HEALTH & FITNESS alternatives Steer Yourself Out Of Your Rut I magine that you are driving on a poorly maintained dirt road filled with deep ruts created by cars passing by day after day. Each passing car makes the ruts deeper, making it almost impossible to drive between or outside of the ruts. In fact, the thought of turning your wheel to steer your car out of the rut might be scary and it feels safer to just stay where you are. in unwanted ways and get in the way of our ability to create positive healthy change in our lives. emotion or behavior that is more in accordance with our desires, we begin to create and then deepen desirable Here's an example: Have you started something new, such as an exercise program, and then new pathways. As we keep reinforcing these new path- ways, the old ones begin to disappear. talked yourself out of it after a few days? This is the neural This is how many people pathway speaking, the pathway that keeps you stuck in the rut develop lifelong exercise programs. They make a Well, our minds operate much like the drivers on this road. Every recurrent thought or emotion, response, reaction of the ways that you currently think about yourself or spend your time. It feels more com- conscious choice to begin exercising regularly, perhaps to feel stronger, lose weight and pattern of behavior creates ruts, technically known as neural pathways. Many of these neural pathways serve fortable to maintain the status quo, just like it feels more com- fortable to stay within the deep our well being, so that we don't have to think about brushing our teeth, buckling our seat belts or stopping at a red light. ruts on a dirt road. In fact, you can expect to encounter ten- sion or even resistance from your mind or improve their health. They experience resistance in the form of thoughts or feelings that suggest that it would be Or course, we all had to learn these things, but with repetition they have become automatic; it would be uncom- and body when you seek to change a thought, emotion or behavior pattern, just as you would feel tension in steering fortable not to do them. However, many of our thoughts, emo- out of a rut in the road. The good news is that neuroscience tions and behaviors are just as auto- matic and yet do not serve our best is showing us that our neural pathways are much more flexible than previously interests. These pathways keep us stuck thought. Each time we chose a thought, • Spinal Stenosis • Herniated Disc • Sciatica better to stay in bed or that they can take today off or that they've never been successful in the past and won't be now. However, if they actively push back against this resistance, tying on their athletic shoes and heading out, brushing their teeth. The first step toward positive change is recognizing any negative ruts that you are in. You can take active steps to counter the thoughts or emotions that kept you stuck in your previous pat- terns once you recognize them. Don't be surprised by the resistance you encoun- ter; remind yourself that any tension or stress you feel is the old pathways speaking. Remembering that it takes time to create new, more desirable neural path- ways, you can feel good each time you take the desired action until one day you find the resistance is gone and you've changed in the way you desired. Know that each time you make a healthier choice it becomes easier and easier to make the next choice a healthy one, too, until unhealthy choices become a thing of the past. ❑ over time the pathways that kept them from exercising in the past begin to Dr. Denise Jacob practices hypnosis, healing disappear and the new behavior of regu- lar exercise becomes as automatic as is a speaker for area organizations. Call (248) touch and health counseling in Birmingham. She 514-8259 or visit www.jacobholistichealing.com . • Non Surgical Spinal Decompression • Affordable • Highly Effective "Experience Equals Results" LEVINE CLINK of chiroorocbc 31390 NORTHWESTERN HIGHWAY BETWEEN 13 MILE AND MIDDLEBELT • 248-855-2666 Dr. RAN. Levine Dr. D. B. Cohen Phone consultations available 1513110 A30 July 30 • 2009