-11fr . "Mt.lrw- 11.1116111611rPlo- _ 11111111111111111•11W ev&E.L*iff-e TA E< cotrIVAVver so, we must surrender the details (how, when, etc.) to God, trusting that what is meant to be will unfold. while receiving support and clear steps to take from another human being. IN: What is the difference JN: How do your beliefs fit in with the teachings of Judaism/ Kabbalah? RR: Both in Judaism's and in my view is the belief that it is our respon- sibility to contribute toward repairing the world, or tikkun olam. In kabbalistic terms, the word "tik- kun" refers to the soul's purpose on Earth (to rectify, to repair or make whole). On a personal level, we are here to repair, heal and elevate our soul. On a larger scale, we are here to contribute toward repairing the world. The tools for repairing the world are found in the 613 mitzvot (divine commands) of the Torah. As human beings, we have been given the capac- ity, free will and duty to serve God through performing mitzvot with proper intention (kavanah). Through our own personal efforts at tikkun olam, we strive to make this world a better place — along with becoming a more loving, kinder soul — before we leave it. between meditation and prayer? Does prayer work? RR: Prayer is us talking to God and/ or Spirit; mediation is us listening to God and/or Spirit. Prayer works if it comes from a place of heartfelt emotion. Once we put out our request, we must surren- der any attachment to the outcome. Prayers are answered in God's timing, and the answer may or may not look like what you had in mind. That's where "trust" comes into play ... trust- ing that what's in our highest and best good will occur if we stay out of the way. Often what happens is that we pray then we don't stick around to listen for the answer or guidance (medita- tion). But even without meditation, your prayers are heard and eventually answered. Meditation just gives us a direct line to Source, so we are intui- tively clear on what will unfold before it has a chance to physically play out. JN: What role does gratitude play in our lives? RR: When we are in a place of gratitude and appreciation for all that is, our hearts are open and we oper- ate from a place of love. Gratitude helps us direct our energy in a posi- tive way, thus attracting additional positive experiences into our lives. It holds the power to speeding up all your intended desires to manifest in your life, mainly because you are not resisting. JN: Can connecting with our spirit guides always help us in overcoming life's difficulties? When and how should we work with therapists, counselors or life coaches? RR: Our spiritual connection is a piece of the puzzle in navigating our way through life's difficulties. Remembering we are never alone and we have all the answers within us can serve to calm, comfort and inspire us during challenging times. But it's always wise to seek the help and guid- ance of a trained professional when we need more tangible help. A good therapist simply helps lead you to your own truth and inner knowing by asking all the right ques- tions. And some people may require processing their thoughts out loud JN: What is a "soul group?" RR: Soul groups are made up of a select amount of souls that you keep reincarnating with (as well as rejoin in the spirit world) to teach one another valuable lessons and aid in each other's soul's growth. Souls in our soul groups are often referred to as "soul mates': which can be relationships that are romantic in nature like spouses, partners, etc., or not romantic in nature but have a depth and a familiarity to them more than others. Sometimes, these "soul-mate" rela- tionships may be challenging for us in attaining the highest potential growth. As I like to say, "Marriage isn't bliss, it's work" The same can be said for other soul-mate relationships. JN: As a believer in reincarna- tion, would you like to come back as a psychic medium in your next life? RR: Absolutely. I feel honored and blessed to get to share my energy and craft with those in need of comfort, truth and growth. But I have a funny feeling that's not what God has in store for me, and I'm not going to worry about what's next. I just want to enjoy this ride doing the best I can each day to serve others. ri f12.99 castirmitm 25270 CIREENFIELD,..0AERAIRIU 1111At -14 g 4 fteeial - "Pe oitivr ft'e't ( d" , 50,30 "E Coming soon!l I We will be open for lunch, dinner in or carryout.... 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