Ask The Orthodontist Parents are the Heroes in Orthodontics B ' Cole Alexander Lubin will be called to the bimah as he celebrates his bar mitzvah Saturday, Feb. 24, at Temple Israel. His Lubin parents are Mary and Jay Lubin and his brother is Drake. His grandparents are June and Marvin Rohde and Carol and Joel Lubin and his very proud great-grandmother is Rose Rubin. He is the great-grandson of the late Jack Rubin. Cole is a student at Clifford Smart Middle School in Walled Lake. His most meaningful mitzvah project is donating funds he has earned, every month for the next year, to Miracle League of Michigan, an organization that gives opportunities to play base- ball to children who are disabled. Rachel Eliana Pernick of Huntington Woods will become a bat mitzvah on Saturday, Feb. 24, at Temple Beth El. Pernick Participating in the ceremony will be her parents, Rebecca and Nat Pernick, brother Sam and sister Leah. Proud grandparents are Anne Pernick and Ann White. Rachel is also the grand- daughter of the late Larry Pernick and the late Arnold White. Rachel attends Norup International School in Oak Park. Her mitzvah proj- ects included sewing hats for children in homeless shelters and hospitals. y far the individuals with the most unappreciated role in the orthodontic treatment of a child are the parents. It is the mom or dad that bears the responsibility for making the appointment, bringing the child to the appointment, coordinating schedules, and usually being unappreciated in the process. Look at usually any mother's (and many times fathers) planners and it is amazing that an additional monthly commitment is even workable. Nelson Hersh DDS, MS Who picks the child up from soccer or dance or whatever Licensed Specialist and rushes to get to the orthodontic appointment on time? Who gets the phone call at the most inopportune time and must change their schedule at the last minute to bring the child in for some unexpected emergency? Who hears the words "I can't find my retainer"? Who worries about the child not brushing well enough, and who gets the complaining that something else is more important? The answer to all these questions is mom or dad. The parent also is the one who hears the gripes and woes of the patient. Parents are the "Heroes" of the orthodontist. It is the parent that must put the child before all else, and make a financial commitment because they know whether their child wants braces or not, it is the "right" thing to do. That is one reason why we had the expansion of our office done. We want to make things easier for morn or dad and have an environment that shows we care and appreciate the parent. The parent is the "unsung" hero of orthodontics and we tip our hats to the moms and dads who make our job easier. And lastly, here's something you rarely hear, "THANK YOU!" You may see or write us at our office for any topics you would like discussed in this biweekly column. 2300 Haggerty Rd, Suite 1160, West Bloomfield, 48323. Or call us at 248-926-4100. Nelson (Nick) Hersh DDS, MS Katzman-Zeff Licensed Specialist 1215280 N & CO CO TEm GREGATION REEGIA sT RIA OENL Sim HA AG ArNEEYpZREEDsEEK NY TOUNG ADULTS rs. Larry and Jackie Zeff of West Bloomfield are proud to announce the engagement of their son Joseph Brandon to Debra Ann Katzman, daughter of Mark and Ina Katzman of Stratton, Vt. Joe graduated from the University of Michigan and MIT, and works as a high-tech strategy consultant. Deb graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison and Boston College with a master's in counsel- ing and works at Northeastern University, Boston. Deb and Joe live in Cambridge, Mass., and will be married this May in Stratton Mountain, Vt. Halperin 50th OUlb PALACE 2007 ShUshan DON'T MISS THE SECOND ANNUAL Pia 1N LIFESTYLE MAGAZINE RAFFILEIll PRIZES INCLUDE: a day at the spa • dinner on the town • movie tickets GRAND PRIZE: $500 gift certificate to erry and Margot Halperin celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with their children and grandchildren at the Wynn Hotel in Las Vegas, Nev., on Dec. 29. pick up your ticket at the door! 11 111111 SATURDAY, MARCH 10, 2007 • 8:30 PM THE PALACE OF AUBURN HILLS February 22 2007 61