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They're certain that that it will be embarrassing to ask for money; that providing personal details will be dreadful; that scholarship forms are long and complicated and take forever to complete. But in this economy an increasing number of families — many of them for the first time — will be seeking financial help for everything from making a house payment to one of their children's favorite activities: summer camp. Applying for a camp scholarship is, in fact, a detailed and careful pro- cess, explains the Jewish Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit's Center Day Camps Director Forest Levy. This isn't because scholarship committees are a nosy bunch with nothing else to do, but rather to guar- antee that limited money is properly distributed. Everything is confiden- tial. It begins with your call. Center Day Camps scholarships are given "until the money runs out:' Levy says, so it's good to start early. Just phone the camp office and request an applica- tion. The form will ask for basic informa- tion. The next step is the interview process, where families will have the opportunity to provide details regard- ing their finances. This is where a par- ent can explain that while he makes a decent living, he also is paying for care for a disabled relative or will soon be forced to pick up the cost of his family's health insurance or is facing the prospect of a spouse losing his or her job. All this information gives camp staff a better picture of a family's life. It's not an invasive process, Levy explains; it's an effort to understand. And what there is to understand is often heartbreaking. Levy recalls meeting up in a gro- cery store with a mom of three whose boys had been attending camp for six years. "I can't wait to see your kids this summer',' Levy told her. The woman was quiet for a moment. Then she whispered, "Actually, they won't be coming:' Her husband had lost his job, and her position didn't pay enough to afford camp. It was a painful situation at home, because the husband was ter- ribly depressed. Levy also recalls when a man, his 10-year-old daughter tagging behind him, appeared at camp the first day. He hadn't registered. He hadn't requested help. But he told the staff: "I have to go to work and I don't have anywhere else to take my kid." They didn't have money for food, either, he admitted, so his daughter was without a lunch. In so many cases, then, camp isn't a luxury. It means a child will be removed from a home filled with worry, stress and loneliness. And how, exactly, are scholarships funded? The Center Day Camps Send-a-Kid- to-Camp scholarship fund receives donations from large organizations and individuals and everything in- between, ranging from a few dollars to gifts in the thousands. The JCC also has received help from the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit, including a one-time gift from the Federation's general allocation fund and scholar- ship money from the Federation's Rebecca and Gary Sakwa Challenge Fund, created to help financially distressed families and youth-at-risk both locally and in Israel. it Elizabeth Applebaum is a marketing specialist at the ICC. To apply for a scholarship, contact the Center Day Camps office, (248) 432-5407. To make a donation to the JCC camp scholarship fund, con- tact Susan Chomsky, (248) 432-5418, or mail to Send-a-Kid-to-Camp, JCC, 6600 W. Maple Road, West Bloomfield, Ml 48322. U-M Writer Feted Ann Arbor A ssociate Professor Eileen Pollack, Zell director, MFA Program in Creative Writing at the University of Michigan, was named this year's recipient of the Edward Lewis Wallant Award for her collection of short stories, In Eileen Pollack the Mouth (Four Way Books, 2008). "Eileen Pollack has managed to take the lives of retired Jews and lift them out of the ordinary to reveal the strangeness and desperation of aging;' writes award committee member Mark Shechner of State University of New York at Buffalo. "She does it with love and ten- derness and an attention to lives that fiction usually passes by. In a voice that recalls that of the late Bernard Malamud, she writes of rueful human predicaments, the looming sense of mortality that hangs over us all, and the familiar world suddenly grown unfamiliar" The Wallant Award is presented annually to an American writer whose work of fiction is considered significant for American Jews. The award was established shortly after the 1962 death of Edward Lewis Wallant, author of The Human Season and The Pawnbroker. Past winners are Chaim Potok, Cynthia Ozick, Thane Rosenbaum, Myla Goldberg, Jonathan Rosen and Nicole Krauss. "I'm thrilled," Pollack said. "Many of the stories in my collection were inspired by my father, who was a small-town Jewish dentist [hence the title]. He lived just long enough to learn that the book had been accepted for publication — and then, as he lay dying, hallucinated that I'd been given a $2 million advance for the book! It's dedicated to his memory" Deborah Dash Moore, direc- tor of U-M's Frankel Center for Judaic Studies, said, "It's so excit- ing when a creative writer and gifted teacher wins such recogni- tion because it reminds us that Frankel Center faculty members not only study Jewish culture, they also produce it." El