MEMBER OF THE TRIBE QUESTIONS Who's thinking what It's been a busy fall in the life of MARLA TAPPER. While the 28 year old from West Bloomfield finalized the details of her Nov. 18 wedding to Brian Young, she also helped coordinate the 15th-annual winter coat drive sponsored by her family's business, Tapper's Diamonds & Fine Jewelry. "This year, two women hand-knitted 70 new children's hats," she said. "It was just amazing." Marla, who handles education and development for Tapper's, says the coat drive brought in more than 1,000 coats, plus hats and gloves to be distributed through three charitable organizations: Orchards Children's Services, Grace Centers of Hope and the Baldwin Church and Center. This year, coats were dropped off Oct.16-Nov. 19 at Tapper's, the Jewish Community Center in West Bloomfield, Hillel Day School of Metropolitan Detroit, the Jewish Academy of Metropolitan Detroit, Yeshivat Akiva, the Detroit Jewish News and the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit. The spirit of giving has also moved Marla in the past. Two years ago, she started the Dress for a Dream program, collecting and distributing donated prom gowns for needy teenage girls. To date, more than 3,500 gowns have been donated — giving young girls the chance to feel as beautiful as Marla felt in her wedding dress. Here, we ask the newly- wed our version of the Four Questions. PLATIN WHAT BOOK, CD, MOVIE OR OTHER MEDIA ARE YOU LONGING TO SHARE WITH OTHERS? One of the most memorable books I've read is Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom. The major theme throughout the book is the develop- ment of the relationship between Mitch and his mentor, Morrie. As time passes, the mentoring rela- tionship between them changes hands. This type of friendship is very rare. I believe a relationship like theirs has a major impact on a person. Like it did with Mitch, this type of relationship can change the direction of a person's life, influence their deci- sion making and build self esteem. I love this book because Mitch reconnects with an earlier relation- ship and it changes his outlook. One of my favorite quotes is, "The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in." IF YOU COULD HAVE BRUNCH WITH ONE BIBLICAL OR HISTORICAL JEWISH FIGURE, WHO WOULD IT BE? I'd like to have brunch with some of the Israelites who were led by Moses during the Exodus from Egypt. About seven years ago, I had the opportu- nity to visit Egypt. Since then, I've been fascinated by the story of the Exodus, and I've tried to imag- ine how people who lived at that time accomplished what they did. Standing at the bottom of the pyra- and why? raids, I tried to visualize what it would be like to work in the conditions of the desert, with no elec- tricity, cranes, architects, cement mixers, etc. They had none of today's technology or machinery but were the generation who established our nation and received the Torah. Their liberation from Egypt is the symbol of freedom that we celebrate as we live freely today. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE JEWISH FOOD? Every Rosh Hashanah, I look forward to my mom's homemade challah. It's my great- grandmother's recipe, and my mom only makes it once a year. It's the best! After that, I would say potato latkes. They're fried potatoes — who wouldn't love that? WHAT WOULD PEOPLE BE SURPRISED TO KNOW ABOUT YOU? I think that people would be most surprised that I love dogs, especially big dogs. I have an English bulldog named Minnie Lou who we lov- ingly refer as our zaftiker hunt. I also have brand new dog named Chloe; she is an English mastiff and already weighs 90 pounds at only 6 months of age. I wish everyone could enjoy the unconditional love of a pet, and the continuous laughter and joy that it brings every day. ❑ JN lifestyle magazine PA. T /.[ 714- COTTONWOOD HILLS FARM METAMORA COUNTRYSIDE! Cottonwood Hills, a fabulous horse farm situated on over 39 lush and rolling acres is within commuting distance of Metropolitan Detroit. Built in 1849, this historic home with over 3,200 sq. ft., boasts spacious rooms, modern amenities and gorgeous views. Cement and steel horse barns, indoor riding area and numerous outbuildings. 1,200 sq. ft. Artist Studio overlooking spring fed lake and pond is heated and has central air. Paved road. Comfortable year-round living or weekend retreat! Call today for further information. $1,950,000 (810) 664-8524 COLDWOLL. BAN Ke.R Whitman-Pope M1R,RWir . ;._ To Find more about advertising opportunities Call 248.351.5100 38 • DECEMBER 2006 • JNPLATINUM