This section is sponsored by • Congregation Shaarey Zedek of Oakland County • Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit The Rockets' Red Glare How Sderot residents cope with life in a war zone. Suzi Brozman Saliman, Denver natives who have been members of Nahal Oz for 37 years. They say the arrival of Kassams has changed When residents of the southern Israeli everything in their lives. They used to city of Sderot talk about rocket attacks, love to walk, but now Eleanor says she they say "when," not "if" This town, sit- won't. There are too many snipers and ting right on the border with Gaza, is missiles for safety Her heart pounds the daily target of Kassam rockets and irregularly. Her doctor says it's stress- mortars launched from inside Palestine. induced, and he gave her medication. For more than se/en years, the piercing "You don't know how many people whistle of rockets, the loud boom of mor- are taking pills," she says. "If our chil- tar shells and the shrill tones of the Code dren were small, I don't think I could Red early alert system have punctuated continue to live here. This is our home. every activity of the city's residents. This is where we live. Our fields are the When the Code Red alarm sounds, border!' people have just 15 seconds to get to a Her husband, Don, took over the "safe room," a shelter or room in a house story. or public building equipped with a "There used to be hundreds of trucks, reinforced concrete roof Imagine being and there was a blimp here, but the in bed or in the shower or crossing the terrorists tried to shoot it down!" Their road or in a car or grocery store when home has cement roofs as well as a the dreaded siren sounds. Imagine your secure room. They try to act like they children standing on the street, waiting used to. for a school bus. Imagine being a senior "It's part of our way of life Don says. citizen living on the third floor of a build- "If we hear gunfire, we don't stop. We try ing whose safe room is in the basement. Staff photo by Suzi Brozman to go through a day like a normal day!" Don and Eleanor Saliman try to maintain a normal life on their kibbutz that's on the edge Those living here don't have to imagine Their children rarely bring the grand- it. They live with it constantly. And many of the border with Gaza. children to visit, so Don and Eleanor ignore the alerts, knowing there is no have to go to them. way they could reach safety in any event. What we found was at once shocking Israeli citizens, but only the governments, They are angry and frustrated. and reassuring. Shocking because nobody both Israeli and llamas, that seem to be "It's our home he says. "We don't want n early June, I was invited to join should have to live under the constant perpetuating the warfare without regard to leave, but the government seems to a media fact-finding trip to Sderot threat of attack, and reassuring because to the civilian populations. want that. Why aren't they doing anything and Ashkelon to learn just how resi- experts are at work to alleviate at least to help?" dents of these southern cities cope with some of the symptoms of stress. Kibbutz Life But in spite of this, they try to maintain the pressure of living in a war zone. The As for the causes of the stress, residents After a full day of interviewing students a semblance of normality — visiting answer, sad to say, is "not well!' say they are angry at the Israeli govern- aged 5 through college age, teachers and a senior citizens' center several times a Sderot has seen an exodus of any citi- ment for ignoring them. Repeatedly, we professionals, we headed to Kibbutz Nahal week, playing bridge, taking spinning zens who can afford to move. Those who heard the sentiment that if one rocket Oz. There we were to spend the night with and art classes, reading, watching TV and remain are depressed, both economically were to fall on Tel Aviv, the government kibbutzniks who live right on the border communicating with friends all over the and emotionally, from the daily struggle would respond immediately, but they see with Gaza. world on the computer. And they were to maintain some semblance of normal themselves and their town as politically I should have been tipped off when we generous and charming hosts. life. Main priorities of assistance programs expendable. were obligated to sign a waiver, but for It wasn't until we left the following include helping people deal with post- They feel helpless, knowing the some reason, the danger wasn't immedi- morning that we heard about the mortar traumatic stress problems and trying to Palestinians just across the border used to ately apparent until late that night when I attack that injured a Palestinian worker on set in place emergency reaction systems be their friends, customers, shopkeepers heard machine gun fire, and then the roar the kibbutz and, later in the week, a bar- to lend a semblance of order to a chaotic and workmen. They say they used to buy of Israeli tanks heading out to patrol the rage of 18 rockets fell. Would I go back for world. just about everything, from food to build- border. another night? Probably not, though my Our group visited schools, a military ing supplies, in Gaza — but no more. All Then I began to wonder how I could hosts hospitably invited me and my hus- base, community centers and a kibbutz to communication between the communities wake up, orient myself in a strange room band to vacation with them. learn about the conditions and the steps has been cut off. and get to the secure room in the 15-sec- But you're not safe anywhere. We had being taken to help those in the path of Though our group was not allowed to ond grace period between the phone-acti- visited nearby Sapir College that afternoon terror attacks. We visited a house that had cross into Gaza, I was able to talk with vated alert and the landing of a Kassam in and the school took a direct hit just min- taken a direct hit. We climbed a hill to several Arabs later during my stay in places you don't want to think about. utes after our departure. Danger certainly stare down at the border. Jerusalem. They, too, do not blame the My hosts were Don and Eleanor is a fact of life in this part of the world. 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