online identity crisis by Hades Corey "Hadas Rocks Your World." That was the name of my Web page, Sounds enticing. right? You would want to meet me, wouldn't you? In Mr. Shaheen's debate class one day last November, my friend Alex told me he had just seen my MySpace. Confused and slightly upset, I asked him if he was sure. "Well," he said. "I don't know many girls named Hadas, and there are tons of pictures of you and your friends." OK, now I was just downright scared. I knew I hadn't made a MySpace and that would never advertise myself as "Hades Rocks Your World." I quickly went online and typed in the link for the Web page. Turns out Jordyn Waterstone, a North Farmington High School junior, gets distracted by Facebook. someone used my name, face, age, location and other private information to connect with got facebook? who doesn't? more than 100 friends from all over Michigan on MySpace. My safety? My reputation? How about my sanity? I immediately started to look at social networking site can be a great tool, but also addicting, everyone I had ever met in a different light. In my mind, I questioned all of my friends by Shaye Winer he school day just doesn't seem to end. Your home- work is piling up, and you have no clue how you're going to get all of it done on time. The final bell rings, but you have to go somewhere: sports, a meeting, after-school activities or even work. You get home a little later than you thought and go to your computer to start your homework. You take out your assign- ments and books, and decide to do your research first. But then you decide to check your e-mail, and you see seven new Face- book notices. You've got to check them out, so you go to ww-w. facebook.com before the homework begins — and before you know it, you've been on Facebook for hours. Facebook has many good points and some bad. It is an ex- cellent communication tool to keep you connected to school friends or even friends who live on the other side of the world. The Web site was started in 2004 by Mark Zuckerberg, now 23, as a popular college connection site, open only to registered students as a way for them to meet each other before school started. Then the site added select high schools, then all high schools. Now anyone with an e-mail address who wants to have a Facebook can have one — even your PARENTS. New users join Facebook daily. As of this July, the site clocked more than 34 million active users worldwide. From September 2006 to September 2007, the site went from 60th to seventh most visited Web site. With all this activity, it's easy to see its popularity. What these facts don't show, however, is the addictive quality of the site. "I love my Facebook so much," said Becca Millman, a ninth- grader at the Frankel Jewish Academy in West Bloomfield. "It keeps me in touch with all of my friends all the time. Some- times I stay on it for so long, without even realizing it. I go on Facebook every single day, and there are always new things to enjoy!" Facebook talk doesn't always stay just on the computer. It's made its way into spoken language as well. "Every day I always hear comments like, 'tag me,' add me' continues on page 4B and tried to remember the last time we had gotten in a fight so bad that it would have prompted the person to do this. I thought of all the people who wrote and commented on this Web page, with the intention of talking to me. At first I was angry, then confused and finally worried. After the dust settled, I was sad, I was sad that my reputation was no longer a repre- sentation of who I really am. After 16 years, I had lost something that was really important to me. There is no way to edit the information a person puts on their personal profile. It is their space to do as they please — hence the name MySpace. You can be whomever you want and. I guess, in this case that per- son was me. So I am wondering, if egging someone's continues on page 4B teen2teen October • 2007 1B