Obituaries Obituaries from page 77 RABBI KALMAN SHAMMAI SPERKA, 41, of Jerusalem, died April 3, 2010. He was the son of Shlomo and Deanna Sperka of Oak Park and the grandson of Rabbi Sperka Joshua Sperka. Born in Oak Park, he attended Yeshiva Beth Yehudah, high school at the Mesivta of Long Beach, N.Y., and entered the Mir Yeshiva in Jerusalem, where he studied for the rest of his life. He completed the study of the entire Talmud at the age of 19, the second student in the history of the Long Beach yeshivah to accomplish this. He was legendary for his encyclope- dic knowledge of Talmud, his extraordi- nary diligence and devotion to study and his mastery of all elements of rabbinic literature and Halachah. He taught advanced students, pub- lished three volumes of studies on the Talmud and left several in manuscript. He wrote on the book of Daniel and a weekly English comment on the Torah portion. He was a friendly and welcoming per- son known for assisting students of all ages. He was a favorite Sabbath host for English-speaking young people. The Family of the Late Charles Snider Announces the unveiling of a monument in his memory io:oo AM Sunday, May 23, 2010 at Machpelah Cemetery. Rabbi Krakoff will officiate. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. He is survived by his parents; his wife, Tzilla;, nine children, ages 16 to 1-year- old; brothers, Yitzchak ( Stacy) Sperka, Nathaniel (Tova) Sperka of Oak Park; sisters, Esther (Eli) Moscovitz of Monsey, N.Y., Yeshaya (Fraida) Sperka of Israel. The Mesivta of Long Beach has estab- lished a fund for the benefit of his fam- ily. Contributions in his memory may be made to the Mesivta of Long Beach Chesed Fund, 205 W. Beech St., Long Beach, NY 11561. Britain's 'Lady J' Jerusalem/JTA — Lady Amelie Jakobovits, the widow of British Chief Rabbi Baron Immanuel Jakobovits and a supporter of many Jewish causes, has died. Jakobovits died in Britain last Friday after a short illness. She was 81. She reportedly will be buried in Israel. "Lady Amelie Jakobovits, known affectionately to Anglo-Jewry as lady J,' was an extraordinarily vivid figure of seemingly inexhaustible energy and effervescence," said current British Chief Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks in a state- ment. "She had warmth, charm, wit and deeply felt faith. She was constantly active, visiting the sick, comforting the bereaved, supporting the many Jewish and medical causes of which she was president or patron." A survivor of the Holocaust, Jakobovits, the daughter of the chief rabbi of Paris, Elie Munk, married while she was still in her teens. She traveled with Rabbi Jakobovits first to Ireland, where he became chief rabbi of the country; to New York, where he served as rabbi of the Fifth Avenue Synagogue; and then to Britain. Jakobovits founded the Association of United Synagogue Women and was a patron and supporter of Emunah, Jewish Care, the Chai Cancer Care and WIZO-Women's International Zionist's Organization, as well as other causes. "She was a larger-than-life figure, widely known and loved;' Sacks said. "We will miss her deeply." How do I explain death How do I tell my daughter that her grandma is dying? Is my son old enough to attend his grandpa's funeral? What do children understand about death? Read David Techner's blob for his six-part series on explaining death to kids. TraKaufrnanChapel.Blogspotcom THE IRA KAUFMAN CHAPEL Bringing Together Family. Faith & Community 18325 WEST NINE MILE ROAD, SOUTHFIELD, Noll 48075 78 May 13 • 2010 IN Obituaries 248.569.0020 f FAX 248.569.2502 VIWW.IRAKAUFMAN.COM