frontlines >> letters How to Send Letters We prefer letters relating to JN articles. We reserve the right to edit or reject letters. Letters of 225 words or less are considered first. Longer ones will be subject to trimming. Letter writers are limited in frequency of publication. Letters must be original and contain the name, address and title of the writer and a day phone number. Non-electronic copies must be hand signed. Send letters to the JN: 29200 Northwestern Highway, Suite 110, Southfield, MI 48034; fax (248) 304-8885; e-mail, letters@the jewishnews.com . We prefer email. NCJW Seeks To 'Unchain' Women Refused A 'Get' National Council of Jewish Women once again joins with the International Coalition for Agunot Rights (ICAR) to observe International Agunot Day on March 7 — a day designated to call atten- tion to the urgent need to address the denial of legal equality in marriage of Jewish women in Israel. Under religious law, a Jewish woman may not receive a final writ of divorce or "get" without her husband's consent. Women in Israel called agunot, or chained women, are unable to remarry or have legitimate children because their husbands have either disappeared or refused to grant them a divorce. There is no civil marriage authority in Israel. The situation affects not only Jewish women in Israel, but also Jewish women worldwide who seek termina- tion of their marriages that are sanc- tioned by rabbinical courts. International Agunot Day is part of an international effort to promote solutions to this problem through change in Jewish law. The day is observed on the Fast of Esther to highlight the contrast in contributions to Jewish life made by Jewish women and their second-class status under marital law. Queen Esther rescued the entire Jewish community from a death sentence, and yet was herself subject to this denial of legal autonomy. All of us need to act in support of legal reform by calling the Israeli gov- ernment, the Knesset and religious community leaders to find legal, just and moral solutions to this uncon- scionable violation of human rights that this denial of equal rights under marital law represents. Sharon Lipton State Policy Advocate Chair NCJW/GDS Waterford Tip Of The Hat To Mr. Silly Thank you, Jewish News, for covering the story of Mr. Klegman, aka Mr. Silly ("Go Ahead, Be Silly," Feb. 23, page 1). As a psychiatrist, I spend my days helping people realize that emotions can be choices. Sadness can be changed to feelings of acceptance or times for appreciation for what one has instead of focusing on what one has lost. Anxiety • or worry can be moments of opportu- nity or the awareness that everything has a purpose. As Jews, we believe that Hashem has only a positive purpose in mind for His children, and this realization helps to reframe moments of negative emotions. I have the honor of being greeted by Mr. Klegman at the JCC of Oak Park when I go to exercise on some Wednesdays. When asked one day how he was doing, he replied, "I can be happy or sad, I choose happy — it costs the same' We are so blessed to have Mr. Klegmen in our community. I hope he continues to make people happy for many years to come. Hats off to Mr. Klegman, but please, Mr. Silly, you keep your hat on. Bryan Weinstein D.O. Farmington Hills Mr. Silly Brought Joy, Even Back In 1943 Robin Schwartz's article about Mr. Silly brought back a very fond memory about the Klegman brothers that occurred in 1943. I was walking south near the corner of Grand Avenue and Linwood. I bumped into the two brothers, and we chatted a bit. I asked, "Where are you guys going — to the Avalon?" "Nope," they said. "We're going to work. We are ushers at Briggs Stadium when the Tigers are home." Well, needless to say, the next time they went to work, I went with them. I also became a kid usher, unpaid, but I did see the games for free, plus tips. The years were 1943-45. So it looks to me, Ms. Schwartz, that Mr. Silly was already bringing joy and happiness, certainly to me. Many thanks for your article. Edward F. Stein, O.D. Financial Issues Southfield Jews Must Speak Out For Religious Freedom We recently saw our president disregard the First Amendment to the detriment of Catholic and other Christian institutions. Having been a professor at a Catholic university I saw that the university well served all, regardless of religion, but also adhered to the religious principles at the foundation of the institution. Every meeting began with an invoca- tion. Each classroom had a crucifix, and there was a chapel down the hall. Among my fellow professors were many priests who, when not teaching, were leading mass and performing other reli- gious duties. Where are the Jewish voices defending the freedom of such universities? Where are Jews protesting government interfer- ence with the freedoms of religiously principled schools, hospitals and social service institutions? Freedom is the issue, not birth control. There are many ways to facilitate birth control availability and women's health concerns without infringing on religious freedom. Respect for, and rigorous protection of, religious freedom is why this coun- try has been a haven for people of every religion and of no religion. Jews might now update the oft-cited quotation from Martin Niemoller: "First they came for the Catholics, and I did not speak out because I was not a Catholic ... And then they came for me, but there was no one left to speak for me." Our Christian brothers need us to speak for their religious freedom, and ours. Support For Israel At NASCAR T he Charlotte, N.C.-based America Israel Racing (AIR) team has unveiled a unique paint scheme for the No. 49 Robinson-Blakeney Racing Toyota Camry. Inspired by AIR's mission of promoting the importance of America supporting Israel, the design prominently displays both the U.S, and Israel flags as well as the image of a bald eagle holding both nations' flags in its claws and an olive branch in its beak on the hood. "The eagle in particular contains a great deal of symbolism — it has a determined look on its face, because we are determined to voice the importance of America's support of Israel," said AIR co- founder Rich Shirey. Through strategic partnerships and joint ventures with other organizations, AIR hopes to spread the message throughout the world that the United States supports Israel. For more information, AmericaIsraelRacing.com . ❑ Ask Attorney Ken Gross about... Eugene Greenstein, Ph.D. Farmington Hills Do Short Sales Work? Yes. A Short Sale is an ideal way to exit a house under water. The benefit is that you do not spend the next 20 years paying $300,000 for a house that is only worth $195,000. 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