,geexed07 Collection Of Day into Evening For all Your Special Occasions. celebrate a guide to simchalis continued from page B14 In the same vein, I've used colorful bed sheets as tablecloths, mixed and matched dishes and silverware and served $1.99 box-mix cupcakes — instead of a pricey birthday torte — shmeared with canned frosting with a single fresh flower on top of each — with gorgeous results. / /,-, ,-- . / 07,09-ellie on the Boardwalk 9 48.q3 9 .59 53 k-/ / ,} THE PERFECT SETTING Banquet & Catering •Don't skimp on quality. This may initially sound like a contradiction since usually quality often translates into more expensive. However, the one place one cannot skimp is with the quality - not type — of food served at an event. Being a gourmet is about food quality and preparation, not expensive or rare ingredi- ents. Cheap ingredients always taste cheap. The same holds true for disposable goods. Flimsy paper plates scream stingy. Learn when to scrimp and when not to. EXAMPLE: One of the best parties I hosted consisted almost exclusive of hot dogs and salads. Even using the best kosher frankfurters and buns around, the cost was quite low. Another "girl's night," I asked each guest to bring a salad ingredient. 1 tossed all the salad fixings together, served a selection of dressings and delicious breads and rolls. It was not only tasty and imaginative, but budget-friendly. •Keep abi open mind. If you're open to anything, then everything is open to you. A dinner party in the winter can be homey — serve a wedge of iceberg with ranch dressing and your grandmother's meatloaf recipe with mashed potatoes instead of baby lamb chops and radicchio salad. Follow the theme with apple pie and whipped cream for dessert instead of chocolate soufflé. The enjoyment factor is the same. GV uelt Perhaps you have generous friends or a relative who will let you borrow everything from tables and chairs to candlesticks and vases for your event. Most folks are glad let you borrow nearly anything. Of course, take good care of others' things and arrange to procure them and return them at their convenience. What may be more work can save you in costs that add up fast. FOR LIFE'S SPECIAL EVENTS Banquet facility seats up to 150 guests with separate entrance Events and Menus customized to your taste and budget Same delicious food as served in the Sea Grille restaurant Deal directly with the owners on all event and menu planning, As well as during the function Restaurant Dining Room available for Private Parties Valet Parking Call Craig or Bobbie Dilworth 248 - 487 - 0326 ea , ORCHARD LAKE P.D. WEST BLOOMPIELD visit www.seagrille.com f or menu. map and more restaurant 6199 B 1 6 celebrate! I March 2009 I cocktails • events EXAMPLE: I know several people who "share" party dishes and such. They each buy small quantities of the same dishes, linens, folding chairs, etc., and borrow from each other when necessary. Over the years, they have collectively saved thousands of dollars. Ask for — and accept The beauty of doing favors for others is that for the most party, others are happy to do favors for you. Ask friends to help you set up or break down a party. If someone asks to bring a dish or wine, say yes. The one caveat? Manage your expectations. Advise your helpers of exactly what you need or the time required. That way you're not disappointed when the friend who offered to bring cookies shows up with 12 snickerdoodles or the other well-intentioned pal who offered to help you in the kitchen comes dressed in white chiffon and stiletto heels. - ° Bang for the buck. Revisit your lists. Once you've decided what you must have, rethink it. Go for one or two "wow" factors (a great band and dramatic table centerpieces, for example). By forgoing some ancillary "details" and focusing on the big picture, you can put your money where it will matter the most. ❑