Obituaries ways tOS hop 'He Set An Example' David Sachs Senior Copy Editor B y his own actions, Gerson Bernstein inspired his four children to work for the common good. Son Barry is a local leader in Vermont; son David is active in his synagogue in Ohio. _ In Detroit, the community has benefited from the efforts of Mr. Bernstein's two daughters, Penny Blumenstein, first female president of the Jewish Federation (1998-2001), and Wendy Wagenheim, current president of the Jewish Community Council. "He gave his children the most precious gift of life: a value, to give to your community by service said Barry. "To give to those in need, with- out malice and from the heart" "Community service was in his blood;' said Rabbi Joseph Krakoff of Congregation Shaarey Zedek, noting Mr. Bernstein was a synagogue officer and chaired the budget committee for a decade. He also was co-chair of Detroit's 1966 mission to Israel, headed the Allied Jewish Campaign's industrial committee and served on the JVS board. "You can tell your children lots of things:' said Penny, "but if they see you doing things, it's even more effec- tive. "He set an example for me to be an optimist and a realist:' she said. "You have to dream and look at the bright side of things — but you also have to be realistic about what you can accomplish. "He always dreamed big; and if EVELYN ANCHILL, 86, of Southfield, died May 21, 2006. She is survived by her daughter, Gail Anchill of Southfield; sons and daugh- ters-in-law, Allan and Rhona Anchill of Farmington Hills, Byron and Shellie Anchill of Farmington Hills; grandchil- dren, Jennifer (Ryan) Barish, Denise (Ian) Sweet, Brett, Brooke and Karley Anchill; great-grandson, Maxwell Barish; brother-in-law and sisters- in-law, Herman (Bebe) Anchill, Mary Singerman and Shirley Singerman. She was the beloved wife of the late Charles Anchill; sister of the late Ruth Singerman, the lite Henry August, the late Morris Singerman, the late Phillip every dream did not come true, he went on to the next big dream." Mr. Bernstein, 91, a native Detroiter of Boca Raton, Fla., died May 14, 2006, of heart failure. For nearly 69 years, he was married to Lee, "the great love of his life said Penny. They met and first spoke on May 13, 1935, and, ironically, shared their last words together on the same date 71 years later, the day before he died. "They had this beautiful affair of the heart:' said Penny. Mr. Bernstein graduated University of Detroit at age 20, established a CPA practice in 1936 and was joined by his father 10 years later. He left accounting practice in 1962 and chaired Ferndale- based American International Aluminum until retiring to Florida in 1971. But he soon became bored, Penny said. He invested in Monnig's Dept. Store chain in Ft. Worth, Texas, living there for 14 years. "It was one of the most productive times of his life she said. "He helped found Downtown Ft. Worth Inc. It becanie a very vibrant downtown. "At the same time, he was an officer or board member of so many things. He was president of the arts council and opera company, chair of the local March of Dimes and was involved in the Jewish federation!" Mr. Bernstein took pride in the accomplishments of his four children, said daughter Wendy. But he was not always so subtle in inspiring his children to be activists, she admitted laughingly. "He always told us he would can- cel his subscription to the Jewish . Singerman, the late Paul Singerman and the late Mark Singerman. Interment at the Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the American Heart Association or to the Juvenile Diabetes Association or to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Chapel. AARON S. BERK, 45, of Livonia, died May 18, 2006. For 10 years, he was a computer programmer at Compuware. Mr. Berk is survived by his wife, Carol Berk; sons, Derek Berk, Brian Berk; his identical twin brother, Bradley Berk and his wife, Marcia Berk; at jCW S 1 COT nline at w.jewish.com Gerson Bernstein News if he didn't read of Penny or me weekly. "Someone who knows us told me at shivah that it's so obvious where the gentle strength comes from — your father. "My father did have this gentle strength," Wendy said. "He never raised his voice; but he knew exactly what needed to be done, and he was always there to take care of it" In addition to his wife, his children and their spouses, Gerson Bernstein is survived by siblings and many grandchildren and great-grandchil-. dren. For a listing, see last week's IN, page 82, or the Web site JNonline.us . At the funeral at Ira Kaufman Chapel, son David's daughter Kathy Fromson, a cantorial soloist in Cleveland, recited the 23rd Psalm. Interment was at Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit or the Jewish Community Council, both at 6735 Telegraph, Bloomfield Township, MI 48301; the Joint Distribution Committee, 711 Third Ave., New York, NY 10017; or Congregation Shaarey Zedek, 27375 Bell, Southfield, MI 48034. LJ brother and sister-in-law, David and Wendy Berk; sister-in-law and brother- in-law, Gail and David Losey; nephews and nieces, Alex and Josh Berk, Sara, Kristen and Drew Losey; grandfather, Frank Morgano. He was the devoted son of the late Raymond and the late Sharon Berk; dear son-in-law of the late Mike and the late Theresa Kashetsky; loving grandson of the late Edythe Morgano. Contributions may be made to Congregation Beit Kodesh, 31840 W. Seven Mile, Livonia, MI 48152. Arrahgements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. rder from our catalog 66-JUDAICA hone us at 66-JUDAICA Obituaries on page 122 J May 25 • 2006 121