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Contributions may be made to the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation or to the Detroit Zoo. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. DR. GERALD APTEKAR, 90, for- mer Detroiter, died Nov. 23, 2009, peacefully at the Jewish Home in San Francisco. His optimistic disposition made him an inspiration and a joy to be with. He loved people and they found him interesting and full of adventure. He traveled widely, including an expe- dition to Cameroon and a dental mis- sion to Guatemala. Born and raised in Detroit, he had a successful career as a dentist and orthodontist until his retirement in 1982. He moved to Scottsdale, Ariz., with Jane, his wife of 68 years, until this April, when they came to the Bay Area to be near family. Dr. Aptekar was a graduate of the University of Michigan Dental School, where he also taught. He married his college sweetheart, Jane Schkloven, on April 16,1941. He served in the military as a den- tist, caring for soldiers and interned Japanese citizens. He had an enthusias- tic joie de vivre that led him to collect African art, antique cars and modern sculpture. He loved to cook, travel, drink fine wine and play tennis and golf. Dr. Aptekar is survived by his family, to whom he was intensely commit- ted: his wife, Jane Aptekar; his sons, Donald (Harriet Moyer) of Denver, Colo.; Robert (Judy) of Los Altos Hills, Calif.; grandchildren, Joanna (Jason) Strober, Denise Aptekar, Rebecca Klein (Russell), Jacob and Noah Aptekar; great-grandchildren, Sarah, Jared and Ari Strober and A.J. and Ella Klein. He was predeceased by his two siblings, Milton Aptekar and Bea Denhoffer, who also lived into their 90s. Contributions may be made to the Jewish Home at 302 Silver Ave. in San Francisco. EDITH BARIL, 84, of Scottsdale, Ariz., died Dec. 10, 2009. She is survived by her beloved husband, Norman Baril; children, David and Rowena Howard of West Bloomfield, Rick Howard of Birmingham, Donna and Stanley Weingarden of Farmington Hills, Roy and Elena Baril of Martinez, Calif., David and Pam Baril of Farmington Hills; grandchil- dren, Adam Howard, Derek (Kaca) Howard, Jessica Cohen and Brett Howard, Howard (Terri) Weingarden, Adam (Meredith) Weingarden, Beth Weingarden, Max Baril, Danielle Branch and Brandon Baril; great-grandchildren, Julia,Ally, Noah and Emilie; by many lov- ing nieces, nephews, other family mem- bers and friends. Mrs. Baril was the dear sister of the late Lillian, the late Sarah, the late Harold, the late Sam and the late Pauline. Contributions may be made to the Religious School Fund at Temple Shir Shalom in West Bloomfield. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. DR. CLAIRE ANN SLATKIN PATT COLMAN, 63, of Bloomfield Hills, died Dec. 10, 2009. A child psychiatrist, she was a cham- pion of women's Colman rights and human rights. She revived the Birmingham Bloomfield Democratic Club, which is vibrant today. She was involved with NOW Southeastern Michigan Chapter and helped produce the newsletters for NOW and WAND-Women's Actions for New Directions. She was well-known statewide in Democratic politics and was insturmental in the election of U.S. Rep. Gary Peters, D-West Bloomfield. Dr. Colman is survived by her husband, Dr. Michael Colman; sons and daughter-in-law, Joseph Patt and Christy Silvester of New York, Brian Patt of Massachusetts; granddaughter, Isadora Maxine Silvester; brother and sister-in-law, David and Judy Slatkin of Illinois; sisters-in-law and brothers- in-law, Roberta Patt, Luana Kyselka, Michael Patt, Judee Herman, Sal Herman and Carol Pine; nieces, neph- ews, great-nieces and great-nephews, cousins, other relatives and comrades. She was the beloved wife of the late Dr. David Jeremy Patt; the cherished daughter of the late Max and the late