Robyn and Chris were married in her parents' backyard on Watkins Lake, where the boats tooted a "mazel toy" to the bride and groom. THE DETAILS THE BRIDE Robyn Steinlauf, 28, legal and policy researcher, Brady Center to Prevent Gun Violence THE GROOM Chris Long, 30, statistician, U.S. Census Bureau PARENTS OF THE BRIDE Lori and Steve Steinlauf, Waterford PARENTS OF THE GROOM Debra Long and Michael Long, Eugene, Ore. BRIDESMAIDS High-school friends Rachel Steingold, Sari Weintrob, Vicki Sitron and Elissa Schneider; law-school friend Andrea Hannon; sister-in-law Andrea Steinlauf GROOMSMEN Brothers Matthew Long and Evan Long; friends Jason Babkes, Brandon Workman and Robert Bailey; brother-in-law Scott Steinlauf FLOWER GIRL Elizabeth Amata, 4, family friend of the bride RING BEARERS Jackson Steinlauf, 1, nephew of the bride; Connor Nelson, 6, cousin of the bride WEDDING PLANNERS The bride and her mom, Lori, who says all the work involved "was a labor of love. We wanted a nice, simple home wedding that was heimish, but also really wanted to entertain our guests in style." INVITATIONS Barbara Gerstein, Bloomfield Hills; Robyn, an avid environmental- ist, chose the invitations not only because they were pretty, but also because they were made of partly recycled paper and were recyclable. GOWN Off-the-rack bridesmaid dress from a store in Alexandria, Va. FLOWERS Designed with a tropical island theme by Lori, using locally grown flowers ordered through the Oakland County Farmers Market in Waterford and Costco in Commerce Township; assembled by family and friends MENU Catered by Rocky's of Northville, featuring an all-night open bar with mixed drinks, beer and wine. Pre-ceremony: noshes of dried island fruits (nutsonline.com ) set on hi-top tables. Post-ceremony hors d'oeuvres: crab-stuffed mushrooms, bacon-wrapped scallops, vegetable spring rolls, shrimp and crab cakes. Island-themed dinner buffet: shrimp skewers with citrus salad, chicken Robyn and Chris under the chuppah made by the bride's mother, Lori. JN platinum • FEBRUARY 2009 • B 1 7