Metro AROUND TOWN Trading Secret": Women exchange gifts and life lessons during a unique event to benefit JVS. Sher Kaplan and Judy Etkin, both of Farmington Hills Leah Rosenbaum of Southfield, Shirleyanne Schiang of Beverly Hills and Teresa Schwartz of Livonia Tender of Birmingham's Andi Rehm of Birmingham and Crystal Motske of Auburn Hills G ifts of knowledge, wisdom and life experience came wrapped in packages of all shapes and sizes during a unique event Feb. 25 at the Townsend Hotel in Birmingham. More than 200 women exchanged tangible and spiritual gifts with friends and total strangers during Trade Secrets, a benefit for the JVS Women to Work Program. The program helps women enter the workforce after divorce, unemployment or other major life changes. "We gave each other something vintage or new with a value of at least $36 and with that we gave advice about life or about the item," explained Hadas Bernard of Birmingham. She co-chaired the event with Elaine Fieldman of Bloomfield Hills. "I got a book and a candle from a psy- chologist:' Bernard added. "She wrote a let- ter and in the letter she wrote about what brings true happiness in people's lives." The women also heard inspiring stories from two featured speakers, fashion specialist Linda Dresner of Birmingham and Ulla Lilienthal of Brighton. Lilienthal was Lisa Lis and Sandy Shecter, both of Farmington Hills presented with the JVS Women to Work award for overcoming adversity and reclaiming her career. After 15 years as a stay-at- home mom who helped her sons through a traumatic dog attack and severe food allergies, Lilienthal left an abusive marriage and fled with her children to a women's shelter. She participated in the JVS program and is now a lab manager at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor, conducting diabetes research. "Ulla's story of survival is a message of hope to women," said Fox 2 News anchor/health reporter Lila Lazarus, who emceed the event. "Her story teaches that each of us possess the inner strength and courage to overcome and accomplish anything we put our minds to!' JVS is a nonprofit human services organization with offices in Detroit, Southfield, Roseville and West Bloomfield. Last year, the agency served more than 10,000 people through career development, housing, employment and other services. The Trade Secrets event raised more than $65,000, enough to fund the Women to Work program for an entire year. "Obviously, it's a passion, and we struck a chord with women and people in general;' said Bernard. "JVS is the kind of orga- nization that whether you're giving your time or your money, it's always being used wisely." Meagan and Allison Margolis, both of Nancy Kantor of Bloomfield Hills and Bloomfield Hills Gwen Weiner of Franklin The JVS Women to Work program has been around for more than 25 years, helping women from various backgrounds and life stages enter the workforce. Among other ser- vices, JVS counselors help partici- pants develop job strategies, identify educational opportunities and work on resume writing, interviewing and networking skills. Women involved also have the chance to meet direct- ly with employers. Women to Work participants are typically unaware of the work-related skills they possess and often lack the self-confidence they need to embark upon a successful job search," reads a JVS flyer for the program. For more information, go to www.jvsdet.org or call (248) 233-4232. Jackie Layne of Bloomfield Hills and Julie Nelson-Klein of West Bloomfield March 12 2009 A17