lace Levin compares the situation to that of an abused child. "Chronically abused children tend to blame themselves," Levin explains. ``The child doesn't want to believe they are in a situation over which they have no control. They want to believe they have control, and if only if they behave a certain way everything will be OK." But it's not only children. "Adults want to avoid hopelessness, too',' he says. Being under siege creates a "psychological corrosiveness" where victims "embrace the indict- ment" and "rationalize the Arab assault': he says. This causes them to blame themselves or other Jews for the lack of acceptance of a Jewish state. He says this explained why Israel's socialist founders blamed the religious and bourgeoisie Jews for bringing anti-Semitism onto all Jews, believing that new Jews would be accepted by their Arab neighbors and end anti-Semitism. Similarly, he says, many Jews on the political left, even after the collapse of Oslo and the election of Hamas, believe that peace is possible if only the Israeli hardliners didn't stand in the way. He says their belief in a Palestinian peace partner has more to do with their own needs than a rational analysis of the Palestinian reality. "The siege is not about to end': Levin says, adding that religious and ethnic minorities are mis- treated throughout the Arab and Muslim world and Jews should not expect to be treated any better than the others. While not denying that keeping territory poses demo- graphic challenges to the Jews of Israel, hardships to the Palestinians and plays into the Palestinian . desire to stay connected to Israel in the hopes of destroying it from within, he says "security has to override these real concerns." This, together with "education, education, education" can help Israel cope with these difficult times that are not about to end soon. Bob Rollinger of West Bloomfield found Levin's analysis convincing. "There is a natural human motivation to want others not just to tolerate you but to actually like you:' he says. "But we don't have an awful lot of control, if at all, about when there is going to be peace. There are only 14 million of us and there are 200 million of them." ❑ If it's passover supqLiTA d... BARTON'S l l cu f ALMOND KISSES 5 f■ JSZN ITMN ITZ WINE 99 99 Kosher for Passover Assorted flavors. 750 ml 10 oz. reg. 799 Limit 4, expires 4/20/06 unit 4, expires 4/20/06 WARREN COUPON WARREN COUPON ■ i I TZ I MA i AIRTIM MACAROONS 00 2 10 oz Assorted flavors reg. 3 99 Limit 4, expires 4/20/06 WARREN COUPON COCA COLA BARTON'S CANDY 00 ANY JUDAICA GIFT 1000 or more. Cannot be com- bined with any other offer. Boxed candy any product of 599 or higher cannot be combined with any other offer Limit 4, expires 4/20/06 2 Liter, Regular or Diet, plus deposit Kosher for Passover Limit I per family, expires 4/20/06 Limit 4, expires 4/20/06 COMING APRIL 12 FREE PASSOVER HAGGADAH with any purchase of Judaica or Passover merchandise over $20.00 MAH-JONGG SCORE CARDS regular & large print *see store for details p * PRESCRIPTIONS at 14 Mile • FARMINGTON HILLS (Next to Nino's/Strawberry Hill) 2910 hilltiDLEBtit 248 855-11 March 30 • 2006 19