>> Torah portion Familial Obligations Are At The Forefront Car Hauling from Coast to Coast Phone: 248-592-1004 Fax: 866-562-1276 HDJTRANS@AOL.COM HOWARD SCHWARTZ PRESIDENT www.hdjtrans.com Parhsat Lech Lecha: Genesis 12:1-17; Isaiah 40: 27-4, 16. 0 ur biblical tradition seems to live in a paradox between the universal and the par- ticular, between our obligations to the world at large and our obliga- tions to our own nation and family. Is there a final resolution to the ten- sion between these two polarities? With Abraham, the paradox takes on an especially poignant human and familial dimension. Abraham is to found a new family-nation in the specific location of the Land of Israel. However, in the next verse the nationalistic fervor of going up to one's own land is somewhat muted by the more universalistic mes- sage of God's next charge: "... And in you shall all families of the earth be blessed:' (Genesis 12:3). From this moment on, both of these elements — a particular nation guar- anteed by God and the broader vision of world peace and redemption — will vie for center stage in the soul of Abraham's descendants. Abraham emerges as a war hero who rescues the five regional nations from the stranglehold of terrorizing kings. Abraham is desirous of con- tinuing his relationship with Lot — even after this nephew and adopted son rejects the Abrahamic teachings and the Land of Israel in favor of Sodom — and even remonstrates with God to save the wicked cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. Abraham is even initially against banish- ing Hagar and Ishmael, wishing everyone to find shelter under the Abrahamic umbrella. The Midrash magnificently cap- tures Abraham's concern with the world and world opinion. There is the paradox of the universal — inclusivistic — versus the national — exclusivistic — takes on the most serious threat to Abraham's equa- nimity in terms of his relationship to Sarah. Remember that they worked together as consecrated partners to accomplish the work of the Lord. Yet, despite Abraham's total devo- tion to Sarah, they differed strongly. Hagar may have been brought into the picture by Sarah, but when Sarah realizes that the behavior of her son Ishmael constitutes a serious threat to her family, she is not willing to compromise: Hagar and her son must be banished. Now, since Abraham's vision wants to embrace all of human- ity, how could he see his own flesh and blood exiled to the desert? Our sages recount the following dialogue between Sarah and Abraham: "I see Ishmael building an altar, capturing grasshop- pers and sacrificing them to idols. If he teaches this idolatry to my son Yitzchak, the name of heaven will be desecrated," says Sarah. Abraham replies to her: "After I gave her such advantages, how can I demote her? Now that we have made her a mistress (of our house), how can we send her away? What will the other people say about us?" Sarah is more than willing to work together with Abraham to save the world — but not at the expense of her own son and family. There is room to be concerned about the world — but not at the price of los- ing one's son and future identity. Our identity as a unique people must first be forged and secured — and then the dialogue with and the redemption of the nations will follow in due course. God teaches Abraham that Sarah is right: "Whatever Sarah says to you, listen to her voice, for through Isaac shall your seed be called:' (Genesis 21:12) Indeed, it is even possible that the subsequent trial of the binding of Isaac comes in no small measure to teach Abraham to properly appreci- ate and be truly committed to his only son and heir Isaac. ❑ Rabbi Shlomo Riskin is chancellor of Ohr Torah Stone Institute and chief rabbi of Efrat Howard Schwartz 248-592-1004 HOJTRANS@AOLCOM •Car Hauling from Coast to Coast •Door to Door •Your Snowbird Specialists •Airport Service Available Family Owned &Operated Licensed & Insured with the Federal Government E nslish Tea Garden 7410 Haggerty Rd., West Bloomfield, MI 48322 (N.E. corner of 14 Mile & Haggerty Rd; across from Hiller's) Open Daily for lunch • High Tea all day long • We sell loose tea Book your "SPECIAL EVENT" on Saturdays only (20 or more min.) Mon & Thurs 11 am-5pm Tues, Wed. & Friday — 11 am-3pm Sat "Tea Events" by appt. only (248) 788-4250 Buy one get second one HALF OFF &77: (Sandwich or Salad only) - excludes lobster & high tea* With this ad. Reservations Suggested. Please present coupon to server when ?, ordering. Expires 11/30/12 www.englishteagarden.net Joseph Hagenbuchart.com Painter Of the Beautiful People Of Earth 248-548-9066 Steve Jobs oil on canvas 24 X 30 To see more: www.JosephHagenbuchArt.com October 25 • 2012 61