Special Report THOUGHTS THAT ECHO Giving Thanks from page 11 Making A New Home "First and foremost, I am grateful for the blessings of my husband, who has also always been my best friend since high school; for the blessings of my sons and our wonderful daughters-in-love; our precious grandchildren; and our many good friends who have become our family in America. "We are both also blessed with having jobs that we love and enjoy and a workplace that we are happy to go to every morning. I am truly grateful to teach at Federation's Alliance for Jewish Education, working with the best people, in a warm, supportive work environment. I am most grateful for my students, com- mitted to studying Hebrew and coming to Hebrew classes year after year, creating a Hebrew-speaking, Hebrew-loving commu- nity. It has been a true blessing working for the community for 35 years. "Last, but certainly not least, I am thank- ful for the amazing Jewish community we live in. Thirty-five years ago, when we moved from Israel, my husband was offered jobs in three different places. We came to Detroit because we heard what a great community this is, and we never regretted our choice. From the minute we arrived, we were warmly welcomed. We never spent a holiday alone and our American friends have been with us through thick and thin. I feel like saying a blessing every day for this unbelievable community" — Nira Lev, Farmington Hills Home Away From Home "Ummm. It smells like fresh baked challah and matzah ball soup. Yes, you just have entered the Lester and Jewell Morris Hillel Jewish Student Center at Michigan State University on a Friday night. As you look around, you see friends laughing, stuffing their faces with food and potential friends you have never met. You know everyone's at Hillel for common reasons: to make a new friends, for a home away from home, to learn about Judaism and, of course, for a great free meal. "I compiled a list of four reasons why Hillel gives me great nachas [joy]. Four: Sports leagues. Everyone makes the team. Three: You're sick? Free matzah ball soup delivery. Two: Library offers a great social network to hang out with friends. One: The meal plan, which includes free leftovers after Shabbat dinner and Sunday brunch. "I deeply appreciate everything Hillel has done for me. Wherever my path may lead after graduation, I know it will continue to intersect with Hillel. As I get ready to grad- uate, I am excited for this new chapter in my life and I look forward to giving back to Hillel, a place that has given me so much." — Ryan K Landau, 21, West Bloomfield Pictured from left to right: Ori, Nira and Amos Lev; Ryan Landau; Lea Luger; David Wallace with his daughter Rhoda Wallace Taking Care Of Our Kids 'At Yad Ezra, we receive many phone calls and letters of thanks from clients helped through us or by referrals to other agen- cies. A letter was recently forwarded to us from a grateful mother whose children benefit from Yad Ezra's Lunch Assistance Program, which provides free hot lunches for day school students from low-income families. "She wrote: 'We would like to express our deep gratitude for your incredible generosity and thoughtfulness. Our family has been burdened by financial struggles this past year. One of the many things we were going to do without this year was hot lunch. I was completely surprised to receive a phone call informing me that funds were available for our boys to each receive hot lunches. Hot lunches for each of them seems like an 'embarrassment of riches. "As we continue to try to move forward during these difficult times, our weekly lunches will remind us of the good in people and help us focus on the bless- ings in our lives. We are forever grateful for your kindness and generosity."' — Lea Luger, development director, Yad Ezra, Berkley Reminiscing "It is life's sweet memories for which I am thankful. Family memories of my Uncle Sam, a neighborhood favorite, not just for his warmth and friendship, but because he was known for having at least a case of Double Bubble gum in his car at all times. Growing up, my children called it 'Sammy Gum and a visit wasn't complete without their pockets full of the pink chewy stuff. "Memories drawn from the time my chil- dren were old enough, my dad and mother would spirit them away in the pre-dawn hours of Thanksgiving to get a front row seat at Hudson's Thanksgiving Day Parade [in Detroit]. Year after year, they would return home full of hot chocolate and snacks; clutching Tootsie Roll banks over- flowing with those awesome treats. "It is those memories of times gone by, of Sunday afternoon visits and Thanksgiving Day parades, from which I draw strength, thankful year after year for the presence of bubble gum and Tootsie Rolls in my life." — Bunni Lieberman, West Bloomfield Hand In Hand "While I have so many reasons to be grateful, I am especially thankful Better Each Day for my wonderful hus- "I am very thankful that Hashem [God] Bunni band, Steve. We have and my (late) mom in Gan Eden (the Lieberman been through some dif- world to come) have made sure that ficult times during my father, David Wallace, is doing well. our 23 years of marriage, including twice Fourteen weeks ago, he had a terrible brain moving to new homes, the deaths of three injury from a fall. After being in intensive parents, the trials and tribulations of rais- care and specialty care and undergoing more extensive rehab, he is doing better. My ing two amazing daughters, multiple cam- mother always said, And that too shall pass; paigns for political offices, construction in our home and the suicide of a close friend. and I believe the hardest part of his recov- ery process is done. Baruch HaShem (thank Throughout it all, Steve has been my stable God), my dad, who is 96-years-young, is on partner, confronting each issue as it arose and rising above it. the road to recovery. "Steve and I are each other's best friend "I am grateful that my mother is up there and biggest fan. We express our love for pulling her strings and watching over all each other on a daily basis in person, the good people to make sure only good through e-mails and phone calls 'just things are happening." — Rhoda Wallace, Oak Park to hear your voice. Steve is fun, funny, intelligent, kind, generous, friendly, interesting and is totally supportive of my endeavors. We truly enjoy spending time together. I recognize that our relationship is special, and I cherish the life that we have built together." — Lisa Kaplan, West Bloomfield A Helping Hand "I am not only thankful for my health, my family and my friends, but for this wonder- ful community we live in. "In the past few months, I have attended my 50th high school reunion, a Kadima fundraiser and a Hadassah luncheon. Needless to say, we still have the kindest, most caring people around. "My husband and I have traveled around the world quite extensively and met hun- dreds of Jewish people from other states and countries. When we tell them about all the charities we have here, they are amazed. From Yad Ezra, JARC, nursing homes, senior citizen homes and Friendship Circle to sending children to camps and schools, we don't leave anyone out. "Being a small business owner in this area for many years has been a wonderful experience. The loyalty of our clientele, even in these hard times, has made our experi- ences wonderful. "Those of us born in the 1930s and 1940s are still having a hard time under- standing we are living in a Depression. However, we are still helping those less fortunate than ourselves, holding our heads up high and hoping for a better financial future for our children and grandchildren." — Annie Rogin Alpern, West Bloomfield Being There "I am so thankful for all of our family, especially our three daughters, sons-in-law, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, friends, Rabbi Joseph Klein and our Temple Emanu-El family for all of their prayers and support during my husband Lou's illness. "Lou has endured many physical prob- lems the past few months, but has been comforted with so much love, care and con- Giving Thanks on page 14 12 November 26 • 2009