaza blockade ultimately destroy reaching full rapprochement. The two nations, bound at the geographic hip by their Ottomon Empire roots, remain too integral to the embattled region's future to maintain a cold war. ❑ Guest Column Anti-Zionism Is Anti-Semitism Why we need to have the conversation. I Brenda Rosenberg with Sarnia Bahsoun D uring the past 12 years of inter- faith efforts, I've had numerous conversations with Christians, Muslims, Arabs and African Americans that anti-Zionism is anti-Semitism. Some were open to understanding my point of view, some were polite, but unshakable in their belief: "We have nothing against Jews; Zionists and Zionism are the prob- lem. Zionism is a crime against humanity" or "Zionism is racism" Some were almost violent. I feared for my safety when a woman at a church in Birmingham stood up and moved toward me, emphatically shaking her fist and saying, "Choose! Choose! You can't be a Zionist and a humanist:' I left the church emotionally shaken but physi- cally unharmed. My concern rose again when I heard Prime Minister Erdogan of Turkey at a U.N. meeting in Vienna on Feb. 28 of last year express the very mixed message: "Just as with Zionism, anti-Semitism and 40 April 11 • 2013 Fascism, it has become necessary to view Islamophobia as a crime against human- ity: , His words and the condemnations that followed his speech created a tectonic rift. While condemnation is important, con- demnation alone deepens the divide, rein- forcing core beliefs and polarizing nations. In situations of conflict, we can choose to use the tension to deepen our understand- ing of the issues surrounding conflict or allow the tension to separate us further. In our soon to be published book, TENSION: How an Arab and Jewish Zionist use tension to transform conflict, Samia Bahsoun, my Arab colleague and co- founder of the Tectonic Leadership Center for Conflict Transformation and Cross Cultural Communication, and I share our paradoxical methodology to address the barriers to peace. The Z Word The "Z" word, one of the hot buttons of any conversation on anything to do with the Middle East, was an electrifying point of tension between Samia and me from our very first conversation in January 2009. I introduced myself to Samia as a Jewish Zionist who cared deeply about the war between Israel and Gaza. Hearing the word Zionist caused a very negative reac- tion from Samia, a pro-Palestinian Arab and ardent anti-Zionist. She barely heard the "who cared deeply" piece of the con- versation. This is where most conversations end. Luckily for us, it was the beginning of a three-year journey to identify the hot but- ton issues and create a process that can transform conflict and build a new rela- tional architecture. The Tectonic Leadership model we created is based on three disciplines and commitments. The following is how we used the process to address Zionism. You must be willing to collaborate with people from the opposite side of conflict and take joint ownership in transforming conflict. Samia and I committed to facing challenges together and seeking solutions together. Use the tension surrounding conflict as an opportunity to deepen understanding Samia Bahsoun and Brenda Rosenberg and engage the other. Samia shared her thoughts on Zionism — "Zionism is a ter- rorist Jewish expansionist movement that justifies taking Palestinian land and is the cause of the Arab-Israeli conflict:' Samia, who lost her grandmother and great-aunt to Israeli raids on southern Lebanon in 1982 and suffered losses in the 2006 war, is convinced that Israeli attacks on Lebanon are part of the Zionist ambi- tion to expand Israel's borders under the disguise of self-defense and national secu- rity. She believes that Zionism is racism because it calls for a Jewish state, denying Arab citizens equal rights in Israel. For me, this was the greatest interfaith challenge I had faced. It was very difficult to hear her anger and beliefs — so different from mine. It was