arts & entertainment Warsaw iitWest Bloomfield Hol r® Writer Irene Miller chronicles her :Icr ns etwex L e:o : r es Suzanne Chessler I Contributing Writer Bloomfield. "Nothing can compare to it. "Of my three children, Naomi always was the one who asked me to tell her about my life, but I kept postponing efore the title page of Into No Man's Land: A that because I was not eager to talk about those early Historical Memoir, there is a picture of author times. Irene Miller. It shows her during the summer of "After she died, I thought about all the things we 1939, when her family enjoyed a cottage in Poland. didn't talk about. For me to put my memoir in the form The image of a well-groomed youngster, showing of talking to Naomi kept her name alive, and that was braids secured by ribbons, stands in contrast to the bulk satisfying." of the text, which chronicles the deprivations she would Miller, who earned three degrees in America and later endure because of Nazi occupation and an escape worked as a health-care administrator, began writing to Soviet territory. formally with a book about the mother-daughter rela- Miller, often writing in the present tense, brings tionship she cherished. Although Miller could not find readers directly into the struggles she experienced over a publisher for that book, she had academic encourage- many years, from childhood into her teens. Generally ment for her writing. with her older sister, Halina, the author had to go "The person who edited Naomi and I invited through extended times separated from me to take a class in advanced fiction writing at their parents. the University of Michigan," recalls Miller, who The author describes earned a bachelor's degree in psychology and the desperation of hid- a master's degree in social psychology from ing from soldiers and the University of Cincinnati before getting seeking any token amount a master's degree in business from Xavier 'S Land of food and shelter. University in Cincinnati. pL Nk t 14,15 , r ovLi c Ultimately, after recalling "I took on the challenge about five years her return to Poland, she ago and wrote a chapter of Into No Man's tells of the gratification of Land as a free-standing story. It was read reaching Israel and the United by different students, all much younger, States. who found it interesting but did not \ vow N \l\\ cc Into No Man's Land believe that it was real. I did not tell (University of Michigan- them it was my life story. Dearborn; $15.99), available on "I decided then that it was the time amazon.com, takes its title from to write this memoir. It flowed very the times Miller's family had to fast. While I was writing it, I was survive in the out-of-doors. Those reliving it. More than once, I shed recollections will be discussed dur- tears. The University of Michigan ing two upcoming programs. expressed an interest in publishing Miller, a regular speaker at the the book from a historical point of Holocaust Memorial Center in view." Irene Miller on Farmington Hills, will summarize her Miller, twice divorced, uses her Into No Man's Land: memoir Tuesday, April 9, for members of a church maiden name to retain family iden- "While I was writing book club in Farmington Hills. She will sign cop- tity. She is the only Miller left since it, I was reliving it." ies of her book 2-4 p.m. Sunday, April 14, at the her sister, residing in Israel, goes by Holocaust Center. her husband's surname. "There is a kind of stereotype in thinking of the way Miller's professional identity was established through Jews lived in Poland before the war — that they were all various positions. She has been assistant administrator in shtetls and everyone spoke Yiddish:' explains Miller, at Sinai Hospital, director of substance abuse treatment whose prewar childhood was in the city of Warsaw. at Detroit Medical Center and director of mental health "My family's background and lifestyle were so differ- for Livingston County. In retirement from the health field, the author serves ent from that. I wanted to give exposure to the idea that Jews came from various walks of life and bring readers as a volunteer mediator for the courts, board member along with me on the journey." of the American Jewish Committee and docent at the Miller, who suffered through loss of family during Detroit Institute of Arts. Miller will have a speaking part in I Believe — A the Holocaust, presents her story as if talking to her late daughter, Naomi, the inspiration for an earlier writing Shoah Requiem, a musical liturgy composed by Cantor project. Daniel Gross of Adat Shalom Synagogue. Dedicated to Naomi, who died in a vacation accident long after her the observance of Yom Hashoah, the cantata will be mother settled in the United States, was a writer work- performed at 4 p.m. Sunday, April 7, at Orchestra Hall ing in the film industry. in Detroit and will be broadcast live on Detroit Public Television-Channel 56.1. "The worst experience in my life was the death of my daughter when she was 28," explains the author, "I have learned how to live with pain," she says. "In who moved to Michigan in 1970 and now lives in West spite of what I have gone through, I am a very positive B • Escaping the Nazi horrors in Poland, Irene Miller expe- rienced new terror in the Soviet Union, especially in Siberia, where she encountered frigid weather and cul- ture shock. person. I look at the glass as half full and believe in the power of the human spirit and the potential for good- ness in each one. "I think of myself as fortunate that I survived. More importantly, I have been able to create a life that mat- tered:' Miller's current picture, on the back cover of her book, shows a smile that seems to suggest somebody who has made her life matter, further emphasized through speak- ing engagements. Open to diverse audiences and available through nomanslandmiller@gmail.com, she has appeared before school groups and non-Jewish religious organizations. "I want to use this book as a platform for tolerance," she says. "That has always been part of my philosophy and way of life. This book allows me to show an example of what happens when there is no tolerance." ❑ Irene Miller will sign copies of her book 2-4 p.m. Sunday, April 14, at the Holocaust Memorial Center, 28123 Orchard Lake Road, in Farmington Hills. (248) 553-2400; holocaustcenter.org . To contact Miller regarding speaking to a group about her book, email her at nomanslandmiller@gmail. corn. JN April 4 • 2013 39