To Do! Calendar from page B17 Start reading the book Exile, by Richard North Patterson, for the JPM/JCC Book Club's discussion group 1 p.m. Thursday, May 22, at the Oak Park JCC. (248) 967- 4030. Concerts Come to the Farmington Civic Chorus spring concert, "Every Day of My Life," 8 p.m. Friday and Saturday, May 9-10, at Seligman Performing Arts Center at Detroit Country Day School, 22305 W.13 Mile in Beverly Hills. $15; or $12 in advance: (248) 669-4146. Catch the Detroit Chamber Winds & Strings' performance, starting with an 8 p.m. reception, Friday, May 9, at Hagopian World of Rugs, 850 S. Old Woodward in Birmingham. Tickets: (248) 559- 2095 or the Web site www.detroitchamberwinds.org . Consider the tragic tale of forbid- den love in La Traviata by Verdi in weekend performances May 10-18, at the Detroit Opera House, 1526 Broadway. Schedule: 7:30 p.m. Friday-Saturday; 2:30 p.m. Sunday. Tickets: (313) 237-7464 or www. michiganopera.org . Enjoy the stand-up comedy of Jerry Seinfeld at shows 7 and 10 p.m. Friday, May 16, at the Fox Theatre in Detroit. Purchase tickets ($48-$78): OlympiaEntertainment.com or (248) 433-1515. Event Hotline Find books and also audio/visual items at a used book sale continu- ing through May 10, at Commerce Township Community Library, 2869 N. Pontiac Trail. Hours:10:30 a.m.-8:30 p.m. Thursday, and 8:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Friday and Saturday. (248) 669-8108. grams with a minimum $40 dona- tion to its annual Donor Day on Wednesday, May 14, at 29901 Middlebelt in Farmington Hills. Schedule: boutique shopping, 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m.; award-winning pho- tographer Linda Solomon speaks, 11:30 a.m., followed by lunch. (248) 851-5100. monthly flea market 8:30 a.m.- noon Wednesday, May 21, at the Oak Park JCC. Proceeds will help support the special needs program at the JCC and JARC, Jewish Association for Residential Care. (248) 967-4030. Meet leaders of Eleanor Roosevelt Group of Hadassah at its instal- lation dinner 7 p.m. Thursday, May 15, at Bentley's Restaurant, 5586 Drake in West Bloomfield. Admission: $28. Details: (248) 661-8485. Attend a free lecture by socal worker Sallie Foley on on "Cancer and Intimacy" 6:30- 8 p.m. Tuesday, May 13, at the Karmanos Cancer Institute's Weisberg Treatment Center, 31995 Northwestern Hwy., Farmington Hills. A program of Suvivorship University. RSVP: (800) KARMANOS or www.karmanos. org/suvivorshipu/registration/aspx. Take your passion for flowers to "A Blooming Good Time: Investigating Michigan's Native Spring Flora," a rare tour of Cranbrook Institute of Science's botany collection 9:30 a.m. Saturday, May 17, 39221 Woodward in Bloomfield Hills. Event includes a docent-led walk- ing tour of Cranbrook's bog and wildflower gardens. $35, discount for members. Pre-registration required by May 9: www.cran- brook.edu or (248) 645-3142. Travel by chartered bus to down- town Detroit for a tour of Ford Field, home of the Detroit Lions, and the Gem Theatre, depart- ing 9 a.m. Sunday, May 18, from parking lot at Congregation Shaarey Zedek, 27375 Bell Road in Southfield. Return is approximate- ly 2 p.m. $30 for JHS members, $33 for others; $4 discount for ages 6-12. Charge includes lunch at the Century Grille inside the Gem. Send reservation form and check to: JHS of Michigan, 6600 W. Maple in West Bloomfield, MI 48322. Call for reservation form with menu choices: (248) 432- 5517. Health Learn coping skills for the Journey Through Grief, a support group offered 7-8:30 p.m. Wednesdays, May 14-28, at Birmingham Temple, 28611 W.12 Mile in Farmington Hills. The facilitator is Cindy S. Goldman. No charge, but registra- tion required: (248) 334-1324. Find comfort at Living On, a grief support group sponsored by Hospice of Michigan, 2-3:30 p.m. and also 6-7:30 p.m. Tuesday, May 20, at HOM, 43097 Woodward, Suite 102, in Bloomfield Hills. No charge. Register with Margie Martin: (248) 334-1323. Call for a schedule of support groups that meet mornings at the Birmingham Area Seniors Coordinating Council and Center, 2121 Midvale in Birmingham. Groups include Alzheimer's, care- givers and vision enrichment. (248) 203-5270. Helping Out