Be proactive with the National Council of Jewish Women/Greater Detroit Section and lobby state senators and representatives in Lansing on behalf of the state's women, children and families. Leave by bus from 26400 Lahser, Southfield, 8:30 a.m., Tuesday, Nov. 17, and return at 3 p.m. Chairpersons are Fern Ettinger, Florence Herrmann and Sharon Lipton. Limited to 50 people. $10 cost includes lunch at the Capitol, with a few senators invited to join. (248) 355-3300. EVERYTHING'S RELATIVE by Jordan B. Gorfinkel • www.jewIshcartoon.com Attend the Michigan Psychoanalytic Foundation's 25th Annual Benefit honoring Dr. Marvin Margolis, 7 p.m. Friday, Oct. 30, at Henry Ford Museum, Dearborn. Dinner plus entertain- ment by Alvin Waddles' Fats Waller Review. Tickets: (248) 851-3380. Federation's Alliance for Jewish Education will provide a profes- sional conference for teachers and parents of students with diverse learning and behavioral challenges at the Anita Naftaly Family Circle Conference at 1 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 8, at Congregation Shaarey Zedek in Southfield. Sandra Rief, M.A., will provide strategies to help students with ADD and other learning differenc- es. $20 in advance; $25 at door. (248) 642-4260, ext. 533 or www. jewishdetroit.org/familycircle. HEALTH / SUPPORT Kim Waters will discuss sensory processing dysfunction and corn- mon emotional and behavioral issues in gifted children 7-8:30 p.m. Wednesday, Nov. 4, at the Child and Family Solutions Center, Farmington Hills. $15 per parent. BERNIE YAEL ZAYDS BUBS The Realist The Idealist The Perplexed The Traditionalist The Bubbe 5TORE CANNED GOODS. use YOUR 6EA- r" CUSHION A5 /'\ ri-OATA -00A/t)eY/C". w cc OR JUST A-OK YOUR- 6EL_F, "WHAT WOIJI b LACK 5A (J . / DO?" n--1A-1/5 NW - - Register: (248) 851-5437, ext.104 Support the Detroit Institute of Arts by attending its "To the Nines" fundraiser 6 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 14. In addition to fashions, dining, and entertainment will be a tribute to A. Alfred Taubman, longtime patron for whom the DIA's European art wing is named. Tickets begin at $100. (313) 833- 7967. BETH The Altruist FUCK AND COV. CAN'T 61-EP, WHAT.. WHAT IF OUR JEW15H IN5T1TCJTIONo \A/E-R. TAR&ETEDI3Y1- RRORI,57..5? EVENTS THAT HELP Attend the Michigan Parkinson Foundation's annual fundraiser "A Night of a Thousand Stars" 7-10 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 7, at the Steinway Piano Gallery of Detroit, located at the southeast corner of M-5 and Maple Road in Commerce Township. Featured are a silent auction, entertainment, hors d'oeuvres and desserts. $45. Tickets: (248) 433-1011 or info@ parkinsonsmi.org . BECCA T PRO DUCTIONS IN GORFTIX addresses Osteoporosis 6:30 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 12, at Adat Shalom Synagogue. RSVP to Suzanne Cohen by Nov. 4 at (248) 548- 6375. SPACE for Changing Families announces the formation of Rainbows, a peer support group for children in divorce (K through 8th grade) who are trying to adjust. Each small, age-appropri- ate group is lead by a facilitator. Parents will meet separately. Meetings are 7 p.m. over twelve Mondays beginning Nov. 9 at the Birmingham Temple, 28611 W. 12 Mile, Farmington Hills. RSVP: (248) 355-3300, ext. 0. CHADD (Children & Adults with ADD) will meet 7:30-9 p.m. Monday, Nov. 9, at the Way Elementary School, 765 W. Long Lake Road, east of Telegraph in Bloomfield Township. Sign-in at 7. The parent group will have psychologist Dr. Steve Ceresnie, speaking on "AD/HD and Mood Disorders in Children/Teens." The adult group will have Laura Rolands speaking on "Coaching Adults with AD/HD." Free to CHADD members and $5 for non- member families. (248) 988-6716 or www.chadd.net/527. Families Anonymous, a 12-step, self-help support group for fam- ily and friends (adults and those over 15) affected by the substance abuse or behavioral problems of a loved one, meets 2:30 