Spirituality HOLIDAY 101 Rosh Hashanah Celebrating reflection, beginnings and happiness. Elizabeth Applebaum Special to the Jewish News I n the Korelitz home, Elul is always a time to be happy. "I'm an Elul person',' says Sheryl Korelitz. This is because Elul is the Jewish month when two of her favorite events occur: Rosh Hashanah and daughter Hannah's birthday. Seth and Sheryl Korelitz, and their daughters Hannah, 15 (whose birthday is on the first day of Elul), and Zoe, 9, live in Huntington Woods, where they are anticipating a bright holiday filled with friends, food and celebration. But first: a little reflection. Sheryl begins preparation for the New Year by reading The Book of Our Heritage, which contains essays and ideas for thinking beyond the usual concerns of get- ting to work, cleaning the house, paying bills, running to the gro- cery store. "There are sparks of holiness in everything; they constitute our spirituality;' said 18th century Rabbi Dov Ber of Mezeritch, a stu- dent of the Baal Shem Toy. But during the year, with the business of everyday life, it can be easy to forget them. Elul reminds us that we must try to find these sparks. Sheryl Korelitz reads and thinks and focuses on "remembering all the things I should do — that I need to get myself cleaned up and in order. "Every year:' she says, "I have a goal. This year, I want to become a better person:' "I prepare myself:' she says, "so that when I walk into the shul on Rosh Hashanah, I'm ready." Early Influence A native Detroiter, Sheryl remem- bers wonderful days watching her mother and grandmother cook for the Rosh Hashanah meals. The kitchen was filled with warm holiday aromas — and seemingly endless work. Of course, that's when women stayed at home and had plenty of time for preparing gefilte fish from scratch. Today, Sheryl, owner of Ruby's Balm in West Bloomfield, still loves cooking Rosh Hashanah din- ner for her family; but she spends a little less time with the fish. The Korelitz family kitchen is still filled with a great, unforget- table smell of homemade gefilte fish at Rosh Hashanah— just with a twist. "I cheat:' Sheryl says of this recipe she received from a friend. "I use the frozen ones, but my kids love it:' 1 frozen gefilte fish loaf 1 medium onion, grated 1 grated carrot 1/2 cup sugar (or less) 2 eggs 2 Tbsp. matzah meal 2 Tbsp. vegetable oil Salt and pepper, to taste Combine all ingredients and place in 9x13 pan. Cook at 250 degrees for one hour and 20 minutes. Like his wife, Seth Korelitz, who Rosh Hashanah on page 76 Sheryl and Seth Korelitz with their daughters, 15-year-old Hannah and 9-year-old Zoe, and George the dog. September 2 2010 75