>> on the cover The Craig Fahle Show Fed-Up Man of Faith Shmuley Boteach to speak on book challenging God in the face of tragedy. Robin Schwartz I Contributing Writer CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1 "God's role is not to distribute reward "I thought their home was at their and punishment. God's role is to instill in parents' dinner tables:' Boteach adds. us the capacity to take whatever life deals "These are empty platitudes that religion to us:' Kushner says in a 2011 interview offers. You mean the same God who with Shalom TV. "If I have to choose called them home couldn't have pro- between an all-powerful God who is not tected them?" kind and fair, or a kind and fair God who The rabbi encour- is awesomely powerful ages readers to hold God but not totally powerful, THE FED-UP accountable in his new I would rather affirm MAN OF FAITH book, The Fed-Up Man of God's goodness and Faith: Challenging God in compromise his power the Face of Tragedy and rather than the other way Suffering. He'll be in town around:' to discuss the book at 7:30 But Boteach believes Dcrrznc, p.m. Monday, Feb. 11, at God is all-powerful. He the Berman Center for the says we should therefore Performing Arts in West get angry and demand Bloomfield. better. He doesn't mind if Boteach concludes religion people consider his views has made us too subservient. controversial. Some of his He says his goal is to reclaim a tradition other books include Kosher Sex: A Recipe of religious and spiritual defiance that for Passion and Intimacy; Hating Women: dates back to the time of Abraham; he America's Hostile Campaign Against the draws on numerous confrontations with Fairer Sex; and Shalom in the Home: God in the Bible to make his point. Smart Advice for a Peaceful Life. "Suffering has no redemptive quality "None of this is blasphemous," he says. whatsoever:' Boteach says. "It doesn't "Precisely the opposite is true. Not to make us wiser; it doesn't make us stron- question God is to deny that He is in full ger. It makes us cynical and depressed. control of human events. To challenge Suffering is all bad. We have to stop God is to embrace an authentic, human relationship with Him:' justifying it." Boteach suggests the lessons tragedies When asked what would be the ben- can teach can also be learned without efit of challenging God after suffering pain. He believes all human suffering a devastating, irreversible loss, Boteach should be abolished from the Earth. points out it has the power to change a "I have a passionate and absolute person's perspective. belief in God:' he says. "But I am ask- "Ten percent of life is what happens ing people to stop believing they aren't to you:' he says. "Ninety percent is how allowed to question God and that all you respond. Our response has to be to things happen for a good reason; that affirm life — it makes all the difference. their suffering is destiny and a punish- How we respond to suffering can ulti- mately minimize suffering:' ment for their sins. "Humans deserve to ask God to allevi- ate their unjust afflictions, and the judg- Tickets for Rabbi Boteach's Feb.11 mental words of religious leaders only appearance at the Berman Center undermine humans' responsibilities to for the Performing Arts are $18 comfort those who are suffering:' cadet 101.9 fm CM1z1lenging God in III e Face or %aged, and Suffering !ha j ∎ Da anis Ptager ❑ Is God All - Powerful? Boteach's assertions are in stark con- trast with the message of Conservative Rabbi Harold Kushner. Millions of read- ers have found comfort in his popular book, When Bad Things Happen to Good People. It was published in 1981 after the Massachusetts-based rabbi's son died from a degenerative disease at age 14. per person in advance and $25 at the door. To charge by phone, call the Berman box office at (248) 661-1900. For more information, go to www.theberman.org . The Fed-Up Man of Faith: Challenging God in the Face of Tragedy and Suffering is available in hardcover at all major bookstores and online retailers. While You're Living Your Life Craig Is Getting Ready I You Can Count On The Craig Fahle Show Weekdays at 10 a.m. & 7 p.m. WDET is a service of WAYNE STATE UNIVERSITY 1804550 February 7 • 2013 9