Business & Professional We Are Family Colleagues, friends, family honor retiring probate judge. Judith Doner Berne Special to the Jewish News I is obvious that the lawyers know the routine on motion Wednesdays in Oakland County Probate Judge Barry M. Grant's courtroom. The pace is swift, the cases quickly drawn as one set of lawyer(s) and client(s) after another files before the long-serving judge. Grant, age 72, is reluctantly wrapping up 31 years on the bench Dec. 31, under a state law that forbids an incumbent judge over age 70 to run for another term. As a probate judge, he primarily deals with cases concerning the distribution of deceased persons' estates. But probate court also handles guardianships or con- servatorships for minors or adults, the involuntary hospitalizations of the men- tally ill and minors in need of substance- abuse treatment or rehabilitation. "I've always wanted to be a judge, always wanted to do public service said Grant, a Bloomfield Township resident who gradu- ated from Detroit Mumford High School, Michigan State University and Wayne State University.Law School. "My greatest strength was to mediate — saving people enormous time, stress and expense!" He hopes to open an office as a mediator — perhaps being "of coun- sel" to a law firm. Grant's advice is to explain early on to your beneficiaries what you are leaving them and treat them all as equally as pos- sible. "There's nothing worse than a fight between siblings:' he said. "My biggest achievement:' he said, "is having the ability to solve problems and reduce family strife by sitting down with families to help them settle their matters!' But he also has helped make the Oakland County Courthouse a safer place. Grant pushed for the courthouse to be first in the state to install metal detectors. And he recently won approval from the county Board of Commissioners to install heart defibrillators throughout the courthouse, another state first. His most interesting cases include one in which a former and a current wife fought over a deceased man's ashes. ("I told them to divide them up!') In another case, a homeless man found dead in the car in which he was living "suddenly acquired all sorts of relatives" when it was discovered he owned a bloc Judicial Tenure Commission, where her dad is the first Jewish person to serve as • chairman. • Indeed, Barry Grant, holder of the Eleanor Roosevelt State of Israel • Humanitarian Award and a member of Temple Israel in West Bloomfield, is proud of his long list of Jewish "firsts" (see related story). "Bill Milliken" he said, when asked to name a hero, referring to former Gov. William Milliken who appointed him to the probate court in 1976. "It took a lot of courage to appoint the first Jewish probate judge in Oakland County. He came down to Oakland County to swear me in. He had a profound effect on my career!" Just as Milliken may have influenced Grant's life's work, Grant may have influ- enced his judicial clerk, Anthony Watts, who calls out the cases and swears in liti- gants at a seemingly record speed. "I was fresh out of college [not law school]," Watts said. "He gave me a shot. He treats us like we're his family" Indeed, Grant's Dec. 4 retirement party, administered by his friend, former Oakland Circuit Court Chief Justice Barry Howard, was all about family. That includes his wife, children and grandchildren, his "judicial family" and even what William Beaumont Hospital CEO Kenneth Matzick called "Barry's other family — the Beaumont Family" "Barry has spoiled Beaumont for 30 years now:' Matzick said. Grant has served as a Beaumont trustee for 21 years and as chair of the Beaumont Hospital Research Institute. Beaumont in Royal Oak is also where two members of Grant's own family prac- tice medicine. Son Dr. James Grant, M.D., is chief of anesthesiology and daughter- in-law Dr. Lisa Grant, M.D., is a Beaumont family practitioner. Another son, Dr. Scott Grant, M.D., is a family physician in Judge Grant: "I've always wanted to be a Judge, always wanted to do public service." Birmingham. Although each of his children and of valuable stocks. ("I think we eventually for a person to go to court. grandchildren spoke at the Dec. 4 event, found one real relative') "My concern is that my successor it was 13-year-old Eric Frankel who Grant is openly disappointed that his [Probate Judge-elect Daniel O'Brien] con- assured the crowd of nearly 300, "If you're son-in-law, Mark Frankel, a partner in the tinues providing the service that I have his grandchild, you've got it made. We Couzens Lansky law firm in Farmington made a concerted effort to do over the last [Zackary Frankel, 15, Brendan Grant, 10 Hills, lost the Nov. 4 election to succeed 31 years!" and Alexandra Grant, 8] are glad that 'Pa him. However, a Grant still presides in is retiring so he has more time to spend "This is a very sensitive court to human Oakland County. His daughter, Judge with us!' needs:' Grant said. "I respect the people Nanci J. Grant, was elected to the circuit who come before me. It's very traumatic court in 1996 and is on the Michigan We Are Family on page A38 2 JIN December 25 • 2008 A37