To Life! DUCAT1ON One Cool KAT JCC's inclusion program changes the lives of children and families. Elizabeth Applebaum Special to the Jewish News T he feel of paint was almost more than 4-year-old Anthony could bear. He didn't want anything to do with it. Nothing, nothing, nothing. Then one morning Anthony's class at the Sarah and Irving Pitt Child Development Center in West Bloomfield was working on a project. Children were asked to make hand- prints. Anthony was not interested. But Cassie Reinsmith was beside him, and she asked Anthony to give it a try. They would move slowly. "You can do this, Anthony," she said. And then he did. Anthony Dziuba of West Bloomfield has difficulties with auditory processing and sensory integration, so what's ordinary for most children can be confusing for Anthony. His mother would call his name, and he had no idea she was speaking to him. He wanted nothing to do with touching something like paint — usually nothing but good, squishy fun for children. KAT helped change all that. The Story Of KAT KAT (Kids All Together) is a Jewish Community Center inclusion program, the only one of its kind in Metro Detroit that includes children with special needs, like Anthony, in regular school, camp and other activities. The program is, of course, educational. With the help of an inclusion counselor, a child is guided one-on-one so that he understands how to participate in a class- room and better manage everyday chal- lenges. Anthony, for example, slowly learns to touch an unfamiliar, uncomfortable sub- stance like paint. Another child, easily frus- trated and unable to make friends, begins to play with others and make friends. So on a daily basis, KAT challenges chil- dren with special needs to grow. At the same time, it's always safe. Here, a child is just a child, whoever he is. When Anthony is having a tough day, when he can't complete an activity because he's just had enough, everyone understands. In fact, other children are the first to step forward. If Anthony has a difficult time working on a project, a little girl often will come over. "Here, Anthony," she will say. "You need the blue crayon for this" KAT began informally. A group of parents Anthony Dziuba, 4, of West Bloomfield gets in the groove at music class. Anthony gets some help making his hamentashen. of children with special needs were looking for specifically Jewish activities to provide "shared family experiences',' says KAT Director Ann Patronik. Initially, the program operated with a grant from the Jewish Fund and the Skillman Foundation. When that money came to an end, donors stepped forward. Among them was the Narens family. "The name says it all',' says Ed Narens. His daughter-in-law, Lea Narens of Bloomfield Hills, is a longtime KAT advocate. KAT's major fundraiser is Camp KAT, which supports programming for 100 children with special needs. This includes students in the Child Development Center, Center Day Camps, vacation-break camps, swimming and hockey. (See box for details). for more than a summer, but Julie was so impressed — she could actually see Anthony growing and developing — "that I decided to keep him at the Center in the fall. It's the best thing we've ever done for him." In the regular classroom, Anthony's inclu- sion counselor is there to give help when he needs it. KAT Director Ann Patronik says, "She should give support, but not smother." This year, Cassie Reinsmith is Anthony's inclusion counselor, and ifs a busy day in his class, where his favorite subject is Hebrew and his favorite activity is swimming. The students have lined up in the hall. Anthony wears a blue Spiderman shirt and, like all the other children, he wiggles a bit, waiting in line on his way to the kitchen for a snack. Cassie gives Anthony a hug when he asks for one, and then another. In the kitchen, the snack today is cereal. The children begin to eat, and the sounds of tiny crunching fills the room. A visitor would be hard-pressed to notice any difference between Anthony and any other child in the room. If told, "Pick out the one who is different',' whom would you choose? The boy with glasses, the girl who can only have soy milk, or the child still snif- fling a bit, long after her mother has left? Shannon Harney and Ana-Leonor Jay are the regular classroom teachers. Anthony's improvement, even since the school year began, is remarkable, they say. "His attention span is still shorter [than most children his age]," Cassie says. But there was a time when he would grab a toy he wanted from another child. Now he'll say, "Where Do We Go?" Julie and Tim Dziuba already had two little girls, high-spirited Caitlyn, now 8, and friendly Isabel, now 6, when their son Anthony was born. He was a sweetie pie and, from early on, a charmer. He had hair the color of wheat, chubby cheeks and bright-blue eyes. But he didn't talk. He was 2 and still Anthony said nothing, "Not Mom, Dad, yes, no," Julie recalls. Finally, a friend suggested the family have Anthony tested. When Julie learned about Anthony's spe- cial needs, she went right to work, arranging for her son to meet regularly with specialists and have extra help at public school. In the summer, Anthony enrolled in the JCC camp. The Dziubas never planned "I want to play with that" and wait his turn. "Anthony needs this social setting;' Shannon says. In a class with other children who have special needs he could get away with a lot. But here, good behavior is expect- ed of everyone. "I, too, have seen a tremendous growth in Anthony:' says Fredelle Schneider, director of the Pitt Child Development Center. "When he started here I would try and speak to him, but he never responded. I felt maybe it was just because he did not know me that well and did not see me on a daily basis. "A few weeks ago, Cassie happened to bring him up to the office and I started asking him a lot of questions: 'Do you like school?' What is your favorite thing to do at school?' Who do you like to play with?' With each question, he gave me a happy response. Anthony's family is optimistic that, in the not-too-distant future, Anthony will be able to manage all by himself. Credit for that success goes to the Dziubas. Each family member contributes to Anthony's continued development, whether it's driving him to a therapist's appointment or encouraging his verbal skills. Another piece of the puzzle is being put into place by KAT, his mom, Julie, says. "It is just amazing how far Anthony has come,' she says. "I don't know where we would have been without this program." Elizabeth Applebaum is a marketing specialist for the Jewish Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit. The Jewish Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit will host "Camp Kids All Together (KAT) - A Day of Family Fun to Benefit Children with Special Needs" from noon-4 p.m. Sunday, March 11, at the JCC in West Bloomfield. The event will feature a variety of entertain- ment and activities for people of all ages, including a children's stage with DJ, a rock-climbing wall, face painting, arts and crafts, basketball, a magician and a mess hall with family friendly food. This event is open to the public. Tickets are $20 per person. Children 2 and younger are free. For information, call Ann Patronik, special needs director, (248) 432-5460 or visit www.jccdet.org . March 8 2007 33