NOTICE Jewish Apartments & Services, Inc., Jcare, Inc., JAS Hechtman I Nonprofit Corporation, JFA Non-Profit Housing Corporation. Jewish Apartments & Services Phase IV, Inc., JAS Non-Profit Housing Corporation VI, and Jewish Apartments & Services Foundation will hold their Annual Meeting of Members on Wednesday, June 13, 2007, at 5:00 p.m. at the Harriett & Ben Teitel Jewish Apartments, 15106 W. Ten Mile Road, Oak Park, Michigan, for the purpose of electing members to the Boards of Directors and for the transaction of such other business as may properly come before the meeting. Nominations for Directors are as follows: Shabbat BaMidbar: Numbers 1:1-4:20; Hosea 2:1-22. For their first three-year terms ending June, 2010: Dr. Barbara Kappy and Rabbi Yehudah Burnham. T For new three-year terms ending June, 2010: Jamie Ben, Bruce Brickman, Rabbi Bunny Freedman, Arthur Friedman, Jonathan Podolsky, Sheri Schiff, Nancy Simpson, Rabbi Jennifer Tisdale and Robin Trepeck. 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Consider a woman, out- In the midst of this seem- wardly graceful and serene, ingly prosaic report, the but inwardly distressed Bible introduces a profound because she feels unloved spiritual insight: "Take ye the and unwanted. sum of all the congregation Consider an older person in Israel ..."By what meth- who seemingly has all the od? "By their families and by material security he desires their father's houses:' but who discerns that his Every person was reck- counsel is not desired, his oned not as a separate and Ra bbi presence not welcome. A detached individual, not as Irwin Groner an interchangeable unit in a Specia I to the sense of belonging has little to do with what a person series, but rather as a mem- Jew's h News has, but rather with what he ber of a mishpachah, family, experiences. in relationship to his father's house. The Bible instructs us repeatedly An important truth is taught. One's that men and women need some- identity is established on the founda- one and something to cling to. They tions of home, family and lineage; in require the inspiration of tradition; short, on a sense of belonging. This the sense of relatedness to others; helps explain why modern man, so the security of a home. Robert Frost's rootless and insecure, feels such great yearning and deep hunger for the need definition of a home is well known: "A home is where, when you have to go to belong, to be linked with others by there, they have to take you in." ties of affection and regard. We all need the strength and sup- During World War II, London port of home and family to find stabil- was bombed so relentlessly by the ity and serenity. We need friends and Luftwaffe that children were sent to community to feel worthy and valued. the countryside. A little boy separated The imagery of Pirkei Avot ("Ethics from his mother and unaware of of the Fathers") conveys this truth so her location, reacted to his plight by vividly. "The righteous person is like declaring: "I am nobody's nothing." a tree planted by streams of water': Each of us wants to be somebody's declare the sages, "and even if all the something. This need is so strong that winds of the world blow upon it, it if we cannot belong to what is good, cannot be stirred from its place." then we will belong to what is evil. To belong to a family and to a his- What accounts for the delinquency of criminal gangs? We can understand toric community is to have one's life anchored in the soil of a profound it as the revenge of social outcasts on attachment. rl the society that has abandoned them, or so they feel. The home is uninvit- Irwin Groner is rabbi emeritus of ing; the neighborhood is a slum; Congregation Shaarey Zedek of parents are missing. The heart craves Oakland County. companionship and will accept it on whatever terms are demanded. The young who feel frustrated and rejected Conversations join together, as they turn with hostili- Each man of the families of ty and violence to that ordered society Israel was asked to camp by his which represents to them the enemy. family flag. Discuss some mod- Are the victims of insecurity, loneli- ern applications of the sense of ness and isolation limited to the poor association needed by us today and underprivileged? Not necessarily. in our lives. Material possessions alone cannot sat-