Special Report ACHIEVING DREAMS JARC at 40 from page 11 "Calling JARC Changed Everything" Milaine and Gabi Grossbard of Southfield have five children. Chloe, 10, and Sabian, 6, have developmental disabilities. "My hands were full," Milaine said. "When I called Laurel Berger in JARC's children's department, she said, 'How can we help.' JARC always meant older people to me. Calling them changed everything." JARC assigned a respite care worker to help the family, assigning hours according to Milaine's needs. "They were extremely accommodat- ing and efficient at finding someone safe," she said. "This gave me time to get things done without taking a Sabian Grossbard wheelchair and kids with special needs with me. Sometimes I just need to rest. And the kids also get a break from me. "Having someone there allows my older kids to have regular time for themselves, too. They get to have that normalcy they don't usually have." The Grossbards pay for the service on a sliding fee scale. They also under- stand JARC will be there for them as their children grow into adulthood. "I have hope for the future," Milaine said. "They make the group homes accommodating to the people living there. As an Orthodox person, I know they will help us make decisions on religion and my child's abilities. They will make it work for us. "I am such a big fan of JARC. They have treated me with the utmost kindness and respect. They always do it right. I am so grateful to them. I can't imagine life without it." Chloe Grossbard I JARC CEO Rick Loewenstein interacts with Vicki Ligerakis, Marlene Dorfman and Margaret Berlin of JARC's Nusbaum home in Farmington Hills. Home Sweet Home When JARC's Samuel and Jean Frankel Residential Services Division opened the Grand home in West Bloomfield in April 2000, the neighbors were not that wel- coming. But the six men who live there won over their closest neighbor simply by being persistent. "Michael won him over by waving at him all the time," said Lisa Green, man- ager of the home. "Now all the neighbors wave. Our house looks as good as the others. They see the guys get up and go to work just like they do. It's worked out." The men have genuine affection for each other. Most have known each other "One thing I'm proudest about at JARC is overcoming the community's best kept secret:' Keller said. "People didn't think there were Jewish people with disabilities, only learning dis- abled. Those with developmental disabili- ties were usually kept at home and rarely went out. People didn't have the exposure they have now. "We took people out of the shadows, out of the closet and took the shame and guilt away. These are people like everyone else. They have some differences, but they go out to movies, out to eat, to the JCC. We gave them their rightful place in our community." JARC at 40 on page 14 JARC'S HISTORY: A timeline of treating people with dignity, respect and love — how we all want to be treated. Enriching Lives. Erasing Barriers. 1981-1985: 1970-1975: Organization changes its name to the Association for the 1969: A group of parents concerned A JARC-owned home is firebombed before the residents move in. The home is rebuilt and opens several months later. Five more Jewish Retarded. Its first group home JARC group homes open, bringing the is opened on Evergreen in Detroit. total to 10. JARC expands to provide about the future of family assistance. their adult children with disabilities 1976-1980: incorporates the governments from using zoning ordinances to push Helene Oliva Parents Association out foster care facilities or group homes. Three group with JARC for Jewish homes open and services expand to include inde- Executive Residential Care. pendent living arrangements. Joyce Keller becomes Director executive director. Organization changes its name to Joyce Keller Landmark Michigan law prohibits local the Jewish Association for Retarded Citizens (JARC). First public funding through the Macomb Oakland Regional Center and Community Mental Health. 12 October' 8 • 2009 1986-1990: JARC expands its independent living program, opens Early JARC leaders: Norman three new group homes. Officially Wachter and Sara Mitteldorf changes its name to JARC.