bi t A Letter from Evan To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say But first of all, to let you know, I arrived okay. I'm writing this from Heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I an with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me, and He said, " I welcome you. Obituaries from page C31 Its good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. ALLEN GERST, 72, of Southfield, died April 29, 2009. He is survived by his sister-in-law, Marcia Gerst; loving nieces and neph- ews, Kim Gerst, Ron Gerst, Michael Gerst. Mr. Gerst was the dear brother of the late Morton Gerst. Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Services and interment at Hebrew Memorial Park. Arrangements by Hebrew Memorial Chapel. I need you here badly. you're part of my plan. There's so such that we have to do, to help our mortal man." God gave me a list of things that he wished For me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you ... in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and those loving years, Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain I wish that I could tell you, all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life is o'er. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before. There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and in pain; Then you can say to God at night..."My day was not in vain." And now I am contented...that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low; Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps. only half a step behind. And when it's time for you to go...from that body to be free. Remember you're not going...you're coming here to me. Evan Tyler Otis December 22, 1995 May 12, 1998 —Author Unknown MISSED MORE THAN WORDS CAN EVER DESCRIBE. LOVE WITH ALL OUR HEART - MOM, DAD, BRADLEY, KYLE AND CAMRYN 1492760 Bloom's ---- Jewish Cuisine p Shiva dinners, Fish trays, Deli trays del ivered 248-855 9463 iewishcatering.com .Kosher tufts mid chocolates 248-737-8088 NibblesAndNuts.com MONUMENT CENTER INC. "Same Location 80 Years" Monuments and Markers Bronze Markers Memorial Duplicating Cemetery Lettering & Cleaning CEMETERY INSTALLATION ANYWHERE IN MICHIGAN Call 248-542-8266 661 E. 8 MILE ROAD FERNDALE 1 1/2 blocks East of Woodward 1468730 C32 May 7 A 2009 LENORE GOULD, 83, of Southfield, died May 2, 2009. She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Diana and Sy Freilich of White Lake; son, Bruce Gould of Fenville, Mich.; grandson, Jason Mendelson; great-granddaughter, Brianna Lund; many other loving fam- ily members and friends. Mrs. Gould was the beloved wife of the late Martin Gould. Interment at the Adat Shalom Memorial Park Cemetery in Livonia. Contributions may be made to Yad Ezra or to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. NATALIE KLACHEFSKY, 89, former Detroiter of Plantation, Fla., and most recently Ho dAusr Portland, Ore., died Su Ova April 5, 2009. She was a nurse at Sinai Hospital from 1969-1984. Mrs. Klachefsky is survived by her son, Michael (Elizabeth Taylor) Klachefsky of Lake Oswego, Ore.; daughter, Linda (Robert) Kaye of Coral Springs, Fla.; grandchildren, Morgan Klachefsky (Prajob Khonaim), Matthew Klachefsky, Tess Klachefsky, Annabelle Klachefsky, David Kaye, and Daniel Kaye. She was the beloved wife of the late Simon Klachefsky. Internment at Star of David Memorial Park in North Lauderdale, Fla. Contributions may be made to Cedar Sinai Park, 6125 Boundary Street, Portland, OR 97221 or www. cedarsinaipark.com . KAREN FAE SCHNEIDER MEIZLISH, 67, of Flint, died April 28, 2009, at Avalon Hospice in Flint. She was born Nov. 11, 1941, in Detroit and was the loving daughter of Sylvia and Al Schneider. She gradu- ated from Detroit's Mumford High School and went on to earn degrees from Wayne State, the University of Wisconsin-Madison and the University of Michigan. She was a social worker, teacher and speech pathologist in public schools in Michigan and California. In 2002, while on a tour of Eastern Europe, she met her husband, Leonard Meizlish. She moved to Flint and became an integral part of the Flint Jewish Community. She was a member of both Congregation Beth Israel and Temple Beth El. She served on the boards of the Flint Jewish Federation and Jewish Community Services. She was instrumental in bringing the Jewish Film Festival to Flint. Mrs. Meizlish is survived by her husband, Leonard Meizlish; brother and sister-in-law, Michael and Ruth Schneider; nephew, Benjamin Schneider; niece, Rebecca Schneider (Trevor O'Reilly); great-nephew, Liam; stepdaughters, Andrea Meizlish and Deborah Meizlish (Josh Botkin); grandchildren, Jonah and Benjamin; many cousins and friends. May her memory be for a blessing Services were held at Sharp Funeral Homes, Miller Road Chapel, 8138 Miller Road in Swartz Creek. Interment at Machpelah Cemetery in Flint. Contributions may be made to Congregation Beth Israel, Temple Beth El, Chabad House of Eastern Michigan, the Flint Jewish Federation or a charity of one's choice. Friends may share an online tribute on the obituaries page of the Web site www.sharpfuneralhomes.com . ALLA "LUCY" RAFSKY RUBEN, 92, of West Bloomfield, died April 19, 2009. She was born in Irkutsk, Russia, and immigrated to Kansas City via China in 1937. She lived in Kansas City until 1987. While in Kansas City, she was an active member of BIAV, Beth Shalom and Kehilath Israel, where she was past president of the sisterhood. Mrs. Ruben was active in many Jewish organizations. She was a life member of Hadassah, a past president of Mizrachi Women's Organization and active with the Brandeis University Women's Committee. Mrs. Ruben was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great- grandmother, who always made fami- ly her most important priority during