'411111011111011.111111.111111111111 Spirituality TORAH PORTION One's Good Deeds Live On Forever Shabbat Chayye Sarah: Genesis 23:1-25:18; 1 Kings 1:1-31. The crown of Sarah's good name remained with her loved ones on Earth. T COME IN NOW AND ADD NEW LIFE TO YOUR HARDWOOD FLOORS. DUSTLESS SAND AND REFINISH OR SCREEN AND COAT. SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL SMALL BUSINESS OWNERS FAMILY OWNED AND OPERATED SINCE 1971 Ha el4 FLOORS 4101b44i0b.riP iellm- A ip.",.....00.."„ip...i... and INTERIORS HARDWOOD REFINISHING LAMINATE MARBLE/GRANITE VINYL 3021 ORCHARD LAKE ROAD KEEGO HARBOR, MICHIGAN 48320 248.681.6460 WWW.HARBORFLOORS.COM HOURS: M-F 8 AM - 6 PM, SAT. 9 AM - 5 PM OR CALL TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT CARPET CERAMIC CORK AREA RUGS Conversations COMMERCIAL Who in your own life has earned the crown of a good name? What do you suppose others think of when they hear your name? Does a person's reputation both precede and succeed him? RESIDENTIAL 1550470 34 November 12 • 2009 he only thing that we take crowns. That is, when we are con- with us after we die is cerned for others and engaged in a our reputation, our name. serious Jewish life, our good name Everything else stays behind. rises heavenward. God does not want to know what This is the key to the name of our possessions we accumulated, but Torah portion. It is called Chayye what differences we made Sarah, the life of Sarah. in the lives of others. The portion, though, is Those differences become really about the death of our real name. If we have Sarah. Why, then is this helped others, we have a not called the death of good name, but if we have Sarah? hurt others, our name cre- There is a tradition ates negative associations. that the righteous, even In Pirkei Avot (Ethics of in death, are considered Our Fathers), it says that as alive, because of the there are three crowns wonderful reputation Rabbi Aaron — the crown of Torah, and memories they Berg man the crown of priesthood leave behind. The crown Specia I to the and the crown of kingship. of Sarah's good name, Jewis h News I think this means that because of her great we have an obligation to commitment to acts of be involved in Jewish study, Jewish kindness, accompanied her after she ritual and community needs. died, and still remained with her We cannot isolate ourselves, pur- loved ones on Earth. suing only our own goals, needs We constantly need to consider and pleasures, but we have to take what is our real name, the words a serious interest in the welfare of people think of when they hear our others. If we do so, then we will have given name. acquired a good name. Let us always pursue a life of The importance of a good name kindness and commitment. Let us is found in the second half of the take the crown of our good name Pirkei Avot statement. It is usually with us throughout our entire lives, translated as the crown of good and when we give our accounting to name is more important than the God. Il other crowns. I think a better trans- lation would be that the crown of Aaron Bergman is a rabbi at Adat Shalom a good name rises upon the other Synagogue in Farmington Hills.