"Heaven," says Lori Lipten, "is all about unconditional love." children, Stassinopoulos also takes part in Lipten's monthly "higher empowerment" meetings, which provide ways to empower one's self intuitively, she says. "The lessons I have learned from Lori I will take with me throughout my life," says Stassinopoulos. "Plus, she is warm and fuzzy — I love that about her!" A male 50-something creative director of a marketing agency, who prefers not to use his name for this article, agrees with that assessment. "I immediately.liked Lori" says the Jewish resident of West Bloomfield. "She is a sweet, warm woman" He initially saw Lipten b&ause he likes to visit a variety of energy hiakrs and hear their perspective on issues ongoing in his life. "I didn't know what to expect," he says. "Lori allowed me to see what could have been bad news job-wise from a different per- spective and was incredibly helpful." Plus, the client's father, who had been dead for 20 years, showed up. "Through Lori, he related things to me from my childhood and made me aware that he knew things that happened to me since he passed away. It was bizarre — but an incred- ible gift and incredibly powerf-ul." Understanding The Soul As human beings, we have freedom in choosing our life path, Lipten believes, but there also is a soul path, and souls are essentially compassionate. "In a world where suffering, pain and cruelty exist, will I still choose love, kind- ness and compassion?" This, believes Lipten, is the Divine question for those who live human lives. She cites Viktor Franld (Man's Search for Meaning), a psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor who lost almost his entire family, as one of her heroes. "In the midst of his horror, he chose love" she says, just as many Holocaust survivors, who had every reason not to, touched into the pure [soul] essence of who they were" As a whole, Lipten believes, "Jews, as a soul group, are part of a much bigger pic- ture than our earthbound egos allow us to see. In alignment with being 'chosen, we are here with the deeper purpose of serv- ing humanity." Some individual souls experience "soul loss" says Lipten, where all or parts of a soul — most often because of some type of phys- ical or emotional trauma — may choose to leave the body and move to a higher spiritual realm to feel secure and protected. Sometimes we "give" our soul to others, or individuals "steal" part of our soul. Souls may not always be able to reintegrate on their own, says Lipten, even after death. As a shamanic practitioner, Lipten says she "travels to other realms" to both retrieve and help with the reintegration of souls in both this and other dimensions. Wendy Appleton, 63, of Huntington Woods, is a psychotherapist with a master's degree in social work. In April, she went on a "soul retrieval retreat" to Costa Rica with 24 other women, led by Lipten and psychothera- pist Megan Gunnell. "We don't get through life without some of us losing little pieces of ourselves" says Appleton. "Lori is able to collect those pieces and put them back where they belong." Starting at age 7, Appleton, who grew up in Oak Park, had dreams in which her family would disappear. "I would wander around looking for them" she recalls, "and I suffered from bad headaches. I managed to function; but although [I was] not clinically depressed, there was sadness." Without knowing why, Appleton says she always evaluated people in this way: Would they hide me? Much later, she read Anne Franks The Diary of Young Girl but couldn't bear to watch plays or movies about the Holocaust. She always had to buy extra food so she could grab it in an emergency. "When I first met Lori in 2003, she immediately knew I was Jewish and asked me what family members had been in the Holocaust. None: I replied. (0h, my God: was her answer. `You were there. She described me as a little boy, separated from my family and beaten to death [by the Nazis]. All my dreams and fears made sense" says Appleton. "The heaviness and sadness and fear lifted and haven't once been back" "When you're aligned with your soul path, you feel peaceful" says Lipten, so when a soul retrieval and integration is complete, an individual finally has the capacity to move forward and evolve. Appleton commends Lipten for her "responsibility and integrity" and has gifted each of her three adult children with read- ings "to try to figure things ouf' as they travel along their life path. She also has reconnected with deceased loved ones with Lipten's help. "Lori gives you information from Heaven" Appleton believes."It's information no one else knows — sometimes even you — and is then verified. How can you believe that this [life] is all there is?" ❑ For more on Lori Lipten, go to www. Iorilipten.com . Ronelle Grier Contributing Writer T 1 hroughout the ages, what happens after we die has been a source of discussion, debate and dissertation by persons of all religions and backgrounds throughout the world. Despite the thousands of texts written on the subject, there is no official Jewish position on life after death, although most scholars agree the soul lives on in some form after the physical body dies. Most Jewish spiritual leaders believe the focus should be on living righ- teously on Earth rather than putting emphasis on the afterlife. The idea of life after death, includ- ing reincarnation, is supported by many of today's scholars as well as centuries-old Jewish texts. In her book Journey to Heaven: Exploring Jewish Views of the Afterlife (Urim Publications; 2011), author and biblical scholar Leila Leah Bronner of Los Angeles writes that the Hebrew word gilgul, which means circularity and refers to the actual transmi- gration of souls, first appears in the Zohar, the 13th-century foun- dational literary work on Jewish mysticism. Several passages in the Zohar allude to the idea that one's conduct on Earth determines his or her fate after death, says Bronner, an early member of the Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance. The text includes vivid descriptions of a place called Gehinnom (Hell), where all but the most righteous souls go for purifica- tion before they can ascend to higher levels. Well-known . spiritual medium Rebecca Rosen helps others by communi- cating with the spir- its of their deceased loved ones. Rosen, who believes the Rebecca soul lives on after Rosen death and that spir- its visit Earth to help their loved ones find peace and heal- ing, spent several years in Detroit and regularly returns here for readings. Rosen, who now lives in Denver and is the author of Spirited: Connecting to the Guides All Around You (Harper; 2010), said in a phone interview that the messages she has received from spirits have led her to believe the afterlife consists of several different levels, and one goes to the level earned on Earth. "Envision it as a school with grades K-12; none is worse than another" she said. "Where you go depends on the level of wisdom you achieve." The concept of Heaven varies from person to person, she said, just as their lives differed from one another. "It's your personal vision of Heaven, depending on what you loved in life and what gave you joy and peace, whether a vacation in Hawaii, work that you loved, golfing — it's case by case" explained Rosen, who said her psychic encounters are supported by many Jewish schools of thought, espe- cially Kabbalah, which she has studied for the past year-and-a-half. "There are so many parallels in the ancient kabbalistic teachings to what I've experienced the last 14 years as a medium" said Rosen. Rabbi DovBer Pinson is a Brooklyn-based kabbal- ist, scholar and author in the field of Jewish mysticism and philosophy. A popular lecturer, Pinson spoke in the Journeys in Judaism series sponsored by Seminars for Adult Jewish Enrichment (SAJE) in May at the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield. His books include Reincarnation and Judaism: The Journey of the Soul (Jason Aaronson Inc.; 1999) and Jewish Wisdom on the Afterlife: The Mysteries, the Myths, and the Meanings (Q Rabbi DovBer Pinson &A Books; 2006). According to Pinson, Hell is not a place, but a pro- cess. "It is the journey from individual self to becoming part of the collective memory of God" he said. Every per- son has positive and negative dimen- sions, he explained, and the goal is to express the positive while overcoming the negative. "Every soul has a specific spark; our Afterlife on page 10 Jyly 19 . 2012 9