Isn't It From the proposal to the party, dreams really do come true. BY LYNNE KONSTANTIN I PHOTOGRAPHS BY LAURIE TENNENT Jeremy Wolf is a romantic. So when he surprised his then-girlfriend, Melissa Keller, by whisking her away to San Francisco for a weekend, she was thrilled — but thought nothing of it. While there, when Jeremy arranged for the pair to dine at the famed Tommy Toy's, she again was thrilled, but thought he was just celebrating their 23-month anniversary in his usual romantic way. When dessert was brought out — the swirls of rasp- P 1 0 • FEBRUARY 2010 • IN platinum berry sauce spelling out, "Will you marry me?" — Melissa turned to find Jeremy on one knee and swooned. "It was better than anything you imagine when you think about getting engaged," says Melissa (now Melissa Wolf). Then came the planning. Melissa, who grew up in Bloomfield Hills and taught sixth-grade Jewish ethics and values at Temple Beth El in Bloomfield Township, and Jeremy, who was raised in Farmington Hills, moved to Los Angeles almost two years ago so he could complete a research fellowship toward his Ph.D. in 20th-century Jewish history at the University of California, Riverside (the bride works in retail at Nordstrom). But all of the family is in Michigan, so the couple decided to be married at the newly restored Westin Book Cadillac — the Italian Renaissance–style hotel built by Detroit's