HOLIDAY I TORAH PORTION Party In The 'Woods Families have fun at Aish Chanukah bash. A mong 300 guests of the Aish Huntington Woods annual Super Chanukah Carnival were a few that were longer and skinnier than the others — and even a couple who were green and orange. In one of the 10 hands-on booths set up for the event at Burton Elementary School in Huntington Woods was a guy dubbed "Reptile Man;' who was joined by live snakes — and other "family" members. Those who attended the Dec. 2 carnival were treated to Chanukah delicacies, created tzedakah boxes, designed mezuzah covers and learned about scribing from Rabbi Levi Kagan Yoni Tolwin, 2, of Huntington Woods of Oak Park. shows off dreidel-shaped artwork on his Aish HaTorah runs educational programs face. geared towards young Jewish families. "Our goal is to create positive Jewish experi- ences that encourage Jewish life integration and knowledge about our heritage said Aish director Rabbi Simcha Tolwin. "With deluxe menorah building, challah braiding and dreidel decorating, all participants got a warm feel for our Jewish heritage and the holiday of Chanukah7 - Shell! Liebman Dorfman, senior writer Ellen Lipton of Huntington Woods and her son Cory, 9, visit with a slimy carnival quest. At Blessing For The Generations Shabbat Vayechi: Genesis 47:28-50:26; I Kings 2:1-12. Jacob lives the last years of his "difficult" (Genesis 47:9) n this week's Torah portion, we find Jacob together with life in comfort and peace, surrounded by his reunited and all of his children and grandchildren. After more than loving family. This spirit of reunion, reconciliation and unity 20 years of grief over the "loss" of his son, Joseph, they is emphasized even more in have been reunited, together with his whole Jacob's blessing to Joseph, family, including Joseph's sons. And after the past hatred his son, and to Joseph's sons, As Jacob himself between his sons that caused Menasheh and Ephraim. says (Genesis 48:11): "... I never imagined the loss of Joseph, they have Jacob tells Joseph (Genesis 48:5): "... and now your two that I would see all become reconciled and live sons, who were born to you your face (again) together in mutual love and in the land of Egypt before I and behold God has came to you to Egypt, they, enabled me to see concern. Ephraim and Menasheh, even your children are to me like Reuven and ..:" And after the past Shimon." For Jacob, these "for- hatred between his eign born and raised" grandchildren are not only consid- sons that caused the loss of Joseph, ered completely equal to those of his family, born and raised they have all become reconciled within his household; but even the generation gap between and live together in mutual love and his own sons and these, his young grandsons, is irrelevant. concern. Likewise in his blessing of these, his (grand)sons, Jacob Further, the jealousy between 48:17): "... He that redeemed me from all (Genesis declares those sons that caused the hatred evil will bless these young men, and they will be called by has been eliminated. We even find the rivalry between the my name and the name of my fathers Abraham and Isaac older brother and the favored younger brother — a curse that plagued generation after generation, from Cain and These two grandsons become an integral link in the Abel, to Ishmael and Isaac, from Esau and Jacob to Jacob's chain of the generations of the future Jewish people. The other sons and Joseph — has now disappeared; even as Torah tells us further (Genesis 48:20): 'And he blessed them Jacob favors Ephraim over his older brother Menasheh. I that day saying: 'Through you will Israel be blessed, saying: "God will make you like Ephraim and Menasheh": and he put Ephraim before Menasheh:' Ephraim supercedes Menasheh, whose very name recalls the separation between Joseph and his family (Genesis 41:51): "And Joseph called the name of his firstborn Menasheh 'because God caused me to forget all of my dif- ficulties and all of my father's household!" Thus, Jacob calls upon the Jewish people to be blessed by God — and, as is the practice, to bless our children with the wish for unity, reconciliation, mutual love and respect. This is Jacob our father's blessing for us and our own prayer for our people. I I Eliezer Cohen is rabbi of Congregation Or Chadash in Oak Park. Conversations How is the blessing of Ephraim and Menasheh a model for the unity of our people despite religious, cultural and generational differences? Why does it seem so difficult for the Jewish People to really be united? Is it necessary that differences and dis- putes shatter the unity of our people? Can we dis- agree and still remain united demonstrating mutual love and respect? December 20 • 2007 A29