Triumunant Return for a limited engagement Special to the Jewish News Newman: Mentsh Paul Newman, who died Sept 26 at age 83, has been the subject of an amazing number of trib- utes. I was struck, however, by this passage in a Los Angeles Times article: "Friends said 14 1116110? Newman abhorred Paul Newman what he called 'noisy philanthro- py.' He felt the awards and honors offered him were excessive and once declined a national medal in a letter to President Clinton, call- ing such recognition 'honorrhea.' When people would say, 'What a mentsh you are,' he would always denigrate himself,' said friend Alice Trillin. To friends, Newman was open, if vague, about not always having lived an exemplary life. Exceptionally tolerant of oth- ers' foibles, he explained, 'I used to be a fool myself.'" The late author and educator Alice Trillin was the wife and muse of Calvin Trillin, the famous writer. The Trillins worked as counselors at Newman's first Hole-in-the-Wall camp for seriously ill children. Calvin has often recalled his father's only advice to him: "You might as well be a mentsh." Very good advice — and there was no greater mentsh than Paul Newman. While not religious, he did identify as a Jew, and every obituary is filled with people recounting how Newman was per- sonally kind to them and/or citing one of Newman's acts of philan- thropy. No surprise, then, that one of his Hole-in-the-Wall camps is located in Israel. And when a Sacramento synagogue was burned down by an anti-Semitic crazy in 1999, Paul Newman was one of the first persons to send a check to rebuild. New On The Tube Detroit-area native Selma Blair, 36, plays Kim, the daughter of Kath (Molly Shannon), in the new NBC comedy series Kath & Kim, which debuts 9:30 p.m. Thursday, Oct. 9. Kath is a 40-something divorcee who feels she can finally live her own life after long catering to the whims of her daughter, who acts like a teenager despite being in her mid-20s. When Kim marries and finally moves out, Kath starts dating. However, Kim separates from her husband after only six weeks and moves back home, complicating Kath's life. The show is based on an Australian series of the same name. Debra Messing (Will & Grace) returns to TV as the star of the USA cable network series The Starter Wife, which has its two- hour premiere 9 p.m. Friday, Oct. 10. The TV series takes off where the 2007 Emmy-nominated mini- series of the same name ended. Messing, 41, plays the ex-wife of a powerful Hollywood execu- tive who has left her for a much younger woman. She tries to rebuild a new life with her 7-year- old daughter. David Alan Basche, 40, plays Messing's ex-husband. Basche, who comes from a religious Jewish A Reiner and family, co-starred Basche in United 93 and also has a recurring role as nasty boss Mike Harness on the new NBC series Lipstick Jungle. David's real-life wife, actress Alysia Reiner, 32, has quite a list of stage, film and TV credits. She'll appear in a recurring role on Starter Wife as Cindy, another ex-wife of a Hollywood bigwig. 1111111011ET GoRRER Dg Renard Batnelpour October 18-25,2008 Order goof' tinets todag, as the precious run comoletelg sold out MICHIGAN How far would you go for love? Could you make the ultimate sacrifice? Margaret Garner examines the strength of a David DiChiera, General Director herFormeg in English Saturday, October 18, at 6:00pm Sunday, October 19, at 2:30pm Wednesday, October 22, at 7:30pm Friday, October 24, at 7:30pm Saturday, October 25, at 7:30pm Conducted by: Stefan Lana Directed by Broadway's own: Kenny Leon Starring: Denyce Graves and Tracie Luck with Gregg Baker, James Westman, Karen Slack, Mary Elizabeth Williams Ryan MacPherson, Torrance Blaisdell and Timothy Mix G. Comp The 2008 Fag Opera Season is made emit* try Ford War Company. Opening Night Sponsor mother's love in an inconceivable situation. Composed by Grammy Award winner Richard Danielpour, with libretto by Pulitzer Prize—winning author Toni Morrison FREE Opera Talk one hour prior to performance Featuring Dr. Wallace Peace TICKETS OD SOLE (IOW Call 313.237.SIOG or at michiganopera.org C 2005 Associated Music Publishers. Inc. Used by arrangement with Associated Music Publishers. Inc. BankAmerica Snee, Oct. Yttme Ws, elver Dewey Mach FamdatIon Encs., 0,....,Scasr Itlarrwca 1438100 Tashlich Time Who knew? Comedian Michael Ian Black, 37, often makes fun of Jewish stereotypes in his comedy. But every year, he says, he and his family go to a New York City bridge on the first afternoon of the New Year and casts bits of bread into the water as part of their annual tashlich ritual. "Rosh Hashanah is a time for family," Michael Ian he says. "It's about Black looking back at all that's happened to us the past year. Rosh Hashanah is a chance to start again, to con- nect or reconnect, even if only for a moment." ❑ ArvOrsillertkor Hm • up. aAa u .A Nate Bloom ;SUP Jews Saturday, November 8, 2008 8pm Ford Community & performing Arts Center 15801 Michigan Avenue Tickets: $29-$59 For tickets call 313-943-2354 or order on-line at www.dearbornfordcentercorn October 9 &s 2008 B21