JERSEY BOYS The real Jersey boy, Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons return to the FOX Theater this Friday, Oct 22nd... kSTAURANT Body Battle During autoimmune illness, author turned to doctors, then healers, and even Madonna for strength and support. Suzanne Chessler Special to the Jewish News , ; • e. W endy Shanker, like other young adults, began a search for a guru, someone who could lead her along a productive and comfortable path. But unlike many young adults search- Wendy Shanker: "You don't mess ing for a guru, she had a need that was with Madonna. To me, she is an more physical than spiritual. example of unrelenting strength." As Shanker entered her 30s, she was whose first autobiographical project diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, was The Fat Girl's Guide to Life. "It feels Wegener's granulomatosis, which was personal but also universal. I'm thinking disrupting the lifestyle she was estab- that if this is something I'm dealing with, lishing as a New York-based comedic maybe somebody else is, too. writer for stage, magazines and TV. "My second book expands on women Medicines, causing many side effects, and how they can feel empowered about were not solving her problem. their bodies, moving away from body- Who, she wondered, could help shake image anxiety and moving into the bigger off the symptoms and let her fully pur- image of health and wellness sue long-held dreams? Shanker, a graduate of Andover High The answer is explained in Shanker's School and the University of Michigan, new book, Are You My Guru? How had wanted to become a Medicine, Meditation & broadcast journalist. After Madonna Saved My Life rrs WEN0Y sli ANKER moving to New York, she (New American Library; worked as a standup comic, $15), which she'll discuss 1 YO U my writer-producer for television WI II U? p.m. Friday, Nov. 12, at the and even talk-show host. Jewish Community Center "It wasn't until I put of Metropolitan Detroit's together this list of people 59th annual Jewish Book I had gone to and all the Fair in West Bloomfield. things I'd tried that I real- The autobiographical ized there was a story to tell',' text follows her explora- says Shanker, now taking tions of Western medi- on freelance assignments cines, Eastern healings, that include writing the script for the religious practices and ultimately per- November Glamour Women of the Year sonal choices — all resulting in the rec- Awards. ognition that each person's guru resides Important to the story were Shanker's within that very person. religious and spiritual initiatives, com- "The book tells a story as it describes ing after years of activity with Temple the evolution of what happens and the Israel in West Bloomfield and the B'nai awareness that grows as I'm meeting B'rith Youth Organization, which orga- people, trying things and going through nized her trips to Israel. new experiences:' says Shanker, 38, in "I think there's a delineation between remission with the combined help of religion and spirituality:' says Shanker, Western and Eastern approaches. whose parents, Myrna and Mickey "I'm glad to have a representative Shanker, turned to Luvavitcher think- voice for people who are dealing with ing and encouraged their daughter to illness, chronic diseases and physical say certain prayers. "Part of spirituality discomfort while bringing a sense of involved what I could borrow from a humor to the telling:' religion that wasn't mine' Ili Shanker, who was raised in West Bloomfield, does not hold back as she describes the disease and the extreme Wendy Shanker appears at Book practices she employed to get rid of it. Fair at the JCC in West Bloomfield "When it comes to my body and health, 1 p.m. Friday, Nov.12. I feel like I'm an open book:' says Shanker, e•• a, INF /AT St Slifuttle service to all shows (Detroit t000ti Lobster Tuesdays $12.99 includes 1 whole main Lobster, corn on the cob and red skin potatoes °MY) 1477 John R 4222 Second Avenue (At Maple) (just north of Mack) Troy, MI Detroit, MI 248-588-6000 313-832-1616 www.mariosdetroit.com 1557150 Wit IN ItIT HOW MEDICI MEDITA TI ON tA ADO 01 SAVED MY LIFE r MR WIMM WM Mt MO - MO OM ME MI ". Buy one $5.99 lunch I special get one $5.99 , lunch special FREE I Our selection of lunch specials includes caesar salad, 7 oz. Burger, I mama's meatloaf, smothered chicken I and more. All lunch specials are just $5.99. I I Offer good thru 11/12/10 - Dine in only Good Monday-Friday MMIN 1111111 I UMM NMI OM MOO MK ME 248-208-1680 • 29508 Northwestern Hwy (in Sunset Strip) Visit beanscornbread.com Carryout and catering available 158, 800 114 October 21 • 2010 49