Metro Affiliation Shift Hillel no longer Conservative as board votes to become a community day school. Keri Guten Cohen Story Development Editor H illel Day School of Metropolitan Detroit's board of trustees voted Sept. 10 in favor of becom- ing a community Jewish day school rather than a day school affiliated with the Conservative movement. The Farmington Hills school, founded in 1958 by Conservative Rabbi Jacob Segal of Adat Shalom Synagogue, has 550 students, the majority coming from the Conservative movement. A little less than 100 come from Reform families, and about 30-40 children are Orthodox, said Jim Berger of West Bloomfield, board president and parent of two Hillel students and a Hillel graduate. The decision was not made to stimu- late enrollment, Berger said, which has declined somewhat because of demo- graphics and the economy, and follows a national trend affecting most private schools. Hillel had 578 students in 2007- 08 and 592 students in 2006-07. "We really want to have the children cel- ebrate the similarities all Jewish children have, not the differences based on denominations:' he said. "It's the concept of being a welcome guest versus a full family member." Hillel has belonged to the Solomon Schechter Day School Association of United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism (USG)) since the early 1970s. "The decision before the board was not about which support organization to belong to; rather it was about affiliation with a particular movement:' said Steve Freedman, head of school. "Should Hillel Day School operate as a community day school or remain affiliated with just one denomination of Judaism — the Conservative movement? The board will have to examine its options regarding support organizations, but that discussion has not taken place," he said. Berger said a board committee will look at possibilities. "I hope they will continue [with the Schechter association]; they have a long and wonderful history with us:' said Rabbi A24 September 18 • 2008 Robert Abramson, director of education for the USCJ in New York. He was head of Detroit's Hillel for 14 years more than two decades ago. Hillel has been the only Schechter- affiliated school in Metro Detroit. With this decision, it becomes the only com- munity day school at the elementary level in the city. The Frankel Jewish Academy, a high school in West Bloomfield, also is a community day school. In a Sept. 11 letter to parents, Freedman said, "We remain proudly committed to our core Jewish values that have always characterized Steve Hillel and our grounding Freedman in Jewish law." He also assured fami- lies that expectations and policies regard- ing kashrut, Shabbat, admission policy (matrilineal descent), time devoted to Judaic and general studies and dress code will not change. "In a school steeped in core Jewish val- ues and guided by Jewish law;' Freedman said, "Hillel promotes tolerance, inclusive- ness and respect for all Jews, as we share a common fate. The shift in affiliation better reflects who Hillel is." The shift also parallels the trans- denominational trend now happening in America. "Because of the rise of the community day school network, schools see there is a way to convey this trans-denominational message said Dr. Elaine Cohen, USCJ associate director of education. "We think it's good for children to be grounded, but for a school to still be open and serve a wide community. In the contemporary Jewish scene, this trans-denomination is something we are definitely noting." Evolution Of Change In January, a re-accreditation process conducted by ISACS (Independent Schools Association of the Central States) began. The board decided Hillel's affiliation should be reviewed concurrently with its mission statement. A board subcommittee examined the mission statement, which led to discussion of changing affiliation from Conservative to a community day school, Berger said. In the following months, the board studied the issue of affiliation, receiv- ing input from parents, clergy, donors, a PEJE (Partnership for Excellence in Jewish Education) consultant, RAVSAK (the organization supporting community Jewish day schools) and the Conservative movement. Six informational meetings also were held for Hillel parents. Berger said a total of about 35 parents attended. "Some parents are very comfortable; some are having a hard time with it," Berger said. "Some parents know the school is a great school and will continue to be a great school." Inclusiveness emerged as a dominant theme. "First of all, I would be sad to think that [any] families that go to Hillel have felt unwelcome or second class because I don't think that's what Hillel is all about in my experience," said Dr. Jeffrey Lupovitch of West Bloomfield, whose family has a long history with the school. He and his three siblings are graduates of Hillel, and two of his four young children are there now The family belongs to Adat Shalom Synagogue in Farmington Hills and to the Sara and Morris Tugman Bais Chabad Torah Center in West Bloomfield. "A broad spectrum of families has made a home there over the years — some more observant, some less. I hope it's been welcoming already over the years. So if that's the case, this change might have very little impact at all." Still, he says he wor- Jeffrey ries that if the school Lupovitch shifts left or right along the spectrum, it might shift in a way that no longer suits his or others' needs. "There is a lot of uncertainty," said Lupovitch, who attended an informational session, as did his wife, Dr. Alissa Citron. "My impression is that people are not clear on what drove this change and who drove the change and why. "If there are litmus test issues people feel passionate about, then affiliation with a movement allows a framework to articu- late its policies:' he said. "Now, each of the movements can be the framework, then it will be difficult to justify why a particular position is the school's on any given issue." Citron said, "I was surprised and disap- pointed with the decision. We are unsure about implications for the future, but we do have a lot of faith in the headmaster and people on the board. Hillel is still the right place for our kids; we're just trusting this is a good decision despite our con- cerns and unanswered questions." Board member Susan Knoppow of Huntington Woods has two children at with a preschooler on the way. "I am very much in favor of the deci- sion," she said, speaking strictly as a par- ent. "I really believe a school is different from a synagogue. I am happy about this because I don't think the denominational divides belong in school. Hillel has been very inclusive, and I'm thrilled my kids are in school with Conservative, Reform and Orthodox children. I want my kids to know they belong to a vibrant, larger corn- munity. "I think others in the community should consider Hillel, and they may not be look- ing because they think the school may not be right for them. There is a sense — and I feel Susan it a little bit — that Knoppow there are certain rules and they belong to the Conservative movement, not their move- ment. "Those values we represent are Jewish values, may be expressed in a more cen- trist Conservative way, but I believe we can teach theses values in the school setting to everyone. I think we do it now; we can do it even better, more consciously and more inclusively. "Nothing was particularly broken that needed to be fixed," Knoppow said. "Hillel is healthy and in great shape. It's exciting to be looking forward, at the forefront of something. "As a parent, I'm excited because this presents great potential for my children and our community. I trust it's the right thing and believe that very strongly. I love Hillel. My children are happy. We've had a wonderful experience and look forward to even better." ❑