would post photos from the event on Facebook," he said. Some people have even felt coerced to join Facebook because there was no other form of communication leading up to their reunion. That was the case for John Kuderik, a CPA in Royal Oak, who was told that if he didn't join Facebook he wouldn't know anything about the plans for his reunion. He's now con- nected to the classmates he hadn't seen or heard from in over two decades, and he's kept updated on their daily activities. But he's not convinced that's such a great thing. Brad Feldman of Farmington Hills, who recently attended his 20th Groves Feldman High School reunion, said that Facebook was a much-discussed theme at the event. References to photos and other postings became topics of conversation at the reunion, and classmates posted photos from the reunion in the days follow- ing. He believes that Facebook activity might have kept some of his classmates, especially the out-of-towners, from attending since they felt they were already sufficiently updated on their classmates' lives. Facebook has had both posi- tive and negative effects on the high school reunion. Some younger people believe some of the excitement and nostalgia is gone from reunions because of all the reconnecting through social networking sites. Overall, however, Facebook has been helpful to reunion planners as a resource for promoting the event and locating classmates. While Facebook is the killer app of our generation, no social networking website can replace the human interaction of a reunion. The face-to-face recon- nections are the best form of social networking that exists. 1 Rabbi Jason Miller is a tech expert who writes about how information technology and social media are transforming the Jewish commu- nity. He writes the 'Jewish Techs" ESTATE 8c JEWELRY BUYERS Your neighborhood experts for the Purchase and Sale of Estate Jewelry, Precious Metals, Coins and Valuables Phone: 248.723.4653 33366 Woodward Avenue Birmingham, MI 48009 (Just north of Fourteen Mile, east side of Woodward) blog for the NY Jewish Week and is president of Access Computer Technology (www.accesscomptech. www.estateandjewelrybuyers.com corn), based in West Bloomfield. August 18 2031 17