Opinion Community America Needs A Civility Campaign Jewish Studies which we often disagree — it is crucial that we engage not in mud slinging, but rather in frank, civil discussion. he election season has The stakes are too high for us to do finally ended. Victors have anything but pool the best of what we celebrated, the defeated have have to offer. conceded and we are left to clean up Simply put, the respectful exchange the detritus: direct-mail fliers, defunct of ideas is the cornerstone of a func- posters — and the scorched earth left tioning democracy. It's only by seeking by one of the least-civil election cam- compromise and respecting differ- paigns in memory. ences that we can hope to American political culture build a working consen- has always been spirited and sus on our shared future. combative, yet for some time Yet the first decade now the tone of our discourse of this new century has has often been downright seen growing political nasty. Smear tactics, name and socio-economic calling and distortion of facts polarization, a shrinking are the order of the day, as the sense of common ground art of listening is not so much and a corresponding lost as trampled underfoot disintegration of the while politicians, pundits and rules of engagement. The activists rush to make points, animus spills over into heedless to what the country racism, anti-Semitism, might need. Islamophobia and other It seems clear what the forms of prejudice and bias. country needs: An end to knee-jerk Ultimately, no one is served — least hostility and the start of something of all the country we share. new, something civil. If we are to genuinely resolve the Within Jewish culture, we have a tra- dition of "God wrestling" — struggling issues that stand before us, we must genuinely engage in changing the mightily to find the truth. Robust, political atmosphere. We must actively vigorous debate is vital and, indeed, seek and promote civil modes of dis- essential in a pluralistic society. But sincere God wrestling requires both an course and codes of conduct — and open heart and willing ears. It requires this is precisely what the Jewish com- munity has begun to do. that we treat each other with respect The process is neither simple nor as we search together for the best path easy. Too often, we fear that polite forward; and that we leave open the behavior signals unquestioning agree- possibility that someone else might ment or grants a victory to those we have something worthwhile to say. It's to be expected that deep divisions oppose, failing to understand that will exist when concerned citizens grap- civility is neither the lack of difference nor the squelching of debate. ple with issues of real importance. The Civility is the quiet acknowledgment economic downturn, the health of the of human dignity, even those humans planet, America's security, the Israeli- with whom we sharply disagree. Palestinian conflict — each issue is Civility is listening carefully when emotionally fraught and each will con- others speak and leaving open the pos- tinue to resonate for years to come. Yet for this very reason — the enor- sibility that we may have something to learn. Civility is the guarding of tongue mous importance of the issues over Washington/JTA T and the rejection of false witness — two commandments that our tradition holds dear. Beyond that, however, civility is also the proactive advancement of certain kinds of behavior. We need to speak up when others are being shouted down; we need to structure our public events in such a way that no single opinion can monopolize the conversation; we need to carefully maintain an attitude of respect even when faced with shouts and accusation; and perhaps most important, we need to not give up. Many in our community have begun to step up to the challenge. A state- ment sponsored by the Jewish Council for Public Affairs calling for more civil discourse, as part of a far-reaching campaign to set a new tone, is being signed by a who's who of Jewish com- munity leaders, including the heads of prominent Jewish community and pro-Israel organizations, Republicans and Democrats, conservatives and lib- erals, rabbis, academics, former presi- dential administration officials and renowned Jewish activists. This is an important start, but it is only a start. With the election behind us, we stand at a crossroads. We can look to the past months and years as a tem- plate and continue down the same belligerent, damaging path, or we can choose to learn from our mistakes and seek a new way. "That which is hateful to you:' the great Hillel taught us, "do not do to your fellow:' It's time to take that lesson and apply it to our modern democracy, for it is only through civil discourse that we will be able to perfect the union that holds us together. ❑ Rabbi Steve Gutow is the president of the Jewish Council for Public Affairs. To sign the JCPA Civility Covenant, go to http:// engage.jewishpublicaffairs.org/content item/Civility. Tolerance from page 37 ments of people like the Orthodox rabbi in Cincinnati who proposed that it's a mitzvah for gay teens to kill themselves. Clint McCance, the school board offi- cial, wrote on Facebook,"It pisses me off, though, that we make special purple fag day for them. I like that fags can't procreate. I also enjoy the fact that they often give each other AIDS and die 38 November 11 • 2010 iN At this stage, it is no longer about the heated and divisive issues like gay mar- riage or "Don't Ask Don't Tell:' It is now a matter of life and death. Teens being bullied until they commit suicide isn't a political issue; its a human issue. Religious leaders across this coun- try: Please stand up and put an end to this national tragedy. ❑ Rabbi Jason Miller is a blogger, technology and social media advocate, founder of the Kosher Michigan kosher certification agency and a Jewish educational entrepreneur. He is rabbi of Oakland County-based Tamarack Camps and part-time rabbi of Congregation T'chiyah in Oak Park. EMU names director. M artin Shichtman, a professor of English language and litera- ture who has taught at Eastern Michigan University for 26 years, has been appointed director of Jewish studies. As director, Shichtman will create alliances with EMU's Jewish community, coordinate EMU's Jewish Studies Lecture Series and develop curriculum. The area of Jewish stud- ies includes classes for all EMU students interested Martin in Jewish life and culture, Shichtman as well as opportunities for study abroad and intern- ships. Shichtman has organized and participated in EMU campus discussions and panels, including serving as a moderator for the 2009 interfaith panel "Did God Survive the Holocaust?" Last month, Shichtman was a panelist at a discussion on values, respect and hate imagery, held after The Eastern Echo had published a controversial cartoon invoking the Ku Klux Klan. Jack Kay, EMU provost and executive vice president, called Shichtman "an exceptional, productive and creative scholar who plays a vital and central role in campus affairs "Most EMU students know very little about Judaism or about Jewish culture Shichtman said. "Many are not aware of ever having met a Jew. It is becoming increasingly evident that comprehensive universities like EMU, institutions dedicated to promoting an understanding of American diversity, also need to provide their students with an aware- ness of Jewish life and culture' Shichtman earned his doctorate and mas- ter's from the University of Iowa, and his bachelor's from the State University of New York, Binghamton. Shichtman has written four books. The lat- est, Cinematic Illusions: The Middle Ages on Film, co-authored with Laurie Finke, recently received EMU's annual Faculty Scholarship Recognition Award for best book by a faculty member. He has held fellowships at the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum and with Brandies University's Summer Institute for Israel Studies. In 2008, he was chosen as a Hillel International Summit Scholar. Shichtman received the EMU Distinguished Faculty Award for Teaching in 1996 and the EMU Alumni Association Award for Teaching Excellence in 1993. In 1990, he received a State of Michigan Teaching Excellence Award. ❑