PORTION *i rA . The o Out Of Darkness, Comes Light t h •nrAnnual Walk , A Israel Shabbat Mevarekhim (Parshat Shemini): Leviticus 9:1-11:47; 11 Samuel 6:1-7:17. T here is a great scene in the movie My Favorite Year when the Jewish lead character tries to explain the Jewish people to his friend. He says, "Jews know two things: where to get great Chinese food and suffering." I found it fascinating and a little sad that this charac- ter associated Judaism with suffering, and not the posi- tive reasons to be Jewish; but in some ways he was on to something. We Jews generally do not look for suffering, but our responses to it have sustained us and made us a model for other peoples going through their own suffering. One of the most difficult questions to address is whether suffering has any value in and of itself, or is it our reac- tion to suffering that creates mean- ing? To a large extent this depends on whether one is in the middle of a trag- edy, or one has already experienced it and is trying to rebuild one's life. There are a number of sources in the Talmud that confront this dilemma, particularly in the Tractate Brachot. According to the Talmud, God gave the Jewish people three great gifts, but only through affliction. Those gifts are the Torah, the Land of Israel and the World to Come. This is an attempt to make something positive out of diffi- culties that had already occurred. Had God said to us before we received these things that we would suffer greatly, I am not sure what our response would have been. This becomes even more complicated in the face of the Holocaust and the estab- lishment of the State of Israel. Had you told any Jews before 1930 that some day we would have a state of our own, but it would cost 6 million Jewish lives, I do not think any one of us would have accepted. I would like to offer two ideas about how to respond to tragedy. One is from our Torah portion and the other from a contemporary thinker, Rabbi David Hartman. The Torah tells the story of the sons of Aaron, Nadav and Avihu, who died while making an offering in front of the Tent of Meeting in the wilderness. There is a debate over why they died, which is too long to get into here; but the loss of children under any circum- stance is tragic. Aaron was devastated but, nonetheless, continued in his responsibilities to the people. It was these very responsibilities toward oth- ers that kept him going and allowed him to live a mean- ingful life. This did not take away his pain, but made it bearable. Rabbi Hartman said that God did not give the Land of Israel to the Jews because of the Holocaust, but rather that the Jewish response to the Holocaust was to create a State of Israel. We showed the world that tragedy couldn't break our souls. We showed the world that a dignified and mean- ingful life is possible under the worst of conditions. That is our great gift to the world. El_ Aaron Bergman is a rabbi at Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills. Conversations How can we meaningfully address a tragedy in our lives or in the life of someone else and justify the need to go on and make the most of the life we have been given? Consider tragedies on different levels and discuss responses to each. 2 0 0 9 SAVE THE DATE! Sunday, May 3rd 2009 Temple Shir Shalom (3999 Walnut Lake Road, the corner of Orchard Lake and Walnut Lake Road) • 12:15 pm • • 1:00 pm 2:00 pm Kosher Lunch (No Charge), Israeli Music and Dancing Walk Starts Return to Temple For more info contact Mark Segel at (248) 208-2773 or Andre Douville at (248) 737-8700 Co-Sponsors Temple Shir Shalom Stand With Us/Michigan Hill& Day School Anti-Defamation League Michigan Friends of thelDF National Council of Jewish Women Jewish National Fund Friends of Israel Gospel Ministry Hine! Foundation of Metropolitan Detroit Frankel Jewish Academy Congregation Beth Ahrn Jewish Community Relations Council Government of Israel Ministry of Tourism Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit Congregation Shaarey Zedek Young Israel of Southfield The Ira Kaufman Chapei News/ Talk 760 WJR Michigan BIM B'nai B'rith International- Great Lakes Region Jewish institute for National Security Affairs (JINSA) Ad Design Courtesy of: Jewish Community Center Young Israel of Oak Park Temple Israel American Jewish Committee ORT America Michigan Region Greater Detroit Chapter of Hadassah Adat Shalom Synagogue Herb Rethter Harold Beznos Manhigut Yehudit Congregation B'nai Moshe American Red Magen David for Israel jbrooksdesign inc. Birmingham Temple Zionist Organization of America- Michigan Region The Detroit Jewish News Temple Beth El Israel Chat Committee The Newman Family 'esh ivat Aiiiva ibrooksdesIgr> 1498970 April 16 2009 A29