p.m. Saturdays at Maplegrove Center, Conference Room C, 6773 W. Maple, West Bloomfield. No fees. Visitors are welcome. (248) 790- 7677 or www.familesanonymous. org . HELPING OUT The Birmingham Area Seniors Coordinating Council and Center is joining with Beaumont Hospital's Rose Cancer Center to assemble blankets for cancer patients in chemotherapy. The event is 5:30- 7:30 p.m. Tuesday, Nov. 3, at BASCC, 2121 Midvale, Birmingham. All ages who can hand sew are welcome. To register, call BASCC at (248) 203-5270 or e-mail Jeanne Nance at jnance@bascc. net. Interact with senior residents while working in the Jewish Senior Life (JSL) building's stores, cafes and gift shops in Oak Park and West Bloomfield. Become a friend- ly visitor, help at activities, field trips or games. Contact: Michal Ram (248) 592-1104, mram@jslmi. org . Mentor an at-risk youth living in Oakland County through a Jewish Family Service program called Mentor Connection. (248) 592- 2300, www.mentorconnect.org . Contact Dr. Charles Silow if there's a Holocaust survivor who might benefit from Yad b'Yad (Hand In Hand), the friendly visitor program of Jewish Family Service: (248) 661-2999. Deliver meals to homebound cli- ents in Oakland County through National Council of Jewish Women's Kosher Meals on Wheels program. Both regular drivers and subs are needed. (248) 967-0967. create a family Havdalah set. Parents welcome. Information: Megan Rappaport, Jewish family educator, (248) 357-5544. Enjoy the beauty of Shabbat in downtown Detroit 7:30 p.m. Friday, Nov. 13. Join with the Downtown Synagogue's chavurah of fellowship for a Kabbalat Shabbat service with an emphasis on singing followed by a torah study. Designed for those who don't regularly attend services as well as experienced worship- ers. Location is 1457 Griswold (at Clifford). Information: (313) 399-0599; downtownsynagogue@ gmail.com ; or www. downtownsynagogue.org . HOLIDAYS / SHABBAT Enjoy "The Happiness of Shabbat" - a family Shabbat program Friday, Nov. 6, at Congregation B'nai Moshe in West Bloomfield. Services at 6 p.m., fried chicken dinner at 7. Afterward, Ellen Yashinsky Chute will speak on "Family Happiness" and magician Steve Zieman will perform. $10; children under 18 free. Underwritten by the Nellie and Max Friedman Shabbat Dinner Fund. RSVP with payment by Oct. 30. Credit cards accepted. (248) 788-0600. JEWISH LEARNING Have fun at the Havdalah Workshop featuring the StarLab Planetarium 10:45 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 8, at Congregation Shaarey Zedek Southfield. Embark on a journey through the sky and Hear Professor Howard N. Lupovitch speak on "American Jews and Israel: A Historical Perspective on the New influence Hear Rabbi Tzvi Muller, edu- cational director at the Weiss Family Partners in Torah of Metro Detroit, speak on "Change for a Dollar, Making the Most Out of Generosity" on making deci- sions about tzedakah and the Jewish perspective on recogni- tion at 11 a.m.-noon Sunday, Nov. 1, at Temple Kol Ami in West Bloomfield. All are welcome to this Bagels and Basics event. Information: Melanie@tkolami.org or (248) 661-0040. Calendar on page 56 Join The Party! Holocaust Compensation Catch the final weekend of the musical Rent featuring Attend a discussion with Roman Kent, treasurer and board member of the Dr. Gary LaKind as Roger at St. Dunstan's Theatre Guild of Cranbrook, Bloomfield Hills, 8 p.m. Thursday- Conference of Jewish Material Claims Against Germany (also known as the Claims Conference), 10:30 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 8, at the Oak Park JCC. This Saturday, Oct. 29-31, and 2 p.m. Sunday, Nov. 1. program will be of special interest to Holocaust survivors and their families. $20/$18 students. Tickets: (248) 737-3587. Born in Lodz, Poland, in 1929, Kent is a survivor of the concentration camps in Auschwitz, Merzbachtal, Dornau and Flossenburg. (248) 967-4030. Gary LaKind Roman Kent October 29 2009 55