For Friends and Neighbors Clockwise from top: Janet Tobler's Tree of Life plat- ter ($145) at Birmingham-Bloomfield Art Center, Birmingham (248-644-0866; www.bbartcenter. orgy; Extra Virgin Olive Oil ($35) at the Italian Dish, Birmingham (248-593-8299; www.theitaliandish.com); door knob wine stoppers ($34.95) at Leon & Lulu, Clawson (248-288-3600; www.leonandlulu.com ); the Cheese Course ($19.95) at the Italian Dish. janet fietcher p h o wy,roph , B 1 8 • DECEMBER 2008 • TN platinum ,