Wi l lo w ay Day Camp Early Enrollment Program Through December 31, 2011 Enroll today! Pioneers Explorers LITs K4th Grade 5-7th Grade 8-9th Grade ■ Girls & 41 - DOOR-TO-DOOR TRANSPORTATION • June 18-August 17, 2012 BOYS 5-14 •.e 248-932-2123 • www.wiHowaYdaycamP•com Pontooning • Fishing • Golf • Drama Basketball • Nature • Fencing • Hockey Paddleboating • Swimming • Soccer Water-Skiing • Rocketry • Canoeing Pony Rides • Go-Karts • Animal Farm Archery • Photography • Dance • Ga-ga-ga Tennis • Overnights • Challenge Course Fun on the ropes course at Camp Stone in Pennsylvania. And So Much More... The Willoway Experience` Pool, Lake, Woods, & Pond Since 1969 Frankel Jewish Academy belonging OPEN HOUSE Wednesday December 7 6:30 pm registration 7:00 pm program Discover how considering life's big questions strengthens your child's values. "I found this quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald; it sums up what FJA means to me." Seth Schostak ' I .5 That is part of the beauty of all literature. You discover that your longings are universal longings, that you're not lonely and isolated from anyone. You belong.' IIIIFRANKFL 1 _JEWISH it ACADEMY Open • Halachic • Zionist • American Call our admissions team for Open House pre-registration and shadow visits. 248.592.5263 ext 222 52 December 1 • 2011 iN in Bloomfield Hills. "It often helps to pair them up with one of the adults in camp to be that 'special friend/pseudo parent' that they can come to:' Not to be outdone, of course, is the anxiety Amy and I will likely feel when we take her to the bus. Despite the bravado that she wants to go away "for a month, Daddy:' we will likely send her for a mini-ses- sion, which is typically two weeks. Just writing that caused suf- ficient angst to trigger some heart- burn. But that, too, is part of the collective experience, according to Friedman. Parents sending their kids out of the nest for the first time is as much a milestone for them — meaning, us — as for the child. "Parents need to trust the camp and its directors, and not tele- graph their concern to their kids," Friedman says. "Otherwise, the kids will share the parents' anxi- ety about going to camp. Indeed, camps are the safest places on Earth for kids. It's tough for parents to let go, but it's the best gift a par- ent can provide a child." I guess, when you're a child psychologist, it seems like second nature. Friedman's mantra, "Calm parents make for calm, well-adjust- ing kids at camps and otherwise," is sound advice. It always sounds easy coming from somebody else, though. I am thankful we have the means to provide this opportunity to our children. Summer camp enriches character and fosters indepen- dence. Jewish values taught by the campfire sound a lot more appeal- ing than sitting in class. Maybe I can take a mini-session, too? I I