points of view EDITORIAL BOARD: Publisher: Arthur M. Horwitz Chief Operating Officer: F. Kevin Browett Contributing Editor: Robert Sklar >> Send letters to: letters@thejewishnews.com Guest Column Editorial E O 0 4.13 .0 Tisha BrAv Recalls Our Darker Times I Mission After The Mission Jewish/African American communities find a common ground to build from. QuanTez Pressley and Ben Falik T ake a 29-year-old, enthusiastic Jewish dad with long, curly hair and a 24-year-old, pas- sionate African American preacher with longer dreadlocks of his own and what do you get? A lesson on how individuals can come together across cultures and experiences to find value in collaboration and to share this value in service to our community. Our story begins with burgers. We met for the first time recently at the world-famous Checker Bar and Grill to discuss Repair the World, a national organi- zation developing a Detroit service initiative. A bi- product of that conversation was Summer in the City's partnering with the Checker Bar to paint a 90-foot- long mural of the Spirit of Detroit and skyline. But it was clear from that first encounter that we had even more potential to do great things together. As odd as this coupling may seem, the Jewish and African American communities share a long history of working together to advocate for people who are oppressed and disadvantaged. This cultural partner- ship, however, needs to be pronounced again as these challenges persist in both familiar and evolving forms. A Coming Together We had the opportunity to explore both the challenges and unrealized potential when we participated togeth- er last month in the Jewish Council for Public Affairs Mission to Detroit. The conference, hosted by the Jewish Community Relations Council of Metropolitan Detroit, brought several pairings of Jewish and African American community leaders from across the country to assess and address the issue of poverty. We were happy to accept the invitation to represent Detroit and embraced the opportunity to be ardent ambassadors for our city. Spending the week together helped us foster a friendship and achieve a cohesive- ness aimed at impacting our community. While the conference allowed the group to see just how severe poverty and segregation are in Detroit, the focus was on organizations and people here admira- bly addressing the crises of hunger, homelessness and other issues that result from poverty. We also observed the absence of everyday integration between cul- tures. This provoked questions and conversations on whether race and racism continue to stunt progress in Detroit and beyond — with conference participants lining up on both sides of the debate. However, the Detroit duo — young and restless — share a different vantage point as our genera- tion views race and culture without the baggage of our predecessors. For us, interpersonal relationships trump demographic dynamics. Through culture col- lisions that bring people from different backgrounds together on equal footing, we can have a conversation that focuses on the future rather than the past. Finding A Gateway Race and racism do not preoccupy us the way they have historically hindered relationships. Still, we have thus far failed to seize the opportunity to come together across cultures to chart a course based on shared investment and mutual gain. We walked away from the conference with a mis- sion: to inspire and encourage intentional cultural collisions among our generation that are rooted in service and conducive to fellowship. We believe that collaborative community service can help lift people out of poverty and cultivate relationships that tran- scend race, ethnicity, gender, culture and class. Of course, we have more questions than answers. t 's a day to mourn the destruction of the Jewish Temples in ancient Jerusalem, first by the Babylonians (586 BCE) and later by the Romans (70 CE), plus the Jewish settlements in Israel at those times. Tisha b'Av also has become a day to mourn other destructive times in Jewish history, including the deadly Exodus-era decree by God, the fall of Betar and when Jerusalem was "plowed under" by the Romans and rebuilt as a pagan city. The English and Spanish expulsions and the Holocaust have ties to the Ninth of Av. Today, Tisha b'Av is a day to mourn the sav- agery to Jews at the hands of Jew-haters who not only border Israel, but who also infect France, Iran, South Africa, Germany and other places that harbor anti-Semitism and anti-Zionism. The full fast day of Tisha b'Av begins this year at sundown on Aug. 8. Beyond a day of mourning, Tisha b'Av is when Jews lament being in exile, scattered around the diaspora. Says Rabbi Leiby Burnham of the Weiss Partners in Torah Program hosted by Southfield- based Yeshiva Beth Yehudah: "It is the day that we agonize over not having merited the messianic era, when the Jewish people will all return to Israel to Rabbi build the third and final temple Burnham and live in eternal peace and harmony." For many Jews living fulfilling lives, the holiday seems outmoded and the need for a Third Temple unnecessary. For Jewish communities throughout the ages, messianic harmony and world peace were seen as the antidote to prejudice, oppression, expulsion and being persecuted. Jews certainly have stature in chunks of the West; yet Israel, the ancestral homeland of klal Yisrael, the people of Israel, is belittled around much of the globe. Tisha b'Av provides the backdrop to pray for the kind of world peace the messianic era would bring. To feel the inspiration of this Jewish day of mourning, we must feel the effect of our struggle as a people. Says Rabbi Burnham, "We may have a rich Jewish life, but what of the millions of Jews who know close to nothing about their heritage, who have never had the opportunity to celebrate their bar mitzvah, have never said Shemah Yisrael or lit a Chanukah menorah? Do they not need a Third Temple?" He's right in that feeling others' pain, when we look deeply into others, we can begin to exchange destruction for redemption. That's an ever-elusive pathway. But its pursuit indeed could help heal the pain, overcome hate, promote good will – and usher in the messianic era. Tisha b'Av is not a day to greet people; in fact, that's prohibited. Rather, it's day to reflect, recalibrate and re-energize from a Jewish perspective. Li Guest Column on page 26 August 4 2011 25