Drop by for Israeli dancing, begin- ners' level through advanced, 7:30-10 p.m. Thursdays, May 8, 15 and 22, at the Jewish Community Center of Washtenaw County, 2935 Birch Hollow in Ann Arbor. Session charge: $6. Details: (734) 971-0990 or a2rikud@gmail.com . Celebrate the 60th anniversary of Jewish Parents Institute, a secu- lar Jewish Sunday school, along with the State of Israel's 60th birthday, 5:30-8:30 p.m. Sunday, May 18, at the West Bloomfield JCC. The evening includes live and silent auctions, light supper, dessert and dancing. Cost: $40 couple, $25 individual; discount for advance purchase. Tickets: (248) 432-5472. Support music education with "Melody in Bloom," a silent auc- tion sponsored by the Harrison High School Music Boosters, 7 p.m. Saturday, May 10, at Costick Center, 28600 W.11 Mile in Farmington Hills. Tickets: $25; $8 for senior citizens, include appe- tizers and entertainment provided by Harrison's jazz bands and chamber ensembles. www.harrisonmusicboosters.org . Support Adat Shalom Sisterhood's fundraiser for synagogue pro- Find treasures, from household items to unusual artwork, at the Celebrate the 10th anniversary of the nonprofit Gilda's Club of B18 May 8 • 2008 The Chenille Sisters Perfect Harmony Smile at the witty, silky harmonies of the Chenille Sisters, part of the Vivace Music Series, 8 p.m. Saturday, May 10, at Birmingham Temple, 28611 W.12 Mile in Farmington Hills. $21; seniors/students get discount. Joyce Cheresh: (248) 788- 9338 or Ann Sipher: (248) 661-1348. www.vivaceseries.org . Metro Detroit at Gilda's Gala, 6:30- 11 p.m. Thursday, May 15, at the Troy Marriott, 200 W. Big Beaver. Lila Lazarus of Fox2-WJBK is the emcee. Features: dinner, auc- tions, entertainment and dancing. Gilda's Club in Royal Oak provides emotional and social support to anyone impacted by cancer. Tickets start at $100 for members. Reservations/details: (248) 577- 0800, www.gildasclubdetroit.org . Donate clothing to the Women of Bloomfield's rummage sale and help SCAMP, a camp for special needs children, and CARE House, assisting abused/neglected chil- dren in Oakland County. Dates: Friday and Saturday, May 16-17, in Bloomfield Hills. Details: (313) 532-7374. Support research and educa- tion efforts through the "Take Steps for Crohn's & Colitis Walk" 5:30 p.m. (registration starts at 4) Saturday, May 17, at Camp Dearborn, 1700 General Motors Dr. in Milford. Picnic dinner for participants starts at 6, and any- one raising $100 or more gets a T-shirt. Walk choice of one or 3.1 miles (5K). Lila Lazarus of Fox 2-WJBK is an honorary co- chair. Registration/details: www. cctakesteps.org or (248) 737- 0900. Catch Saturday Night Fever, the disco club theme for Barbara Ann Karmanos Cancer Institute's annual dinner 6 p.m.-midnight Saturday, May 17, at Stonewood Farms in Clarkston. Tickets begin at $300, and include dinner recep- tion, silent auction, raffle, enter- tainment and dancing at a private estate. Details: (313) 576-8112 or heimerls®karmanos.org . Take in a night of comedy with Jeff Allen to benefit the hunger relief organization Forgotten Harvest 7 p.m. Saturday, May 17, at Music Hall Center for the Performing Arts, 350 Madison in Detroit. Also features live and silent auctions and sponsor/patron afterglow hors d'oeuvres recep- tion. Admission starts at $25-$40 for show only. (313) 967-1500. Become a mentor to an at-risk youth in Oakland County through Mentor Connection, a non-sectar- ian program of Jewish Family Service. Details: (248) 592-2317, kholden@jfsdetroit.org . Holidays & Shabbat Stay after services for "Lunch with the Troops," an Israeli-style lunch and learn, noon Saturday, May 10, at Congregation Beth Shalom, 14601 W. Lincoln in Oak Park. Members Jerry Lapides, Arie Smargon and Bosmat Dovas will share their experiences as veterans of Israeli conflicts. Lunch charge: $12. Babysitting may be requested in advance. RSVP by May 6: (248) 547-7970. Continue the spirit of SYNergy Shabbat Weekend joining Rabbi Herbert Yoskowitz's Talmud study session 8:30 a.m. Saturday, May 10, at 29901 Middlebelt in Farmington Hills. Remaining schedule: traditional services at 9, drop-off youth services at 10:15, Calendar on page B20