I Spirituality HOLIDAY 101 The Three Weeks Elizabeth Applebaum Special to the Jewish News W hat it Is: The Three Weeks is a period of mourning begin- ning on the fast day of the 17th day of Tammuz, continuing through the first nine days of the month of Av ("The Nine Days") and culminating on the fast day, Tisha b'Av. When We Observe: This year, the Three Weeks begin at sunrise on Thursday morning, July 9. The ninth day of Av begins Wednesday night, July 29, and continues until sundown on Thursday, July 30. Name of the Events: "The Three Weeks" is self-explanatory. Tammuz is the name of a month on the Jewish cal- endar that is followed by the month of Av. The 17th of Tammuz and the ninth of Av are three weeks apart. Tisha b'Av: In Hebrew, tisha means "nine," Av is the name of the month, b means "in." Thus, Tisha b'Av means "nine [days] in Av." Why We Observe: To commemo- rate and mourn the destruction by the Assyrians of the first Jewish Temple in Jerusalem and the destruction by the Romans of the second Temple. The walls of Jerusalem were breached on the 17th of Tammuz and both Temples were destroyed on the ninth of Av. In ancient times, the Jerusalem Temple was the focal point of Jewish national religious observance. Its destruction was deemed a national disaster. After the fall of the First Temple, most of the Jews were deported to Assyria (which later became Babylonia — today's Iraq). The destruction of the Second Temple was followed by the exile of the Jewish people to the Middle East, North Africa and Mediterranean Europe. Other calamities also have befallen the Jewish people on the 9th of Av. What We Observe: The 17th of Tammuz is a partial-day fast — that is, it begins at sunrise and ends at sunset (although absten- tion from food and drink is total). Tisha b'Av is a full-day fast, with no eating or drinking from sunset to sundown (Yom Kippur is the only other such day). Also on Tisha b'Av, we do not wear leather shoes or use perfume, bathe for pleasure or engage in marital relations. We do not participate in enjoyable activities, even the study of Torah, with the exception of the Book of Lamentations, the Book of Job and other literature of a mournful character. Traditions Of The Three Weeks: During the Three Weeks, we do not get haircuts, buy new clothes or have wed- dings, parties or other joyous events. A stricter approach is not to listen to music (although some allow recorded music). During the Nine Days — beginning with Rosh Chodesh Av (the first day of Av, this year on Wednesday, July 22) until the ninth of Av — we intensify the mourning by abstaining from meat and wine, except for Shabbat. The services: On the 17th of Tammuz, Aneinu ("Answer Us") is inserted into the Amidah (Shemona Esrei) prayer. The Torah is read, the portion being the standard reading for a pub- lic fast day (Exodus 32:11- 14; 34:1-10). Three persons are called up. Selichot are also recited. In the afternoon Minchah service, the same Torah portion is read and a Haftorah por- tion is added: Isaiah 55:6-56:8. Tisha b'Av: Before the fast begins on Tisha b'Av, we eat a last meal con- sisting of bread, water and an egg. Synagogues take down the parochet — the curtain on the ark — and lower the lighting in the sanctuary. Those who come to pray in the syna- gogue sit in a manner appropriate for mourners, that is, on the floor or on low stools or benches. During Ma'ariv (evening) service, Eichah (the Book of Lamentations) is recited. At the conclusion of the reading of Eichah, we recite a num- ber of dirges, or kinot. At Shacharit, the morning service, talit and tefillin are not worn. Aneinu is inserted into the Shemona Esrei. The Torah reading is Deuteronomy 4:25-40, which focuses on Moses' warning to the children of Israel of their fate should they forsake the Torah (though in the end, they are told God will have mercy and forgive them). Three persons are called up. The haftorah is Jeremiah 8:13-9:23. After the morning service, kinot again are recited, usually until mid- day (about 1:30 p.m.), or at least until noon. Many of the kinot focus on the destruction of the Temples, but many others recall disasters that befell the Jewish people, such as the Crusades, expulsions, the Chmelnicki Massacres of 1648 (in Poland and Ukraine) and other pogroms, and the Holocaust. On Tisha b'Av, the house of an observant Jew is quieter than usual, as television, DVDs, videos, computer games, music CDs and other forms of entertainment are not on. Swimming is not permitted. It is customary to visit a cemetery. To keep children occupied, many parents take them to a public park or playground. At Minchah, the afternoon service, tallit and tefillin are worn. The Torah reading is the standard fast-day por- tion, plus haftorah (as read on the 17th of Tammuz). By this time of day, it is permitted to sit on ordinary chairs. There is no special ceremony to end Tisha b'Av. As soon as the fast is over, regular activities may begin although it is traditional to wait until after mid- day of the next day to get a haircut. At the conclusion of evening services, it is customary to recite Kiddush Levana, the prayer for the new moon. O 149z C E July 9 0 2009 A23