OTHER iEWS The Giving Table New York T his week, as we gather with family and friends at the Thanksgiving table, grateful for the many bless- ings that are ours, we must not for- get the countless people across this continent and around the world that do not share in this prosperity. While many of us will gather in warm, well-lit homes to partake in traditional holiday fare — turkey, stuffing, cranberries and pump- kin pie — others, lacking even the most basic necessities, will be "celebrating" in shelters and soup kitchens or, worse yet, huddled cold and hungry in cars, aban- doned buildings or on our streets. For the wealthiest nation on the planet to tolerate the despicable reality of 37 million citizens who are poor and at risk — an increase of more than a million in the last year alone — we have a lot of deep soul-searching to do. One in five American children — 13 million in all — lives in poverty and is at risk of going to bed hungry. Every day, countless working adults struggle to pay for housing, food and clothing while vulnerable seniors are shelter. We can orga- forced to choose between nize food drives in food and shelter, between our workplaces and heat and prescription synagogues to col- medications. lect what is needed Jewish tradition teach- by food pantries and es that we are required soup kitchens, not to feed the hungry: "If only during the cold there is a needy person Rabbi Marla J. winter months, but Feldman among you, one of your also throughout the kin in any of your settle- Community year as well. We can ments in the land that View offer time and energy the Eternal your God is to help local social giving you, do not harden service agencies your heart and shut your hand assemble food baskets for holiday against your needy kin. Rather, you distribution. must open your hand and lend According to Jewish lore, when whatever is sufficient to meet the we engage in such acts we merit need" (Deuteronomy 15:7-8). redemption: "At the time of Couple this with the talmudic Judgment, everyone will be asked, mandate to "support the poor of `What was your occupation?' If the non-Jew along with the poor of you answer, `I fed the hungry, you Israel" (Gittin 61a) and we know will be told: 'This is the gate of the what we must do. Eternal; you, who fed the hungry, If we take these words to heart, may enter"' (Midrash Psalms our celebration of Thanksgiving 118:17). should include opportunities to serve those who are most in need: Even More We can volunteer to pur- Indeed, these acts are an important chase, cook, deliver or serve start; and we should commend Thanksgiving meals to those in those who toil daily to address the need of a warm holiday dinner human needs that surround us. through a local soup kitchen or But they are not enough, and they do not fulfill our obligation to pur- sue justice. The lasting changes that need to be made will not be made in food pantries, in homeless shelters or in soup kitchens. They will be made in the halls of power and that is where we must be. Addressing hunger and home- lessness requires us to address their root causes: unemployment, low-paying jobs and high housing costs. We must raise the current low minimum wage to a level that reflects the reality of our economy. We must create more affordable housing. We must improve and expand child nutrition programs so that no eligible child in America will go hungry. We must authorize appro- priate funding for the programs that we know work to help needy families move out of poverty and into self-sufficiency. And we must ensure that government programs provide adequate funds for child- care subsidies so parents can work or get an education. Only a comprehensive plan that addresses all of these issues will alleviate hunger and homelessness in America. Systemic change will not come about easily; we must be willing to say "no" to the status quo, to acknowledge that the way things are is unacceptable and that we have an obligation to change it. As others have said, where there is an injustice, the Jew feels out- rage; where there is suffering, the Jew hears a call to action. Indeed, it is our responsibility to tell our elected officials — from our city council members to our represen- tatives in the state legislature and Congress, to the president — what values we want to govern their decisions. Inspired by the lessons of our people and the commandment to pursue justice, we must, this Thanksgiving and always, heed the call to speak truth to power and promote economic justice for all. in St. Ignace with the Native Americans. Worse, I pictured images of the Spanish Inquisition. (Tainted by Mel Brooks, all I could think of was the History of the World Part I version.) Nonetheless, I had to find out more than this poorly worded blog question was willing to tell me. It turns out that Rabbi Yoffie was asking the congregations to say to potential converts, "We would love to have you." He also made it clear that "special sensi- tivities are required. Encourage, but do not insist. And if someone says, 'I'm not ready, listen:' verting, I would know where to turn. And [would feel comfort- able doing so. So, thank you to Rabbi Yoffie for giving my family and me reassur- ances that Judaism will continue to welcome us. I do not see this as an endorsement of intermar- riage –L nor should it be. But, by encouraging families like ours to make Jewish choices, you are help- ing to ensure the health and vital- ity of our synagogue communities across the country. I know that some see this as controversial. Will the initiative guarantee that interfaith families raise their children as Jews? No, it won't. However, it certainly gives them a far greater chance. 0 For information about what you can do, visit www.rac.org. Rabbi Marla J. Feldman is director of the Commission on Social Action of Reform Judaism. She formerly was on staff at the Jewish Community Council of Metropolitan Detroit. A Reason To Be Thankful Ann Arbor A lthough I am apprecia- tive for many things all year round, sometimes it takes a month containing a holi- day with the word "Thanks" in it to motivate me to publicly thank someone. In this case, I would like to acknowledge Rabbi Eric Yoffie, president of the Union for Reform Judaism (URJ). At last year's URJ biennial in Houston, Rabbi Yoffie presented his Initiative, which takes the Jewish Reform out- reach revolution to the next level. Among other things, it supports interfaith families by recogniz- ing and honoring the non-Jewish spouse. While I don't feel that I person- ally need recognition, I do believe that this is a major step forward in welcoming interfaith families. It lets them know that they have a place in the Jewish com- munity. Many interfaith families often feel that they don't belong to any community at all. They are unsure if they are invited. This directive makes it perfectly clear that they have a home. According to Rabbi Yoffie, "When a spouse involves [himself or] herself in the activi- ties of the synagogue; offers sup- port to the Jewish involvements of husband or wife; attends Jewish worship; and, most important of all, commits to raising Jewish children, he or she is deserving not only of welcome but of our profound thanks." A message such as this is heartwarming to those already belonging to a synagogue. More importantly, word will spread and encourage non-affiliated interfaith families to make Jewish choices, much as my wife and I did many years ago. We send our children to Hebrew school because we know that they are welcome there.We participate in temple functions as an entire family because I know that I am a member — even though my wife is the Jewish spouse. I have not converted, but I often find myself living Jewishly. This leads to another one of Rabbi Yoffie's initiatives: inviting conversion and supporting those who are in the process of conver- sion. When I first read this last year, as a vague media blurb on a Web site, I was puzzled. Obviously intending to provoke controversy, it read, "How do you feel about Rabbi Yoffie's initiative to convert more people to Judaism?" I had images of Pere Marquette The Right Message I like this message. It is not necessarily for me — I still feel strongly connected to my Protestant religion. However, I am grateful that our rabbi and community care enough to ask. If I were ever thinking about con- - Jim Keen is a freelance writer and columnist for InterfaithFamily.com . He is the author of Inside Intermarriage: A Christian Partner's Perspective on Raising a Jewish Family (URJ Press). November 23 g 2006 31