Parshat Miketz: Genesis 41:1-44:17; 1 Kings 3:15-4:1. A t its origin, this holiday of Chanukah is about identity, formation and our ability to stand up and affirm that we are proud to be Jews — even, and especially, when the secular world does not know exactly what to do with us. As we know from the Chanukah story, our ances- tors were given a choice: they could become Greek, give up their unique tradi- tions and immediately be accepted by everyone ... or they could physically resist the Hellenistic influences that attempted to force them to abandon their religion. Thankfully for us, there was a group — small but mighty — who refused to allow Jewish life to come to a halt. They defended their Jewish identity with their very lives and in so doing, they single-hand- edly made Chanukah about much more than lighting candles, spinning dreidels and giving gifts: • Chanukah is about daring to be different, resisting assimilation and not giving into the pressure of the greater society; • Chanukah is about being proud to stand up for who we are and what we believe in; • Chanukah is about authenticity, sincerity and being brutally honest about who we are as individuals and as a people. It is no accident that our Torah portion Miketz always coincides with Chanukah in part because the story's main character is faced with a very similar challenge to his own Israelite identity. Joseph is far from home, he was sold into slavery by his brothers long ago and now he finds himself in Egypt, in command of Pharaoh's household. To signify all that Joseph has accomplished, Pharaoh gives Joseph the Egyptian name Zaphenath- paneah, meaning "God lives." And while the change of Joseph's name symbolizes a new identity and a fresh start, it is interesting to note that the Torah never calls Joseph by this Egyptian name again. The truth is that Joseph never gives up longing for his family and for one day returning home. Despite his incredible success in Egypt, rising from a lowly slave to the second-highest position in the most powerful nation, Joseph still feels alone and lost without a people he can call his own. He is dis- connected, detached and largely disengaged. But how will Joseph ever recapture his authentic Jewish identity because he appears destined to live out the rest of his days in Egypt? Reclaiming his Israelite roots seems like a complete impossibility until his brothers, unbe- knownst to them, come before Joseph seeking food to feed their family. Surprised to see them, Joseph will hide his tears on five different occa- sions, a testament to the longing he feels to be reunited with his family, his people and his heritage. And ultimately, Joseph succeeds in fully reconciling with his brothers because he never forgot who he was, and he never gave up his faith in the God of Israel. As Joseph shows us in the Torah and as the holiday of Chanukah reminds us, being part of a group, a club, a com- munity and a religion is very powerful — it is a power that thankfully even secular success cannot diminish. I I Joseph H. Krakoff is a rabbi at Congregation Shaarey Zedek in Southfield. Conversations 1.What aspects of Judaism (rituals, beliefs, etc.) make you the proudest? 2. How do you make Chanukah special in your family? For Inpatient and Outpatient Rehab, you have Fox Run! We offer top-notch care, including: • All private rooms with half baths • Full-time physical, speech and occupational therapists specializing in the needs of older adults • Cable TV and phone in every room • Coverage through Medicare and other insurance Remember, you don't have to be a Fox Run resident to rehab here. For more information, call 248-419-0982. Rena•ssance gardens at Fox Run TheCareExperts.com 7699619 Inpatient & Outpatient Rehab Assisted Living = Dementia Care • Nursing Care BIRMINGHAM Kids Karate Call for your FREE Trial Class !r iflin g am artial Arts ITC* Streets tnnind 248.646-6608 www.bmartialarts.com If you are not wearTng It... se or BORROW on it! You can't enjoy jewelry if it's sitting in your safe deposit box. Sell or borrow on it for immediate cash. We deal in jewelry, watches, diamonds and coins. A Service to Private Owners, Banks & Estates Contact Larry Allan 33700 Woodward Ave, • Between 14 Mile & Lincoln • Binning am MI 248-644m8565 114 December 22 • 2011 25