Left: Larry. Lois and Missy Shaevsky, Yale Levin, Alan Kaufman and a Zoo guide check out the polar bears. Above: Steve Strome and Yale Lvin outside the Arctic Ring of Life. very city's got one. That quintessential host or hostess for whom entertain- ing is more a way of life than one of life's obligations. And much like the legendary Perle Mesta, whose grand parties in the pre-Kennedy era were so sub- lime in every detail she soon became known as "the hostess with the mostess," today's successful event planner knows the key to a great gathering begins with, to borrow a phrase from real estate circles, "location, location, location." In southeastern Michigan, what the lilliputian Lois Shaevsky lacks in heft, she more than makes up for with a creative streak that borders on the immense. In fact, guests at a dinner she and her husband, Mark, hosted last summer had the pleasure of supping with the polar bears — literally — at the Detroit Zoological Park's Arctic Ring of Life. The exhibit tour and dinner, which was an auc- tion prize the Bloomfield Hills residents won at the Zoo's annual Sunset at the Zoo fundraiser, allowed for six couples to enjoy a multi-course, gourmet meal while the polar bears swam and sunned themselves overhead. "No one could picture [what the set up would be]," Shaevsky says when asked what her friends thought about the idea of enjoying pan-roasted sea bass with pesto tomato compote with only panes of glass — albeit reinforced — separating them from those lumbering Arctic hunters. And when her guests arrived? "They were so impressed," she says, adding that the staff at the Zoo created an elegant setting and served a truly fine dinner. There were even goodie bags, courtesy of the Zoo, for each guest. As for mixing species while breaking bread, Shaevsky says people tire of predictability and attending functions at familiar venues. Plus dinner with the polar bears was a way "to do good [for the Zoo] while introducing friends to what's new at the Zoo!' Lions, Tigers, Bears If polar bears aren't your thing, the flora and fauna at the corner of Woodward and 1-696 in Royal Oak provide a backdrop for just about any occasion year-round. Julie Wiemels, fundraising events manager at the Zoo, says in addition to reserving specific buildings — the Wildlife Interpretive Gallery with its butterfly garden is hugely popular — individuals or organizations may rent the entire Zoo property for an event. Also seeing its share of partygoers of all ages is the new Ford Education Center. "It's a cool building for a kid's birthday party," Wiemels says, explaining that the facility houses a number of themed interactive studios such as the Wet Place, the Drippy Place and the Freezing Place. As well, the Zoo offers a roster of Animal Encounters. Special occasions have been marked while eating breakfast with the giraffes or mingling with the Marconi penguins. "These programs allow guests to get up close to the animals, they get to feed the penguins and giraffes, and get to talk to an exhibit curator and animal keeper," Wiemels says, before adding, "And for the person who has everything, [the animal encounters] make great gifts." For Little Girls A mother's eyes. A father's hairline. Your mother- in-law's entertaining finesse? Indeed, we inherit more than DNA from family. To wit, Larry and Missy Mark, Lois and Larry Shaevsky enjoy the food and the view. Shaevsky of West Bloomfield earlier this year held a birthday party for their 8-year-old daugh- ter, Mallory, to which Larry's mother, Lois, gave a hearty thumbs up. Mallory and her best friends enjoyed an after- noon of girl-time at Step Outside of the Box in Clawson, which owner Cat Cahaney says is "totally girly girl." Specifically, birthday girls and their pals enjoy an afternoon of hair beading, crafting, nail polish- ing, playing games and dancing. And if they work up an appetite, which they're sure to, Step Outside of the Box serves up such treats as cheesy nachos, cotton candy and a chocolate fountain. Cahaney says parents are welcome to bring in their own pizza and such, "but The Zoo created an elegant setting and served a truly fine dinner. we've got the junk food covered!' And so, too, is the supervision. With a mini- mum of 10 little girls indulging in all things little girls love, keeping an eye out for the occasional child party pitfall can overwhelm even the most hawkeyed parent. So Cahaney has enlisted the help of nine young women — all juniors and seniors in high school — to lead craft time and games and generally keep the partygoers engaged. "[The high school students] are all on the honor roll, they're cheerleaders and dancers ... they're so dynamic and bring so much to the younger girls," Cahaney says. Location, Location on 54 celebrate: 2007 53